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Originally Posted by Xaccers
So if she's on benifit, she just gets the benifits she'd get anyway, but the father still has to pay, so the CSA/gov cream off his wages.
Damn this is all so wrong.
A friend found out her husband had been having an affair, which produced a child. The mistress took him to the CSA, and they contacted my friend to see how much she earnt because they would take that into account when deciding how much money her husband should pay this other woman!
She told them to get stuffed.
He ended up having to pay about £400 a month I think, even tho the mistress was earning about £30K
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Are you saying the father shouldn't pay out for the child at all?
I just wish the divorce courts and courts in general would at least give equal access to both parents and equal custody to both parents.It only makes sense and then prevents one half of the parenting unit from lording it over the other.It's time that the outmoded and outdated attitude that only a mother can take care of a small child was revised espcially in this day and age of equal rights.
However I believe that the rights of the child HAVE to be paramount at all times.What is best for the child must be the first and main issue.Children are not property as some parents seem to think and deserve to be put first by BOTH parents.
Incog.
