Thread: A good balance?
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Old 01-09-2004, 14:20   #22
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Re: A good balance?

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Originally Posted by Macca371
I think the computer has done much more harm than good to me. I have lost all my social skills and I now get crippling social anxiety when I'm talking in a large group of my peers. I also get recurring depression.

I spend most of my day on a computer, have done since I was 11. My mum and dad always told me to get out but I didn't understand why. Now I do.

I think that the age period between 11 and 18 is about learning to interact with your peers so that you grow into an adult sucessfully. I think that the computer has definately done more harm than good. It is an addiction and even though nowadays I limit myself to 2 hours per day, it has done some permanent damage with my social skills, or at least, it will take many years to develop them again.
I still have fun with my friends, and I understand that all my time shouldnt be spent on the computer, if anything, I enjoy talking to my mates, etc. more than the computer, its just I find the computer more interesting than going to town with my mates..
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