I have no knowledge or expertise on this - but I wondered if you have support from somewhere online like this:
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group...ting_Syndrome/
or read this?
http://www.pediatricweb.com/seattle/...?ArticleID=797
Your doctor should be able to point you to somewhere more helpful? Have you asked?
I'm sorry that you don't always get support from family or friends.