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Originally Posted by Incognitas
Sorry but she will be loved and wanted if she has a part in the decision.I would have hated to have been presented with a ring I'd not been consulted about.After all marriage is a partnership is it not?So if you leave out your future partner from such a decision you are more or less saying that she is less than equal in the partnership.Just take it from me that any woman would rather be consulted in this.I've been wearing the engagement ring WE chose together for 30 years now and I still cherish it.
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no thats far from the case, from my perspective it would be about the suprise of being presented with something so beautiful and ellegant.
i guess i just have a diffarent way of doing things, but hey thats me
