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It's true, I think the majority look at the outside only. You have to be positive and "smile" a lot, I have met women in clubs and they have been very nice people as not all of them are just looking for a quick one night stand. On the other hand I have looked at dating sites and in my age bracket mid-late thirties it seems to be full of divorced women with half a dozen kids that think guys are all nasty ****! It made me wonder why they were on there looking for another one.  |
i used to smile all the time.....i try and do it as much as possible, i suppose i have come to expect what you get from a woman in their late 30's but i dont discriminate, let alone becoming a toyboy
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I often go out with my mates and I guess most of them could be described as better looking than myself, but I am usually the one to attract the nice women because I am polite and smile. (I know some will find that hard to believe)
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thats what i do, and i believe you
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Dating sites are not the answer if you think you are not attractive, you will not get very far without posting your photo and if you do start chatting they will want to see what you look like pretty quickly.
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i have put my picture up on a few sites, i thought why not
its only the net
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Best of luck Kronas, the only real advice I can give and it will probably sound unhelpfull is "Women can always spot a desperate bloke, they can smell the desperation aftershave a mile off. I usually get chatted up by women when I am not looking myself, if you go out with the attitude that you are looking for a woman tonight, you will not find one or at least end up with something very unsuitable"
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im not really desperate, i dont show it, its just that a couple of things run against me.