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Originally Posted by kronas
no,  i want to suprise her, its something i want to do on my end of the partnership, cost should not be a worry rather the elegance and style of the ring itself, will that impress her and make her feel loved and wanted ?  |
Sorry but she will be loved and wanted if she has a part in the decision.I would have hated to have been presented with a ring I'd not been consulted about.After all marriage is a partnership is it not?So if you leave out your future partner from such a decision you are more or less saying that she is less than equal in the partnership.Just take it from me that any woman would rather be consulted in this.I've been wearing the engagement ring WE chose together for 30 years now and I still cherish it.