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Originally Posted by Jerrek
Just look at the animal kingdom. Ever tried to take an egg from an ostrich? Or a cub from a lioness?
I find it hard to swallow that you, as a woman, don't know this. Maybe you should ask someone who just had a baby. I find it even more ironic that a GUY is telling you all this. If you want to disagree, fine, disagree. You may not feel a special kind of love to your own child, but I know it is true for most other mothers.
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i never disputed the fact that there isnt a bond between a mother and child, that was not the point i was getting at...however i had a problem with your original statement.... i think a child can be loved by same sex parents.....a child needs and deserves love and i am not going to question where they get it from as long as they get it
i love my nephew with all my heart, i love him as though he was my own child....i have been part of his life from when he was a mere hour or so old...but biolgically he is not my child....does that retract from the love that i give him? NO
and funnily enough i do know that i am a women, and just because it is someone male who is telling me does not change anything, you are coming across as increidbly patronising