Ok, have sobered up now and can help with point 5, mounting the ntfs drive
First we need to check a few things, if you could open a console and type in:
cat /proc/filesystems
and tell us if you see NTFS in the list, this will tell us if you already have the necessary drivers for reading NTFS (from what I can tell it is most likely you will, but best to check first).
Then if you could type in the following, you may need to
su first as punky suggests:
fdisk -l
Look for the line where the system has NTFS in it and make a note of the device, which will be something like
/dev/hda1, if you're not sure post the list (or pm it).
Once we've done that we can sort out how to get it mounted.