Thread: Annoyed
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Old 26-02-2008, 21:30   #8
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Re: Annoyed

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Originally Posted by Sirius View Post
Nice friendly post . Hope you get the same sort of answer next time you ask a question.
the initial post sounded like a vent of anger and narrative of circumstance as opposed to a request for help... with such lines as (and I quote) "Manager that spoke to her has left the venue and now she is downstairs in tears and today is her birthday.", it seemed to me that most people would prioritise their family before sitting in front of the pc to type out what has happened in their personal life on a forum, especially whilst one of the said family was in tears and obviously in need of some comforting.

my comment was aimed at getting the user to take a step back from their red-misted moment and see that what they were doing was not helping the situation at all at the present time, and that they were better situated with their loved one so she may be comforted and reassured that everything will be ok.

of course, Margaret may well be quite happy to cry downstairs by herself on her ruined birthday whilst her fiancé goes upstairs to chat in forums, and if this is the case, I apologise for my out-of-place advice. I guess I need to study harder at my psychology classes...
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