We got felix (Yes I know Felix lol) when he was around 8 weeks I think. He was kept indoors for the first year (We were always scared that if he went out we would never see him again). He now comes and goes as he please's.
Thinking about it more it could be to do with the fact we have a dog that could be making Felix feel unappreciated ?? Although they do get along very well and respect each other's space. I think he even thought the dog was his mother at one point when he was younger.
Its more of a learn as you go experience here this being our first cat. He likes to sleep ALOT ! but I just find this is normal. I read the odd book and sometimes when he does something strange I will look it up on the net but I think at the end of the day that all cats are diffrent. They really do have their own personality and our is just grumpy lol.
Still wouldnt swap him for anything and he is loving when he wants to be. I think he is just trying to show he is boss at times lol. Strange how you become attactched to your pets so fast isn't it
Look at me going on lol I will try to keep my post's shorter now
EDIT** Sorry to OP for high-jacking your thread.