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Originally Posted by kronas
we all have regrets, but as i said before you should not be selfish of yourself, i would not expect much from the parent who gave me the chance of life.
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But that's the point...
I (or you) might decide to donate sperm today for altruistic reasons: helping a couple that can't have children (btw your sperm is preferred, as you are 20 years younger than me). This knock on the door comes 20 years later, when you may be facing issues you couldn't dream of when you decided to donate. Why would you be selfish if you want to remain anonymous when your deed was altruistic to start with?
Let's face it. You don't know who what your life will be like 20 years down the line, or who is going to be at the door (being a firm believer in nurture when it comes to social behaviour)
Kronas: you could be knocking on my door
