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I have to say that all the gay people I've met have been perfectly ordinary people except for, as kymmy said, their choice of partner - and the physical side of their relationship concerned me no more, or no less, than any 'straight' couples I've met. None of my business, so it doesn't bother me.

I've only once ever been 'hit on' - including during 6 years at a boys boarding school, so I don't get the idea that gay people are somehow trying to 'convert' others to their perspective - any more than I get the idea of trying to 'cure' them so they become 'normal'..

As for 'genetic' versus 'non genetic' homosexuality, I don't think either have been proved & seems to me to be part of an unhealthy obsession with trying to find out why some people fall in love with people of their own sex, when all we really need to do is accept that it happens - moral or religious 'crusades' or labelling aren't going to change how people feel about each other ???

I suppose it comes down to being selfish - so long as I'm comfortable with my sexuality, I don't really give a damn about any-one else's & can't really understand some why people get so concerned about it ???