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Originally Posted by zinglebarb
you wouldnt seeing as iirc you were doing the complaining. Saying she may be dead isnt gonna help find her is it? It was said voicing recriminations wouldnt be helpful. How helpful has this thread been in finding her? it isnt which is what I said ages ago
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There are ways of 'helping' other than finding her - such as bearing in mind that people connected to the family could conceivably come across this discussion.
'Helping' them might consist of not adding to their grief by making accusations against the parents.
As I said, I don't think examination of the parents' role is off-limits, I just think it's one of the subjects that can afford to wait until later.