[kronas]

Originally Posted by jtwn

kronas, by saying this i dont mean turn yourself into somebody you arent, but i doubt you are as ugly as you make out, im sure alot of people think this way.

i sincerely doubt that.

Originally Posted by jtwn

Small things to boost your self-esteem like after ive been to the barbers, theres that small bit of extra confidence or if im wearing a particular t-shirt...i know it sounds very materialistic and a crap view that people judge you on looks first, but i just find that thats how our youth society ticks, i do try and keep in with small things like that, but am still a free spirit.

i was thinking about buying a particular shirt, *hint avatar *hint but its more or less the lack of confidence that allows me NOT to wear such a thing...

Originally Posted by jtwn

Maybe you can get a job? (sorry if you alread have...im clueless on people here :s) preferably where you'll be meeting people (what job doesnt?!) and im sure your confidence will grow with it.

i had a job, but had to leave because of illness.

Originally Posted by jtwn

I know you said that you wouldnt do weights, but since i have been doing it i find it uplifts my confidence. Not that the girls like a buff looking person, im not the person to flaunt my body in any way, and wouldnt, but it does rise your self-confidence.

i do need some muscle, but physically and dieterally its not possible right now.

Originally Posted by jtwn

but hey kronas, your hormones are still raging, what says that in a few years you wont be so complied to feel you have to have a girl...but then again you probably will be by then

im not hormonal in that sense, as i said before you have needs, wants, expectations, you want to do things which you cant do with freinds, you want something special something diffarent, that something where you can share things moments....

Originally Posted by jtwn

I think most people fear rejection or feel they are not up to the job, heh theres no harm in trying? If somebody doesnt like you move on, its no loss to you, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Good luck

i dont fear rejection, i can handle that, its just the approach play, and being confident enough to go up to someone, start a conversation.... atleast i dont have a habit of saying the stupidest things....i hope