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martyh 22-09-2010 19:23

Antinatal classes for pregnant teens
 
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Antenatal clinics could be set up in schools to care for pregnant teenagers
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Any body else think that the schools have quite enough to do already without having to organise antinatal classes for pregnant teens

This quote just about sums it up for me

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Schools exist to assist and support parents in the education of their children, not to be the panacea for every social ill.

Norman Wells, director of the Family Education Trust

Hom3r 22-09-2010 19:34

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I thing they should show them how to use that "casper the ghost" thus stopping a 9 month issue.

Hugh 22-09-2010 20:00

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I thought this quote summed it up, myself
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Rhona Hughes, chair of the guideline development group, said no British schools were currently providing antenatal classes.
But she said it was "common" in the US and had shown some success.

punky 22-09-2010 20:07

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If a kid didn't listen about contraception from school, are they going to listen to anything about looking after a baby from school?

And if kids aged 15-16 are that concerned with a baby's welfare they wouldn't have the baby in the first place.

martyh 22-09-2010 20:14

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096341)
I thought this quote summed it up, myself

success in what though Hugh? preventing teen pregnancies or normalising it

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Originally Posted by punky (Post 35096349)
If a kid didn't listen about contraception from school, are they going to listen to anything about looking after a baby from school?

And if kids aged 15-16 are that concerned with a baby's welfare they wouldn't have the baby in the first place.

Quite right :tu:

Hugh 22-09-2010 20:44

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"normalising" - an emotive phrase, imho.....

No, in supporting the young mothers to continue their education, by them not having to leave the school for a couple of hours to attend the ante-natal class elsewhere (because, whilst I might not agree with their life-style choice (and it may have been an "accident")), I believe it is important that a) they continue their education, and b) the mother and baby's health is monitored appropriately.

martyh 22-09-2010 20:51

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096405)
"normalising" - an emotive phrase, imho.....

No, in supporting the young mothers to continue their education, by them not having to leave the school for a couple of hours to attend the ante-natal class elsewhere (because, whilst I might not agree with their life-style choice (and it may have been an "accident")), I believe it is important that a) they continue their education, and b) the mother and baby's health is monitored appropriately.

I'm not sure how many of these teen mums would be interested in continuing their education ,granted some do regret it but most i fear aren't that bothered .Either way it's not something the schools should be responsible for

Gary L 22-09-2010 21:03

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I thing by having this in schools, they will make it seem like it's a normal thing for a young girl to get pregnant while she's still at school.

some girls may think at the moment that because there is no such thing that they are actually more careful. but by having it there they may not.

but if we're following America on this one, then we can only expect the worst.

speedfreak 22-09-2010 21:08

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096405)
"normalising" - an emotive phrase, imho.....

No, in supporting the young mothers to continue their education, by them not having to leave the school for a couple of hours to attend the ante-natal class elsewhere (because, whilst I might not agree with their life-style choice (and it may have been an "accident")), I believe it is important that a) they continue their education, and b) the mother and baby's health is monitored appropriately.

Completely agree. Im failing to find one negative in the idea here, help me out

martyh 22-09-2010 21:27

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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35096439)
I thing by having this in schools, they will make it seem like it's a normal thing for a young girl to get pregnant while she's still at school.

some girls may think at the moment that because there is no such thing that they are actually more careful. but by having it there they may not.

but if we're following America on this one, then we can only expect the worst.


I agree Gary , it is not normal to have children while still at school and should never be seen as such

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Originally Posted by speedfreak (Post 35096447)
Completely agree. Im failing to find one negative in the idea here, help me out

The schools have enough to do educating the little toe rags in the first place

where will these antinatal classes take place in the school? during school time ?,what lessons will they miss while having these classes ,maths ,english? which lessons will be cancelled/moved to make room for them

punky 22-09-2010 21:30

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But she said it was "common" in the US and had shown some success.
I'm interested to hear how this "success" is measured. And how much "some" is.

Taf 22-09-2010 23:27

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In my kids' school it was "girls whose first language was not English" that got visits from a local nurse for antenatal lessons... because they "didn't understand" how to arrange such support through a GP or hospital.

And the school had translators available.

superbiatch 23-09-2010 08:44

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096405)
"normalising" - an emotive phrase, imho.....

No, in supporting the young mothers to continue their education, by them not having to leave the school for a couple of hours to attend the ante-natal class elsewhere (because, whilst I might not agree with their life-style choice (and it may have been an "accident")), I believe it is important that a) they continue their education, and b) the mother and baby's health is monitored appropriately.

I agree.

Also, the risks associated with teen mums because they don't take as good care of themseves as an older woman often results in harm to the child or worse still miscarriage or stillbirth, a midwife was telling me yesterday.

Hugh 23-09-2010 10:23

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35096676)
Whatever happened to age of consent? :rolleyes:

Unfortunately, it is like the legal age for drinking - it's a legal boundary to activity, not a physical one; in an ideal world, no one would drink under 18, or have intercourse under 16 (but of course, young adults can stay on at shool until 18, so the teenage pregnancies could still "legally" occur), but we don't live in an ideal world, and this is one way mitigating the actions of those not acting ideally (imho).

Of course, we could just stigmatise them, call them toe rags, and hope the problem disappears....:dozey:

Maggy 23-09-2010 10:46

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096405)
"normalising" - an emotive phrase, imho.....

No, in supporting the young mothers to continue their education, by them not having to leave the school for a couple of hours to attend the ante-natal class elsewhere (because, whilst I might not agree with their life-style choice (and it may have been an "accident")), I believe it is important that a) they continue their education, and b) the mother and baby's health is monitored appropriately.

Speaking from experience many pregnant girls who do wish to continue with their education get all sorts of help from home tuition to special classes set up via the sixth form colleges.The other half aren't bothered and probably wouldn't attend such classes in school anyway.Not voluntarily that is.

TheDaddy 23-09-2010 11:54

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096702)
Of course, we could just stigmatise them, call them toe rags, and hope the problem disappears....:dozey:

We could also stop calling it a 'life style choice' and try bring back the sense of shame associated with such irresponsible behaviour from yesteryear all be it without the forced adoptions and sterilizations.

Pog66 23-09-2010 11:55

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I like the irony of this discussion on a Virgin forum......:D

Paul 23-09-2010 12:15

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096702)
(but of course, young adults can stay on at shool until 18, so the teenage pregnancies could still "legally" occur)

As I understand it, the rules are changing soon so that they must stay in some form of education until they are 18, unless they have a job ? I guess their must be other exceptions, not sure what they are.

Even so, a girl can currently be 16 in the September of her last year, so be both legally married and pregnant.

Hugh 23-09-2010 12:47

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Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 35096741)
We could also stop calling it a 'life style choice' and try bring back the sense of shame associated with such irresponsible behaviour from yesteryear all be it without the forced adoptions and sterilizations.

Agreed - however, it's my opinion (having had conversations with my son (just left High School) and my daughter (left 4 years ago) that the small number of pregnancies in their school were mainly due to drunkenness or ignorance, not through a "life-style" choice.

Maggy 23-09-2010 12:51

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35096772)
Agreed - however, it's my opinion (having had conversations with my son (just left High School) and my daughter (left 4 years ago) that the small number of pregnancies in their school were mainly due to drunkenness or ignorance, not through a "life-style" choice.

However I can attest after 30+ years teaching experience that for some that I have known it was a lifestyle choice.

Hugh 23-09-2010 12:53

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Totally agree, MJ - just trying to point out that sweeping generalisations are not always true, even if they are true for a subset.

danielf 23-09-2010 12:54

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What are antinatal classes? Are they teaching girls how to carry out abortions?

Osem 23-09-2010 13:34

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Nobody should be want to stigmatise or neglect girls who've made a genuine mistake (or indeed their offspring) but it seems to me that our benefit, health and education systems have evolved to accommodate and even normalise teenage pregnancy. Surely the various agencies and society in general ought to be doing far more to drive home the message to our young people that when it comes to pregnancy, irresponsibility isn't acceptable and that the welfare state will not simply continue to pick up the tab for those who blatantly ignore that message.

martyh 23-09-2010 18:00

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Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 35096741)
We could also stop calling it a 'life style choice' and try bring back the sense of shame associated with such irresponsible behaviour from yesteryear all be it without the forced adoptions and sterilizations.

Quite agree ,i would much sooner valuable school time be used in teaching kids that there are consequences to certain actions (assuming parents are incapable of getting the message accross)and getting pregnant means responsibility and sacrifice .A girl cannot expect to get drunk ,get pregnant and expect the rest of society to bend over backwards to support them ,and to be honest the same message should be drilled into teen boys as they are just as much to blame

Maggy 23-09-2010 18:09

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Originally Posted by martyh (Post 35096930)
Quite agree ,i would much sooner valuable school time be used in teaching kids that there are consequences to certain actions (assuming parents are incapable of getting the message accross)and getting pregnant means responsibility and sacrifice .A girl cannot expect to get drunk ,get pregnant and expect the rest of society to bend over backwards to support them ,and to be honest the same message should be drilled into teen boys as they are just as much to blame

All of that IS covered.It's taught in PHSE lessons to every year between year 7 and 11.Contraception is covered.The consequences(pregnancy,STDs) are covered,drinking ,drugs and binging are covered,grooming is covered.The majority of teachers are bending over backwards to try educating and protecting the children they teach.

However what can you do when girls aren't parented by their own parents?When curfews aren't kept,when teenagers are left to wander the streets?

martyh 23-09-2010 18:40

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Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35096938)
All of that IS covered.It's taught in PHSE lessons to every year between year 7 and 11.Contraception is covered.The consequences(pregnancy,STDs) are covered,drinking ,drugs and binging are covered,grooming is covered.The majority of teachers are bending over backwards to try educating and protecting the children they teach.

I thought that was the case ,so that means that schools are already doing the best that they can .


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However what can you do when girls aren't parented by their own parents?When curfews aren't kept,when teenagers are left to wander the streets?

That is the problem that needs to be tackled imo ,and i'm not going to pretend i have the answer,but treating pregnancies at school as normal is not the way to go .If school girl finds herself pregnant then she only has herself to blame she cannot and should not expect society to bale her out any more than it already will


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