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Old 17-03-2004, 18:08   #10
Graham
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Re: another abuser caught

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Originally Posted by Pierre
To a paedophile having sex with children is "normal". It is their sexual orientation. You can't cure a paedophile the same way you can't turn a straight person gay or a gay person straight.

Which is why it is ludicrous to let these people back into society, because they WILL reoffend. They will not be able to suppress their urges.
I have to disagree with that, because it's like saying that, for instance, someone who becomes a Monk would never be able to hold to a vow of celibacy as hetero-sexuality is *their* sexual orientation.

The trick is to help the paedophile understand that, no matter what they, personally, may feel about children, those feelings are *not* reciprocated (unless the child has been groomed/ brainwashed/ coerced) and that acting upon them *will* hurt the child and cause them suffering.
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