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Originally Posted by stuartbe
I was moved between loads of schools when I was younger as I had a big bullying problem. I had both legs broken, my arm broken, My jaw broken and I was kicked where you should not kick several times. I had to have an operation later on in my 20's to repair the damage......
This was the only school where the bullying stoped. Two children from my old school transfered with me and on the first day it started again. The headmaster pulled us all into the office and told us what would happen if the bullying started up again.
IT STOPPED......
I am not advicating beating children. There is the world of difference between a beating and a smack.
When our family first moved to Luton we lived in one of the mose crime ridden and violent areas. All the kids were stealing cars and doing lines of charlie...
My and my brother did not do this - Why - becouse my dad would have given us both a good hiding...
The cane was never used all the time I was at that school. The fact that it was there and could be used was enough of a deterent.
I dont have kids but when I do they will be brought up the way Lesleyann and I fell right for them. I would only smack my childeren in the most serios of cases.
I have some very good freinds that use smacking when it is needed. They have 4 children 4,8,13,15 years old. They are polite, well manered and would never steal anything.........
In my experience it does not hurt and I believe that the reason that kids behave as they do now is becouse there is no dicipline...
My 2p's worth !
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that is a shocking story mate
, i think sometimes just the thought of what might happen is enough to stop anything happening