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Originally Posted by towny
Personally I wouldn't, although I think if we are going to fully embrace the concept of civil marriage as an arrangement for the time being rather than a lifelong commitment, we should look at ways of recognising that at the outset rather than fudging it at the other end with messy, painful divorce law. For the record, I think a 'quickie' divorce obtained at Tescos would be likely to be just as painful in the long term for the family involved, especially if there are children - my parents took a very long and gradual road to separation to minimise the stress on us but it was still awful. I can't imagine what shock might be suffered by a young child forced to come to terms with a sudden divorce.
I do have a problem with easy divorce from a Church marriage because the Bible does have very clear teaching on the permanence of marriage in God's eyes. I have no objection to people choosing not to believe this, but when they choose not to believe it yet insist on appropriating something sacred to me just so they can get married in a quaint building and have nicer photos ... well, that upsets me a little.
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My comment came across as a bit flippant which wasn't my intention. The reason I ask is that I was married (years ago) in a registry office, and plan to have a church wedding next year now my partner and I have been together over 5 years, a couple of people told me the priest wouldn't mind too much as the marriage wasn't somethinged or other under god and as far as the church was concerned, I wasn't actually married (in a religious sense).