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Originally Posted by Xaccers

I think it was on a recent show about baylifts where a single mum had a debt, the father was giving CSA contributions, but because she was on benifit, she didn't get a penny of it which confused me. Any one know anything about this?

The family courts need a good overhaul, this idea that the mother is automatically the best parent is stupid.

Family courts have no power over it now. They actually apologised to me because of the way the CSA were treating me. Believe it or not the CSA women stood up in court and DEMANDED TO SEE THE DOCUMENTS I GAVE THEM. Yep and the court didn't say a thing to her about the way she behaved!.

If the mother if on DSS she may not get any of the contributions. It all depends on how much the father is left with. DSS try and claim moneys back for what they are already paying the mother. My ex however was getting moneys from both which is why I was always left skint