[greencreeper]

One important point is that gay men are just like straight men in terms of desire - this has already being touched upon. Just because I'm gay and I chat to a male, doesn't mean I want to bed them. In my case I prefer older men (at the very least in their mid-twenties) and, for example, I have a thing for tall men just like a straight man might have a thing for women with black hair and green eyes.