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Originally Posted by Jefferson T
well I've been told I am on more than one occasion, and I don't feel one hundred percent capable of giving him the care needed anymore. So yes I think that makes me a bad parent.
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I don't feel classes would help though.
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Originally Posted by Incognitas
I'm sorry dilli but that is completely below the belt...talk about kicking someone when they are down...  Alright you have a problem and yes maybe you cannot care for him in the same way anymore but it does not make you a bad parent. |
well... obvioulsy i only joined yesterday, so i have no clue whats surrounding these comments (none of my buisness)
but reading what incognitas said, they are right... and whoever told you, that you were a bad parent ought to have thought before they spoke.
you obviously love your child, or your child and the comment would never have sprung to mind.
a bad parent IMO, is one that has a child, and dosnt care, and would not even recognise that they were neglecting their child, as they are ignorant to the fact that they arnt coping, because they dont care..... there is a vast difference to not coping, and not caring.
i know a few parents who havent had custody of their children, but are good parents, and love them very much.
i also know of a few parents who think parenting is all about sticking £50 in their hand, and letting them roam the streets till 1am with their mate, cos they dont care.
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Originally Posted by superbiatch
If kids came with Haynes manuals, i'd have one tomorrow!  |
well exactly!
i mean, being a parent is not only the hardest job, but its the longest job you have.... and its the only job that donst come with instructions
