I use bluetooth and don't even touch PC Suite, my dongle came with Bluesoleil software, it was a bit like this
http://www.mobilefun.co.uk/product/12612.htm
When i turn the bluetooth on it's simple to transfer and all my files are in my folder on my chosen folder. So no PC Suite- bliss! Also in that case you don't need the CD that came with the phone. In my opinion Nokia's software just confuses matters, but maybe that's because i've got used to using bluetooth?