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Rillington 01-05-2024 14:38

Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
These past few years has seen the increasing trend of men not wearing a tie with a jacket, even in the most formal of settings, which until recently was extremely rare but is now commonplace. I'm curious to know people's thoughts on this.

Chris 01-05-2024 14:56

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
I wear a tie only when I absolutely have to. Weddings, funerals, the odd other occasion.

Shirts have not required a tie at the neck for a century or more. As it is a decorative object, I choose whether I wish to decorate myself in that way or not. That’s it, really.

Halcyon 01-05-2024 15:39

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
I started to ditch the tie about 5 years ago. It gets in the way and I think it looks nicer to just have a good quality shirt on.

Paul 01-05-2024 19:49

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris (Post 36174293)
I wear a tie only when I absolutely have to. Weddings, funerals, the odd other occasion.

Ditto. :)

Taf 01-05-2024 20:24

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
I ditched ties, the bowler hat, the cape and plus fours many years ago. Far too anachronistic.

Dude111 01-05-2024 20:44

I havent ever liked Ties.............

The other day I saw a young chap with a tie on,I would say he is 5 or 6....... I dunno why they had a tie on him but it looked quite out of place! (I guess cause I dont like ties anyway)

Stephen 01-05-2024 20:59

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No one likes or enjoys ties. You have to wear them under certain circumstances.

Huxie 02-05-2024 09:53

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen (Post 36174318)
No one likes or enjoys ties.

Wrong.

peanut 02-05-2024 10:28

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Huxie (Post 36174355)
Wrong.

There's always one.... :D

jfman 02-05-2024 11:06

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
I don’t wear ties because the Iranians don’t.

tweetiepooh 02-05-2024 11:56

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
I last wore a tie to get my current job - Jun 1999. I wore a cravat for my wedding and simply don't wear ties at all now. I don't think I have a shirt that I can do up the top button.

Anonymouse 02-05-2024 13:53

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Ties are torture devices. I HATE ties. A more unnecessary piece of apparel there never was. On my last day at Deane Grammar I took every school tie I owned - and BURNED them, laughing like a maniac as I did, knowing it'd be years before I had to wear one again!

heero_yuy 02-05-2024 16:51

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Last time I wore a tie (and a suit) was my mothers funeral over 7 years ago.

Paul 02-05-2024 17:00

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by jfman (Post 36174359)
I don’t wear ties because the Iranians don’t.

What about the Russians ?

Chris 02-05-2024 17:01

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 36174372)
Last time I wore a tie (and a suit) was my mothers funeral over 7 years ago.

As I conduct weddings and funerals I wear ties slightly more often than that, however my experience conducting funerals is that these days fewer than half the men attending own a dark suit and a black tie. The younger they are, the less likely. The youngest men often will be in white shirt, black jeans and the darkest coat they could lay their hands on (often leather). They invariably look like they work as a waiter and have nipped out the back for a fag while it’s quiet.

I’m the last to complain as I wear a tie only when absolutely necessary, but even I acknowledge the rare, formal occasion when dignity requires a uniform response from those attending, and I know (from having lost my black tie more than once and having to buy another one at short notice) that it isn’t expensive to own one and keep it in the back of the wardrobe for when required.

RichardCoulter 02-05-2024 21:52

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Coincidently I have recently been listening to an article that claims that ties are a symbols of masculine authority/superiority because they are essentially an arrow pointing to the penis!

There are discussions about this on the internet too.

Maybe ties are falling out of fashion because, even subconsciously, the younger generation wish to distance themselves from this??

Hugh 02-05-2024 22:01

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36174394)
Coincidently I have recently been listening to an article that claims that ties are a symbols of masculine authority/superiority because they are essentially an arrow pointing to the penis!

There are discussions about this on the internet too.

Maybe ties are falling out of fashion because, even subconsciously, the younger generation wish to distance themselves from this??

Or perhaps that’s just bolleaux?

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar…

https://moderntie.com/blogs/news/the...-mens-neckties

Paul 03-05-2024 03:28

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36174394)
There are discussions about this on the internet too.

There are also discussions about the Earth being flat, and the moon being made of cheese, it doesnt actually make those things true ...

Pierre 03-05-2024 09:16

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36174394)
Coincidently I have recently been listening to an article that claims that ties are a symbols of masculine authority/superiority because they are essentially an arrow pointing to the penis!

There are discussions about this on the internet too.

Maybe ties are falling out of fashion because, even subconsciously, the younger generation wish to distance themselves from this??

That's right, Ties are symbol of white supremacy as wearing one mocks slaves that had metal collars around their neck, even the name "tie", is in reflection to the slaves hands that were "tied" as they were transported. It's obvious when you think about it.

The dickie bow is a symbol of patriarchy, wearing one is just like a decorative bow you would put on a present, effectively a possession, meaning that you possess all that is around you including your wife.

denphone 03-05-2024 09:47

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The last time l wore a tie was 6 years ago at our best friends funeral.

Dude111 04-05-2024 20:19

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul
There are also discussions about the Earth being flat,

Yes I have a movie from 1980 Paul that mentions the "Flat earth society" (Hopscotch)

How long has this madness been going on??

HOW COULD THE EARTH BE FLAT??? -- I DONT THINK THERE IS ANY WAY IT COULD BE!!

Stephen 04-05-2024 20:33

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
Well that would take a long time to fully cover.

Earth was believed to be flat long before we knew it was a sphere. However in recent years and decades some have decided to ignore science and fact. I've seen some YouTube videos and Netflix documentaries. There are deeply invested and even have conventions where they meet and discuss their own takes on science.

But back to topic. I only wear a tie and suit at weddings and funerals.

About 15 years ago the call centre I worked in decided that we all needed to be smarter so rules were changed and trousers shirts and ties became mandatory. It did not go down well.

spiderplant 04-05-2024 20:41

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen (Post 36174492)
Earth was believed to be flat long before we knew it was a sphere. However in recent years and decades some have decided to ignore science and fact. I've seen some YouTube videos and Netflix documentaries. There are deeply invested and even have conventions where they meet and discuss their own takes on science.

Surely they don't really believe it. I always treated it as a long-running joke.
("People all around the world believe the earth is flat")

Stephen 04-05-2024 21:15

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Originally Posted by spiderplant (Post 36174494)
Surely they don't really believe it. I always treated it as a long-running joke.
("People all around the world believe the earth is flat")

100% serious. Its embarrassing. The videos I've seen, there reasoning for it being flat are insane.

Hom3r 05-05-2024 09:32

Re: Men less likely to wear ties with a jacket
 
I didn't wear a tie in my last job, even though it was a office job I was given the same uniform as the shop floor, and a tie didn't go with the polo shirt.

But I did wear a tie when I worked for TNT AMS, except on the very hot days, but I did if I went to outstation in Belgium, regardless of the temp (one time it was 35c)


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