[kronas]

Originally Posted by Incognitas

kronas I think it's a case of you will have to go OUT and find them.They will not come knocking at your door.

i have been out, but there only so many places you can go though, i suppose im just not used to relating to people who are strangers, making the relative moves i am a VERY shy person.

Originally Posted by Incognitas

However you need to sort out your issues of self esteem first.Until you have confidence in yourself you will have problems.scastle is right it's about the aura you put out,not looks and that comes from accepting who you are yourself.Once you stop worrying about what people think is the moment you can begin to show people who the real kronas is like.

i have always had self-esteem issues, but my personality and chraricter has carried me over. but when your down on yourself about alot of things it can knock you off balance on what you want to do, achieve, faliure comes naturla so then things start to fall apart, it shows in your facial as well as verbal expressions.

Originally Posted by Incognitas

Besides you are only 18,you have PLENTY of time.

yes, but i have expectations, wants, needs, in order to achieve them and gain the stability of being with someone its diffarent....

Originally Posted by Incognitas

I was a late starter myself(too busy studying,too shy,too concerned with the fact I wore glasses and wasn't like Twiggy).When I look at my photos of my 16-18 year old self I'm amazed I thought I was ugly.So it is about building your self-confidence up.Once you have that you can conquer anything.

Incog.

the thing is i do wear glasses, and i AM ugly.....

Originally Posted by greencreeper

I only know only of gay dating sites - not much use to you

unless im on the 'turn'

Originally Posted by greencreeper

Remember that if you go looking for something, at best you'll only find what you're looking for.

true.

Originally Posted by greencreeper

Be careful of the online world - the place is knee deep in people with issues and problems. My MSN contact bares testimony to this I am constantly fending off dirty old men on my other community (OUTintheuk). Plus I have a few stalker trolls (rare hybrid - thankfully).

Good luck and don't put yourself down.

yes i know what you mean safety is a priority, giving too many details away is a no no, im well aware of that thank you though.