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Gary L 30-09-2010 23:21

Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
29 long hours they let it go on for. just put a few mattresses underneath him and push the idiot off.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england...ngham-11448726

SideWeaver 30-09-2010 23:22

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
At last, I know a good number of People I know were moaning they couldn't get in to town for Work.

Gary L 30-09-2010 23:26

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
There were plenty of opportunities to 'grab' him from what I heard. 29 hours though where he was in control. ridiculous. what's the worst that could have happened? he'd get 28 hours of attention?

Derek 30-09-2010 23:28

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
'grab him'

Don't give up the day job to pursue a career in negotiations.

Gary L 30-09-2010 23:32

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Derek (Post 35101281)
'grab him'

Don't give up the day job to pursue a career in negotiations.

He was walking around within reach of a 'grabber' elf and safedy says no. let it drag on a bit longer.

if it was anything else, they wouldn't let it go on so long.

Derek 30-09-2010 23:43

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
:rolleyes:

And when the 'grabber' either missed or didn't get a decent hold of him and he fell to his death that would all be fine would it? :dozey:

Letting it drag on isn't ideal but there really are very few options to deal with this type of situation.

Gary L 30-09-2010 23:47

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
There was a picture of him almost right next to the copper. a distance away from the fence. there were even eye witnesses saying the same thing. one thought it was a TV program being made until he heard that it was actually real.

Derek 30-09-2010 23:51

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
So if the cop had made a grab for him, missed, and he fell to his death would you be happy?

I've seen footage of someone making a grab for someone on a bridge. It didn't end well. :(

Gary L 30-09-2010 23:57

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Derek (Post 35101297)
So if the cop had made a grab for him, missed, and he fell to his death would you be happy?

I've seen footage of someone making a grab for someone on a bridge. It didn't end well. :(

Here's a pic of how close to jumping he was.

http://img201.imageshack.us/img201/4...mpyouidiot.jpg

Mick 01-10-2010 00:12

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
You really are beginning to irritate me Gary L with your boring and pointless topics. :rolleyes:

Paul 01-10-2010 00:15

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Its current affairs, no more pointless than many other topics in here :)

Mick 01-10-2010 00:17

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Fair point. ;)

Gary L 01-10-2010 00:18

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mick (Post 35101308)
You really are beginning to irritate me Gary L with your boring and pointless topics. :rolleyes:

You bore me with yours too, Mick :rolleyes: :)

Paul 01-10-2010 00:20

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
How about we get back to the topic now.

Mick 01-10-2010 00:22

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101313)
You bore me with yours too, Mick :rolleyes: :)

I owe you no apology for that, so glad I cannot acommodate your *apparent* racist and anti-muslim agenda.

Gary L 01-10-2010 00:24

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Peope were actually swearing at him and telling him to hurry up and jump.

Paul 01-10-2010 00:24

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
And how do you know that ?

Gary L 01-10-2010 00:26

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Know what?
that people were swearing at him and telling him to jump?

it was in the Birmingham Mail.

Mick 01-10-2010 00:28

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul M (Post 35101314)
How about we get back to the topic now.

Yes let's do that.

So here we have Gary L mocking the fact that it took 28+ hours to remove someone who was attempting suicide. His complete no-brainer idea is to push the person on to mattresses, useless idea if ever I heard one. The Police have polices and procedures to follow, don't let that escape your warped forward thinking Gary L.

Paul 01-10-2010 00:31

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101322)
Know what?
that people were swearing at him and telling him to jump?

it was in the Birmingham Mail.

So, because others did that you feel the need to stoop equally as low. Wow ... :dozey:

Gary L 01-10-2010 00:33

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Obviously the mattresses would be one of them things that the fireman all hold running backwards and forwards with.

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Ok, I'm being attacked here. I'll retreat.

Paul 01-10-2010 00:34

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101327)
Obviously the mattresses would be one of them things that the fireman all hold running backwards and forwards with.

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Ok, I'm being attacked here. I'll retreat.

Attacked ? No. Being shown up for what you are ? Yes.

Gary L 01-10-2010 00:38

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Err, what's that then? having an opinion about a man that threatened to jump off a bridge and distrupted peoples lives. and the police letting it drag on for 29 hours?

Paul 01-10-2010 00:46

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Thats for you to figure out, and others to clearly see. If I were you though, id hurry up, as some of the insanely stupid comments you make are taking you ever closer to that early bath from Cable Forum (you are currently one red infraction away from a permanant ban). There will also be no more discussion about it in this thread, as its completely irrelevant to the topic.

Gary L 01-10-2010 00:52

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
I won't say anymore. I think others can clearly see what's going on.

Stephen 01-10-2010 13:22

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
They didn't let it 'drag on' as you put it. They need to keep the person calm and try to talk them down. You can't rush negotiations when it comes to stuff like this.

Yea they can see that you aren't that smart.

Damien 01-10-2010 13:36

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Derek (Post 35101289)
:rolleyes:

And when the 'grabber' either missed or didn't get a decent hold of him and he fell to his death that would all be fine would it? :dozey:

Letting it drag on isn't ideal but there really are very few options to deal with this type of situation.

Does your unit have a professional trained 'Grabber'? :D

Gary L 01-10-2010 13:51

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen (Post 35101597)
They didn't let it 'drag on' as you put it. They need to keep the person calm and try to talk them down. You can't rush negotiations when it comes to stuff like this.

They got him down in the end. that's all that matters now

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Yea they can see that you aren't that smart.
Ignored.

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Damien (Post 35101608)
Does your unit have a professional trained 'Grabber'? :D

Here's the Brummie ones :D

http://www.birminghammail.net/multim...7319-27380252/

Taf 01-10-2010 14:09

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Grease all the parapets! If they go up there to jump it'll speed things up!

Gary L 01-10-2010 14:14

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
What did he do for the toilet? he must have had to use the toilet in 28 - 29 hours?
did they give him a bottle and a screen, or did he go inside the shopping centre?

Chris 01-10-2010 14:24

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
How utterly puerile.

Mick 01-10-2010 14:25

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101635)
What did he do for the toilet? he must have had to use the toilet in 28 - 29 hours?
did they give him a bottle and a screen, or did he go inside the shopping centre?

:zzz:

Gary L 01-10-2010 14:27

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
It's a valid question. I bet nobody else thought of it.

Hugh 01-10-2010 14:30

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
You're probably right - it hadn't occurred to me (I'm pleased to say).

Chris 01-10-2010 14:40

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101645)
It's a valid question. I bet nobody else thought of it.

Toilet jokes about a man contemplating ending his life? Yep, I bet nobody else thought of it. Just you, Gary.

Gary L 01-10-2010 14:49

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35101658)
Toilet jokes about a man contemplating ending his life?

It's not a joke. if he was a paedophile contemplating jumping for 29 hours it still wouldn't be a joke.

he must have had to go to the toilet for a number 2. hopefully Derek can tell us what happens in this kind of situation. especially one that lasts as long as this one did.

Chris 01-10-2010 14:51

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
The fact that you simply can't see what an inappropriate direction you're going with this is very sad and, I fear, speaks volumes about you.

Gary L 01-10-2010 14:52

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
The whole thread speaks volumes Chris.

Lord Nikon 01-10-2010 15:46

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
It's a valid question though, the guy was stood outside for over 29 hours in birmingham, irrespective of his state of mind there must have been times when bodily functions were a problem, nature must have had an influence sometime during the problem, not to mention fatigue etc. Hell, with him being on the 'safe' side of the railings there must have been opportunities for Taser usage etc, get him on the ground, get him to a safer location then deal with the psychological issues. Deploy an airbag where he will land, etc etc.

Gary L 01-10-2010 15:54

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
I agree. there were times when he was away from the railings when they could have used a taser. 1 man brought the city to a halt for 29 hours. if he was threatning to jump for anything such as he just shot a copper or raped someone. they would have took him down a lot sooner.

Mick 01-10-2010 16:01

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Nikon (Post 35101697)
It's a valid question though, the guy was stood outside for over 29 hours in birmingham, irrespective of his state of mind there must have been times when bodily functions were a problem, nature must have had an influence sometime during the problem, not to mention fatigue etc. Hell, with him being on the 'safe' side of the railings there must have been opportunities for Taser usage etc, get him on the ground, get him to a safer location then deal with the psychological issues. Deploy an airbag where he will land, etc etc.

And while he sees such air bag being set up, decides to jump before it can be pumped with air and put in situ, you cannot just rush in to this with stupid and totally insensitive ideas about pushing people over railings or shooting people with bloody taser guns. People's lives were disrupted for a day or so (No big deal at the end of the day when you talking about a Human Life) and noone had to lose their lives because of it.

Chris 01-10-2010 16:02

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Nikon (Post 35101697)
It's a valid question though, the guy was stood outside for over 29 hours in birmingham, irrespective of his state of mind there must have been times when bodily functions were a problem ... <snip> ... there must have been opportunities for Taser usage etc

That's not the question that was asked. What was asked was:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101635)
did they give him a bottle and a screen, or did he go inside the shopping centre?

Which, sadly, is a typically crass comment of the kind often made by the member in question. Also typical is his backpedalling, now he's been pulled up for it ... in this case by pretending he was trying to make a serious point.

I think most people reading this thread can see the distasteful facts of the matter though.

Lord Nikon 01-10-2010 16:10

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
I perceived it as more or less the same question, just different styles of asking. One having more discretion than the other, however to continue along this line would take the subject off topic. (I say this as the matter is being dealt with without bold being used indicating this is a discussion as members not a moderating matter)

The point remains though, surely there must have been times when restraint, even forceful restraint would have been viable, yet they were not used. I would think had the incident occurred in the US then the matter would have been resolved earlier.

As for the airbag option - simple, load it on a truck then drive it into place, while his back is turned to the railing as was clearly evident in the photo Gary placed he's not to know what's pulling up below him, especially if the bag is already inflated, or tarp over stacks of cardboard boxes (also used for arresting falls by stuntmen) There is a plethora of available fall arrest systems available that are used in this kind of jump.

Gary L 01-10-2010 16:10

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35101710)
Which, sadly, is a typically crass comment of the kind often made by the member in question. Also typical is his backpedalling, now he's been pulled up for it ... in this case by pretending he was trying to make a serious point.

There was nothing wrong with what I said. it was a serious point. do you really think people are going to gasp in disgust if it were asked on the news?

Quote:

I think most people reading this thread can see the distasteful facts of the matter though.
I think most people can see a bit more than what you think.

Hugh 01-10-2010 16:21

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101704)
I agree. there were times when he was away from the railings when they could have used a taser. 1 man brought the city to a halt for 29 hours. if he was threatning to jump for anything such as he just shot a copper or raped someone. they would have took him down a lot sooner.

And the difference in those scenarios is that he would have been a danger to others, rather than an inconvenience.

Gary L 01-10-2010 16:26

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35101728)
And the difference in those scenarios is that he would have been a danger to others, rather than an inconvenience.

Why would he be a danger to anyone?

It wouldn't have been allowed to happen if it were next week. and it wouldn't have lasted near as long if it were in London.

next week is the Cons conference.

Stephen 01-10-2010 16:32

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
It would last as long as needed no matter where and when it was.

Look at the Raol Moat case, the Police took their time and tried to talk him down but ultimately he was a danger to others and himself.

I don't know your age but you don't seem to have much of a social understanding or common sense when it comes to certain situations or events.

Lord Nikon 01-10-2010 16:35

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mick (Post 35101708)
And while he sees such air bag being set up, decides to jump before it can be pumped with air and put in situ, you cannot just rush in to this with stupid and totally insensitive ideas about pushing people over railings or shooting people with bloody taser guns. People's lives were disrupted for a day or so (No big deal at the end of the day when you talking about a Human Life) and noone had to lose their lives because of it.

A Taser is a method of non-lethal restraint designed to immobilize by affecting the central nervous system. Like I said, get him down on the ground, then to a safer location then deal with the psychological issues, to get someone into an environment where they are no longer a threat to themselves or others is hardly a bloody stupid idea. Especially given it was reasonably evident he was only seeking attention anyway.

Remember this Mick, those who are serious about suicide don't tell anyone, don't threaten to jump, they simply do it. This guy threatened for 29 hours, at least part of the time he was on the 'safe' side of the railings. This gives opportunities to restrain him, tasering him would have put him on the ground, therefore not likely to hop the railings when the cop approached, hardly a stupid idea really is it?

(Incidentally Mick, if I may go off topic for a moment - your PM system seems to be disabled currently or I would have sent this message via PM rather than in the forum, however as you are posting as a member and not as a mod / admin I am taking this to mean I am welcome to disagree with your opinion)

Gary L 01-10-2010 16:46

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen (Post 35101736)
It would last as long as needed no matter where and when it was.

That's just assumption on your part though. you may be wrong.

I mean if it was on the popes route last week. do you think they'd tell him he'll have to wait till tomorrow?

Quote:

I don't know your age but you don't seem to have much of a social understanding or common sense when it comes to certain situations or events.
I'm of the age to have a clear understanding. Stephen.

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Nikon (Post 35101740)
Remember this Mick, those who are serious about suicide don't tell anyone, don't threaten to jump, they simply do it. This guy threatened for 29 hours, at least part of the time he was on the 'safe' side of the railings. This gives opportunities to restrain him, tasering him would have put him on the ground, therefore not likely to hop the railings when the cop approached, hardly a stupid idea really is it?

I think that's the thing. the 29 hours it took. if it had been just a few hours then nobody would be asking questions.

and I strongly agree with what you said about the serious suicide people.

Chris 01-10-2010 16:48

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
I'm astounded by the number of armchair coppers on this forum. Or are some of you in fact experienced in Police work, specifically in negotiating techniques?

This is a very specialised and difficult field. I would very much like to know who here actually knows what they're talking about.

:)

Lord Nikon 01-10-2010 16:51

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
When a friend of mine's husband committed suicide he did it in private, where no-one would know and no-one would be able to stop him.

Mick 01-10-2010 17:00

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Nikon (Post 35101740)

Remember this Mick, those who are serious about suicide don't tell anyone, don't threaten to jump, they simply do it.

Completely wrong - That is just a Myth.

Samaritans site says the following:-

Quote:

MYTH: People who talk about suicide aren’t really serious and not likely to actually kill themselves.

FACT: People who kill themselves have often told someone that they do not feel life is worth living or that they have no future. Some may have actually said they want to die. Whilst it may be the case that some people talk about suicide as a way of getting the attention they need, it is very important that everyone who says they feel suicidal be treated seriously.
http://www.samaritans.org/your_emoti...t_suicide.aspx


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Originally Posted by Lord Nikon
(Incidentally Mick, if I may go off topic for a moment - your PM system seems to be disabled currently or I would have sent this message via PM rather than in the forum, however as you are posting as a member and not as a mod / admin I am taking this to mean I am welcome to disagree with your opinion)

You know I have my PM system off from time to time in which case you have e-mailed in before now, if you cannot get hold of me, you complained about this to another team member before and just so you know, I am quite entitled to have my PM system turned off. Also note that you can disagree with me just as much as I can disagree with you, I have never said/done anything to the contrary.

Hugh 01-10-2010 17:03

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101732)
Why would he be a danger to anyone?

It wouldn't have been allowed to happen if it were next week. and it wouldn't have lasted near as long if it were in London.

next week is the Cons conference.

The alternative scenarios you mentioned involved rape or shooting - are those not a danger to someone?

Gary L 01-10-2010 17:06

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mick (Post 35101758)
Completely wrong - That is just a Myth.

Samaritans site says the following:-

In this case though. do people think he was serious or after attention?

if people think he was serious, then you have to ask, he still didn't want to do it after 29 hours. and if it wasn't for the fact that he got tired and was 'grabbed' he may have been really serious about jumping for another 29 hours.

it's a bit unfortunate that he's been charged with 'public nuisance'

Mick 01-10-2010 17:06

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Nikon (Post 35101753)
When a friend of mine's husband committed suicide he did it in private, where no-one would know and no-one would be able to stop him.

Well that doesn't mean it is the same in every case - every suicide or potential suicide case is unique.

Gary L 01-10-2010 17:07

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35101759)
The alternative scenarios you mentioned involved rape or shooting - are those not a danger to someone?

He's already done them. he doesn't have the gun on him.

TheDaddy 01-10-2010 17:14

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mick (Post 35101758)
Completely wrong - That is just a Myth.

Samaritans site says the following.

Not completely wrong, The Samaritans say often, not always.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L
it's a bit unfortunate that he's been charged with 'public nuisance'
I disagree, why should so many people have their lives disrupted because of the actions of one man, I doubt anyone has anything but sympathy for people at their lowest ebb however that goes out of the window for me when you have people chucking themselves under tube trains and the like having seen the trauma the drivers go through.

Mick 01-10-2010 17:25

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 35101768)
Not completely wrong, The Samaritans say often, not always.

It is still wrong to say that people who talk about suicide don't go through with it. :rolleyes:

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDaddy
I disagree, why should so many people have their lives disrupted because of the actions of one man, I doubt anyone has anything but sympathy for people at their lowest ebb however that goes out of the window for me when you have people chucking themselves under tube trains and the like having seen the trauma the drivers go through.

Thanks for displaying any true lack of any understanding for people suffering from severe mental health issues, just so you can carry on living your trivial selfish life. :dozey:

Maggy 01-10-2010 17:27

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 35101768)
Not completely wrong, The Samaritans say often, not always.



I disagree, why should so many people have their lives disrupted because of the actions of one man, I doubt anyone has anything but sympathy for people at their lowest ebb however that goes out of the window for me when you have people chucking themselves under tube trains and the like having seen the trauma the drivers go through.

That's a bit harsh..What about the disruptions that people suffer when accidents occur.Shouldn't we still have sympathy for anyone injured under those circumstances? If you substitute mental illness for injury why should the circumstances be any different?Surely someone threatening to suicide count as mentally ill?So isn't disruption a small price to pay under the circumstances? :erm:

TheDaddy 01-10-2010 17:31

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mick (Post 35101779)
It is still wrong to say that people who talk about suicide don't go through with it. :rolleyes:

Nice use of the smillie there, it wasn't me that said some one was completely wrong only to be contradicted by their own link.


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Thanks for displaying any true lack of any understanding for people suffering from severe mental health issues, just so you can carry on living your trivial selfish life. :dozey:
Oh right I am being selfish because I don't like seeing friends traumatised just doing there jobs and in one case unable to return to work because of it and I wouldn't call what they go through trivial either.

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35101780)
That's a bit harsh..What about the disruptions that people suffer when accidents occur.Shouldn't we still have sympathy for anyone injured under those circumstances? If you substitute mental illness for injury why should the circumstances be any different?Surely someone threatening to suicide count as mentally ill?So isn't disruption a small price to pay under the circumstances? :erm:

Would they have charged him if they genuinly thought he was mentally ill?

Maggy 01-10-2010 17:39

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Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 35101781)
Nice use of the smillie there, it wasn't me that said some one was completely wrong only to be contradicted by their own link.




Oh right I am being selfish because I don't like seeing friends traumatised just doing there jobs and in one case unable to return to work because of it and I wouldn't call what they go through trivial either.

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Would they have charged him if they genuinly thought he was mentally ill?

Depends on exactly what he did and what he was charged with plus the police don't have the security of hindsight when dealing with threatened suicides at the time..They cannot be positive about a person's state of mind until said person is diagnosed by an expert.They have to behave as though the person is genuine.

Mick 01-10-2010 17:43

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 35101781)
Nice use of the smillie there, it wasn't me that said some one was completely wrong only to be contradicted by their own link.

Rubbish - I wasn't contradicted by my own link. What I said, pointed out Lord Nikon's assertion that people who threaten suicide don't carry it out, is not correct.

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDaddy
Oh right I am being selfish because I don't like seeing friends traumatised just doing there jobs and in one case unable to return to work because of it and I wouldn't call what they go through trivial either.

No 'Oh right' nothing...

Lose the attitude FFS. You were like this the other week - no bloody need for it !

I wasn't calling your so called friends situation trivial - read my post above again.

Gary L 01-10-2010 17:44

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35101788)
Depends on exactly what he did and what he was charged with

Quote:

At common law public nuisance is a crime for which the remedy is criminal proceedings. It is defined as an unlawful act or omission which endangers or interferes with the lives, comfort, property or common rights of the public. Probably the most well-known example of public nuisance is obstructing the highway

Read more: http://www.inbrief.co.uk/public-nuis...#ixzz117syJSbG

Quote:

They cannot be positive about a person's state of mind until said person is diagnosed by an expert.They have to behave as though the person is genuine.
But in this case they had hours to assess him. for all we know there were probably times when even the police were getting frustrated with him. knowing that he had no intention of jumping.

Chris 01-10-2010 17:56

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101791)
But in this case they had hours to assess him. for all we know there were probably times when even the police were getting frustrated with him. knowing that he had no intention of jumping.

Great, so as well as an armchair negotiator now you're and armchair psychiatrist as well.

Gary L 01-10-2010 17:59

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35101796)
Great, so as well as an armchair negotiator now you're and armchair psychiatrist as well.

Just a Psychologist, Chris. nothing more.

and as you can clearly see. I'm not stating fact. so it's called an opinion. just like you're of the opinion that I'm an armchair negotiator and psychiatrist.

Maggy 01-10-2010 18:15

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101791)
But in this case they had hours to assess him. for all we know there were probably times when even the police were getting frustrated with him. knowing that he had no intention of jumping.

You are truly unbelievable.Again you exhibit a total lack of empathy or understanding.So now the police have to be psychiatrists as well.

Chris 01-10-2010 18:17

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101801)
Just a Psychologist, Chris. nothing more.

and as you can clearly see. I'm not stating fact. so it's called an opinion. just like you're of the opinion that I'm an armchair negotiator and psychiatrist.

'Opinion' is a very broad term. It reaches from the well-informed at one end, to the idle speculation at the other.

I have my own opinion as to which end of the scale you're on.

Gary L 01-10-2010 18:22

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35101808)
You are truly unbelievable.Again you exhibit a total lack of empathy or understanding.So now the police have to be psychiatrists as well.

How long does it take you to assess a pupil, or anyone for that matter?
one day we hear about a coppers instinct. what's so different in this case?

29 hours is a very long time for 'anyone' to have an idea about whether someones intention is likely, not so likely, or most definate.

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35101812)
'Opinion' is a very broad term. It reaches from the well-informed at one end, to the idle speculation at the other.

I have my own opinion as to which end of the scale you're on.

That's good Chris. if we all had the same opinion then we wouldn't be telling others that theirs is wrong.

Chris 01-10-2010 18:24

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
I don't assess pupils ... but having been on this forum for 7 years, and moderating it for 6, I think I'm pretty good at spotting when someone's opinion on any particular subject is well-informed.

It may take a fair bit more than 29 hours. But it certainly takes a whole lot less than 3 years.

Mick 01-10-2010 18:29

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35101808)
You are truly unbelievable.Again you exhibit a total lack of empathy or understanding.So now the police have to be psychiatrists as well.

Can you imagine the average pay packet of a Police Negotiator would want to expect, who suddenly had to acquire the following qualifications, MBBS, M.D., DO, just to be able to assess if someone was serious when they were threatening to jump?

peanut 01-10-2010 18:43

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
A few years ago I had no understanding of people who are suicidal or those that have actually gone ahead with it. My thoughts were along the lines of that they are totally selfish or just complete nutters.

Fast forwards those years and there came a time where almost out of the blue I understood why they do it or have the thoughts of it. I now live with constant suicidal thoughts, but I keep it under control. To have those thoughts doesn't make me a nutter or on a danger list, it's more of a coping mechanism and they can be a comfort. I don't think I'd ever act on those thoughts, well I hope not.

The easiest way is to explain it is as if you're on a merry go round that will never ever stop (because of illnesses, pain, depression or whatever problems that can't just be fixed). After so long, you can't take anymore, but you can see that big red button that says 'STOP', knowing it is there helps the mind cope.

The selfish label can also be wrong, take depression for example, it's might be that it's not been taken seriously, there's only so many times you can ask for help, and you're on that merry go round and you're all out of options then to hit that stop button can be appealing. To label someone selfish is totally wrong, it's probaly just everyone else's coping mechanism.

There is no way of telling if this guy would or wouldn't have jumped, the thing is that he got attention, maybe that alone stopped him from jumping, I haven't read the report or know his illnesses or reasons. I hope the guy gets the help he needs, one day it could be you.

joglynne 01-10-2010 19:07

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Very well put peanut.

I have been following this thread and had decided not to post as the whole subject of this man's attempted suicide and the successful outcome has been trivialised by some who I would have thought better of.

I have a suicide plan set up and if I ever reach the point that I give up fighting to live and I feel there is no reason to carry on then I hope I have someone like the Police officers next to me rather than certain members of this forum. This man now has a chance of a future and, one way or another, I can only hope he will be given the attention and help he needs.

Maggy 01-10-2010 19:08

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by peanut (Post 35101834)
A few years ago I had no understanding of people who are suicidal or those that have actually gone ahead with it. My thoughts were along the lines of that they are totally selfish or just complete nutters.

Fast forwards those years and there came a time where almost out of the blue I understood why they do it or have the thoughts of it. I now live with constant suicidal thoughts, but I keep it under control. To have those thoughts doesn't make me a nutter or on a danger list, it's more of a coping mechanism and they can be a comfort. I don't think I'd ever act on those thoughts, well I hope not.

The easiest way is to explain it is as if you're on a merry go round that will never ever stop (because of illnesses, pain, depression or whatever problems that can't just be fixed). After so long, you can't take anymore, but you can see that big red button that says 'STOP', knowing it is there helps the mind cope.

The selfish label can also be wrong, take depression for example, it's might be that it's not been taken seriously, there's only so many times you can ask for help, and you're on that merry go round and you're all out of options then to hit that stop button can be appealing. To label someone selfish is totally wrong, it's probaly just everyone else's coping mechanism.

There is no way of telling if this guy would or wouldn't have jumped, the thing is that he got attention, maybe that alone stopped him from jumping, I haven't read the report or know his illnesses or reasons. I hope the guy gets the help he needs, one day it could be you.

:clap:

Hugh 01-10-2010 19:51

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101763)
He's already done them. he doesn't have the gun on him.

Thank you for the clarification, Gary; did he drop the gun, or did the police take it off him?

Lord Nikon 01-10-2010 20:18

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by joglynne (Post 35101846)
Very well put peanut.

I have been following this thread and had decided not to post as the whole subject of this man's attempted suicide and the successful outcome has been trivialised by some who I would have thought better of.

I have a suicide plan set up and if I ever reach the point that I give up fighting to live and I feel there is no reason to carry on then I hope I have someone like the Police officers next to me rather than certain members of this forum. This man now has a chance of a future and, one way or another, I can only hope he will be given the attention and help he needs.

I never questioned whether he had a need for help, nor whether he had a future, my only questioning was whether in the 29 hours he was there, an earlier opportunity may not have been possible to remove him from the location he was in where he had the potential to do harm to himself or others, and relocate him to where professional help was available, if that required the use of a force multiplier, which would be the taser, in order to facilitate him being restrained and less likely to jump, then surely that would have been of benefit to him? Once situations like that arise the priority has to be his safety, and treatment in that order.

joglynne 01-10-2010 21:06

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
It may have been inconvenient for some people but how can we decide what would have been a better way to deal with the man. Doesn't the fact that the police took 29 hours to resolve the situation not make you think that, just maybe, we don't know the full facts.

They can't have been unaware of the disruption the road closures were having and I doubt if they would have chosen to wait that long unless they thought using something such as a taser was not the best way to handle someone who doesn't appear to have been violent and may have serious mental problems.

Chris 01-10-2010 21:24

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
No, no Jo, you've got it all wrong. The police were involved, therefore the incident was handled with a display of total, bungling incompetence. Or at least, such is the view of a certain group of regular posters on this forum, it seems. :(

Gary L 01-10-2010 22:25

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35101865)
Thank you for the clarification, Gary; did he drop the gun, or did the police take it off him?

He threw it in the river.

Hugh 01-10-2010 22:27

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35101925)
No, no Jo, you've got it all wrong. The police were involved, therefore the incident was handled with a display of total, bungling incompetence. Or at least, such is the view of a certain group of regular posters on this forum, it seems. :(

And of course, if they had used the taser, and the man had hurt himself, it would all have the police's fault for going in heavy-handed and not giving him time to sort himself out......

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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101955)
He threw it in the river.

Which river?

Gary L 01-10-2010 22:30

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35101956)
Which river?

Does it matter what the name of it was?

The River Nile.

Hugh 01-10-2010 22:31

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101960)
Does it matter what the name of it was?

The River Nile.

I'm surprised he got it on the plane - they x-ray hold luggage, and I would have thought it would have shown up.

Gary L 01-10-2010 22:33

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35101963)
I'm surprised he got it on the plane

What plane?

Halcyon 01-10-2010 22:42

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Well how did he get to the Nile in the first place. Or did he just have an amazing length of throw.

Gary L 01-10-2010 22:51

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
I expect he flew there. he shot the copper while he was over there. and he was seen in Birmingham 2 weeks later by a copper recognising him from a wanted photofit. and was chased to the bridge.

It doesn't really matter now anyway. :)

Halcyon 01-10-2010 23:04

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Please do not make this into a film. It has so many plot holes.

Hugh 01-10-2010 23:20

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35101976)
I expect he flew there. he shot the copper while he was over there. and he was seen in Birmingham 2 weeks later by a copper recognising him from a wanted photofit. and was chased to the bridge.

It doesn't really matter now anyway. :)

But where did he commit the rape?

Tuftus 01-10-2010 23:21

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
I think that it may be my time to share an experience that i had many years ago on this subject.

I was in the loosest possible term dating this young filly. She was a honey, however I knew that she was not all there so to speak.

I thought that I would see how it went and see if i could calm her down.

I was just about to go away on holiday with my parents to France and they were due to pick me up on the way. I thought it would be a good idea to spend some time with this young lady before i went away.

In hindsight, not so good an idea.

The evening went well and we had a good time, we had a few drinks... and she left the room.

And then I went in to the kitchen.

She had a serrated steak knife against her wrist.

I will never forget the sight that i saw next, as it seemed to happen in slow motion.

The way that skin and muscle separates and goes pure white before the blood comes rushing out is mind blowing. I know thats sounds sick. But to see that happen, i will never forget it.

Naturally i called 999 and took appropriate action, which hopefully saved her life, I never did get to wear that shirt again due to the blood stain.

She *was* a nutter, but I never saw that coming, espcially after a nice evening meal and drinks.

I hope that Jenny is alive and doing better than that these days...

So, maybe that elevates me somewhat from armchair status.

Gary L 01-10-2010 23:27

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35101996)
But where did he commit the rape?

It doesn't matter :(

Hugh 01-10-2010 23:28

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35102003)
It doesn't matter :(

Surely it does, at it counts towards his mental state (environment shapes the psyche).

What was the make of the gun?

Gary L 01-10-2010 23:33

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35102005)
Surely it does, at it counts towards his mental state (environment shapes the psyche).

It doesn't :(

Quote:

What was the make of the gun?
Tomy, Toby or something.

Halcyon 01-10-2010 23:33

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Tuftus (Post 35101998)
And then I went in to the kitchen.

She had a serrated steak knife against her wrist.

I will never forget the sight that i saw next, as it seemed to happen in slow motion.


It just goes to show how unpredictable the world is and how sometimes some people can feel totally different on the outisde than they do on the inside.
Sometimes people may look like they are alright but are truly hurting inside. Life works in mysterious ways.
It was good you were there for her.

Hugh 01-10-2010 23:39

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35102005)
Surely it does, at it counts towards his mental state (environment shapes the psyche).

What was the make of the gun?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35102009)
It doesn't :(

Tomy, Toby or something.

It's strange that you state that, Gary, because earlier in this thread when you were asked if you were a psychiatrist, you replied
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Just a Psychologist
Environmental Psychology is a specialist sub-set which focuses on assessing how environmental factors affect individual attitudes, physiological reactions and health (re the basic "phylogeny versus ontogeny" debate).

Gary L 01-10-2010 23:40

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Ok. :(

Hugh 01-10-2010 23:44

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
So does it or doesn't it matter?

If it does, where did it happen?

Tuftus 01-10-2010 23:48

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 35102010)
It just goes to show how unpredictable the world is and how sometimes some people can feel totally different on the outisde than they do on the inside.
Sometimes people may look like they are alright but are truly hurting inside. Life works in mysterious ways.
It was good you were there for her.

Thankyou, I know how that feels.

Gary L 01-10-2010 23:48

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
It doesn't matter as in I don't want to play your brown nose game :(

Lord Nikon 02-10-2010 00:19

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
And yet depressive conditions / bipolar disorder can be caused by a chemical imbalance which is less likely to be environmental.

scrotnig 02-10-2010 00:41

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
If I'd spent 29 hours in Birmingham, I'd want to jump off a bridge too.

Tuftus 02-10-2010 01:10

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35102017)
It doesn't matter as in I don't want to play your brown nose game :(

Who's?

TheDaddy 02-10-2010 02:11

Re: Man arrested after 29 hours on Birmingham bridge
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mick (Post 35101790)
Rubbish - I wasn't contradicted by my own link. What I said, pointed out Lord Nikon's assertion that people who threaten suicide don't carry it out, is not correct.

Yes and you also said he was completely incorrect, he plainly isn't hence the use of the words often and some by the Samaritans in your link.

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No 'Oh right' nothing...

Lose the attitude FFS. You were like this the other week - no bloody need for it !
Love it, you wade in with the personal abuse and then question my attitude!!


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