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Originally Posted by zinglebarb
assertive aggression
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Sorry, but if you understand the concept between being, assertive, passive and aggressive, it should be known that you can only be one and not both. I have been assertive in this thread. I am standing up for my views, whilst allowing others to voice their views.
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Originally Posted by zinglebarb
I strongly feel if I had posted as strongly as you have using the terminology you have I would have been warned now or moderated at the very least and told to calm down.
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No you wouldn't because none of my posts breaks the T+C. Yes I have been quite vocal, but that isn't against the rules. I think you have been just as vocal from the outset in this thread, you haven't been warned at all now have you?
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Originally Posted by zinglebarb
It does not matter if its meant aggressively it matters how it perceived. Who moderates you Mike?
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Don't mean to picky but I'm noticing you keep calling me Mike, It's
Mick btw. Again, I ain't been aggressive, I have been assertive and stayed within the confines of this sites terms of use that absolutely still apply to me, even though I even wrote some of them myself.
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Originally Posted by zinglebarb
I am really upset by whats happened to maddy but ive tried to get a point across that could stop it happening again
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You're not going to do that posting on an internet discussion forum. Never and you would be foolishly naive to think otherwise.
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Originally Posted by zinglebarb
ive explained it quite clearly but my opinions and views have just been totally dismissed by you
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I haven't dismissed your views, I simply don't agree that it is right to be so judgemental at this current stage of Maddie's abduction and I have quite clearly justified why I don't agree with you and others who post the same view. If I was dismissing such views, I wouldn't offer you a reason for doing so, I'd just simply say 'Wrong' and not offer any explanation.
I'm going to back away from this thread for a while because whilst I have been quite vocal - I do agree that others need to express their views, so I'll unsubscribe for now.
I think part of the problem is that some are being put out that I can be quite vocal, for a team member, this is who I am and I am not always as active as I have been these last few weeks and if people remember me from the early nthw days (2001 onwards), I was just the same then and I wasn't on the team then and I didn't have the same issues like I am having now. When I am deep in debate, some people need to ignore my avatar, I am speaking as a person, not an admin. If I was speaking as an admin, I wouldn't be participating in the thread.
Peace.