I don't want cheap hosting (thanks for the plug) - I want to be able to securely relay through my ISP if they can't give me a static address which I can fight to have removed from the RBLs. I never ever, ever had any problems whilst with ZEN.
Also - where does it say I can't host my own mail server? Quite to the contrary:
http://www.virginmedia.com/digital/s...hp?storypage=1
Thanks, nonetheless.
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