RizzyKing

I think the problem here is that today there is little for the kids that set out to cause trouble to fear there is little or no retribution for their actions and in that environment people want something. It is ok to constantly harp about abuse towards kids but the fact is as always the vast vast majority of people are not abusers they would never commit abuse but they do want to have options in the area of control.

How many times have we heard numerous people\groups talk about a fear of some of our youth and the problems from that. This is not something that applies i would say to even 85% of kids today but that 15% are a problem and the influence they are having is a bigger problem that we are not addressing and dealing with.

I am not talking about a world where every kid walks about in fear of some kind of beating for the smallest infraction they might do but a world where we protect everyone from that element that is hell bent on disruption. It all stems from this attitude of understanding and the "there must be a reason for it" thinking rather then the acceptence that sometimes some people are just that way inclined and if there is nothing in place to stop them they will continue to push and push.

We see it in a few areas these days our approach to kids the way our system tends to deal with the criminal element and while it is all well and good to worry about their rights and welfare you do so at the expense of the majority who are not a problem do not cause disruption but are constantly victims of it from others we don't deal with.

We have to get back to a position of shunning those who disrupt who harm in anyway others and put them in the background where they belong and refocus on the people who are doing their best to achieve and contribute. Right now there seems to be more reason to be disruptive then to behave and that is a systemic problem which we have got to deal with putting the attention into those who do behave.