i see your point russ, i really do....
I bet your one of those people that truly believes in fate?!?!? I'm not knocking anyone or anything if they do... that includes you russ..
I.e. if your meant to get hit by a bus then you will type of thing?!?
See i believe i am in control of my life... if i want to stay in bed i do, if i want to go out and get hammered i do, if i want to buy a new CD i do.... I am in control of anything i choose to do... There maybe consequences for my actions, but that is still my choice!!!!
See my point to this?