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kronas 02-08-2004 00:53

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ok as im recovering (and getting better) from my depression, i have too much time on my hands this is bad, i spend alot of time on here and my pc, but i need something else to do, but i dont know what, i can exercise my legs in an area where i can abuse the wall with my football :p: and ofcourse be around my mates, but there is still a huge chunk of time left.

i dont watch tv (hardly)

i dont read books (i do enough reading)

so in other words im stumped.

*wishes he was working.

anyone have any bright ideas, the boredom is killing me :(

Russ 02-08-2004 00:56

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Phone up your local radio station and see if they've got any voluntary stuff you can do, such as answering the phones on busy shows etc - it's what I did to get started and now I'm on air each night and getting paid for it :D

You may even get to meet some celebs too :)

kronas 02-08-2004 00:58

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Russ D
Phone up your local radio station and see if they've got any voluntary stuff you can do, such as answering the phones on busy shows etc - it's what I did to get started and now I'm on air each night and getting paid for it :D

You may even get to meet some celebs too :)

good idea, i might look in to that toomrorow.

have a rep on me (likes to spread it about) ;)

Russ 02-08-2004 01:00

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Don't sound desperate, just tell them you're interested in finding out more about how radio stations works, stress the fact you'll do it for free and as long as you sound enthusiastic, in a years' time we should all be tuning in to Kronas FM :D

Seriously, try and find out who the Head of Programming is and ask him/her. You'd be better off calling the radio station's reception as opposed to the on-air studio number though.

Maggy 02-08-2004 01:02

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Quote:

Originally Posted by kronas
ok as im recovering (and getting better) from my depression, i have too much time on my hands this is bad, i spend alot of time on here and my pc, but i need something else to do, but i dont know what, i can exercise my legs in an area where i can abuse the wall with my football :p: and ofcourse be around my mates, but there is still a huge chunk of time left.

i dont watch tv (hardly)

i dont read books (i do enough reading)

so in other words im stumped.

*wishes he was working.

anyone have any bright ideas, the boredom is killing me :(

Are you creative?Can you draw,paint,sketch? Have you a camera?If you can do any of the former or have the latter you can take walks with the purpose of recording the area where you live.
You could take the pictures and use them to set up a website dedicated to your particular area.Or your interests.

It's late and I MUST go to bed as I'm off to London in the morning,but I will think about some other ideas for you tomorrow evening.

Goodnight and try not to stay up too late.Not after getting into a regular routine for work as you don't want to have to re-aclimatise too much when you do get back to work. :tu:

Incog. :)

kronas 02-08-2004 01:03

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Russ D
Don't sound desperate, just tell them you're interested in finding out more about how radio stations works, stress the fact you'll do it for free and as long as you sound enthusiastic, in a years' time we should all be tuning in to Kronas FM :D

will do russ, i hope you tune in to my timeslot on the station ;) :p:

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Originally Posted by Russ D
Seriously, try and find out who the Head of Programming is and ask him/her. You'd be better off calling the radio station's reception as opposed to the on-air studio number though.

thanks for the info, i know not to call the studio number, thats just suicidal :erm:

*imagines him phoning studio number and being put live on air having no idea wtf is going on :p:

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Originally Posted by Incognitas
Are you creative?Can you draw,paint,sketch? Have you a camera?If you can do any of the former or have the latter you can take walks with the purpose of recording the area where you live.
You could take the pictures and use them to set up a website dedicated to your particular area.Or your interests.

i used to be creative, although i cannot draw for the life in me, i have a camera but the surrounding area is less than flattering, not much here :(


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Originally Posted by Incognitas
It's late and I MUST go to bed as I'm off to London in the morning,but I will think about some other ideas for you tomorrow evening.

Goodnight and try not to stay up too late.Not after getting into a regular routine for work as you don't want to have to re-aclimatise too much when you do get back to work. :tu:

Incog. :)

thanks coggy ;) :) my sleeping patterns are irratic due to the lack of activity.... hope you have a safe journey there and back :)

Graham 02-08-2004 17:59

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Are there any charity shops in your vicinity?

They're always looking out for voluntary staff to help on a part-time basis and if you work less than 16 hours it doesn't affect any benefits.

Dave Stones 02-08-2004 18:16

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Originally Posted by kronas
i have a camera but the surrounding area is less than flattering, not much here :(

oh come on, go take pictures of the traffic lights, or greggs, or something :p:

you might want to get on a bus and go to a park or something to wander/take photos of nature/look like a pervert cos you are crouching in the bushes with a camera (anywhere except mirfield cos mirfield is a dump)...:erm:

or go for a walk up the steep hill out of wecky towards white lee...:shrug:

aliferste 02-08-2004 18:19

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Quote:

Originally Posted by kronas
i have a camera but the surrounding area is less than flattering, not much here :(


You would be surpised at the things that are close to you that take a good picture!

Ramrod 02-08-2004 18:54

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I keep telling you....take up a martial art :)

Colin 02-08-2004 20:44

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Kronie, Get off the PC is the main thing. Get out, Just even for walks, a good long walk always helps me think and clear my mind. Or go to the bus or train station and pick a place you want to go. Then you can take some arty pics like incog said, and what do you mean you don't read books, bloody well read a book. :mad:

Maggy 02-08-2004 20:52

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kronas I've been thinking about this today.I think you need to find some regular activity like the charity shop thing and to try and keep to a regular sort of timetable every day.Get up at the same time and eat at regular set intervals.Try to go to bed at the same time every night.The more you work at that the better.

How about just taking as interesting photos as you can of the people in your area.Take a look at the winners of the first section of Online Photographer of the Year for 2004.It's not about the area but the people every time.I'm sure you can get some interesting pictures AND get out to meet new people this way perhaps even some girls. ;)

Or try to work on your poetry at a regular time every day.Write something every day and see what you achieve? Write a story perhaps?Please don't say you can't,that's just the depression talking.You already proved that you can achieve anything if you are determined enough.You just have to find something that you can fit around your problems without letting the problems overwhelm your dreams.

Not knowing you well enough I can't know all your abilities.Perhaps compiling a (positive) list of your strengths,abilities and interests might give you some clue as to what you can do.Leave out the negative stuff completely and concentrate on can do's.

Incog. :)

bopdude 02-08-2004 20:56

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Ramrod
I keep telling you....take up a martial art :)

Yep, totally agree, myself and the kids have enjoyed it and you can be of any ( just about ) fittness level to start.
Failing that how about something a little more drastic :Yikes: volunteer work abroad, you will get to travel, get paid a small living allowance and get a whole new outlook on life, in particular, yours

Mr_love_monkey 02-08-2004 20:59

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You could become a mime.
Lots of fresh air (except when you are trapped in your invisible box) - you get to meet lots of people - you can't talk to them, but meeting people is important...

Why not just start exploring your area? - just wander around some streets, take a direction you wouldn't normally go, you'd be surprised - you sometimes find some really nice areas right under your nose if you know where to look

Ramrod 02-08-2004 21:15

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Originally Posted by Mr_love_monkey
You could become a mime.

:wtf: :fit: :nono: :knock: :mad: :D

homealone 02-08-2004 21:43

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Remember Tai Chi is a 'martial art' Kronas - supposed to be very good for you, I've watched a couple of programs on our local channel, about it, lately, & been quite interested :)

Dave Stones 02-08-2004 22:31

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im not mentioning anything about pasty shops again, i got red-blobbed for it earlier :blush::blush:

maybe mr K could invest in a gym or sports centre membership... you get to work out, have fun and play random sports (squash?? :erm: ) with people whenever you want, all for a modest fee :angel:

homealone 02-08-2004 23:00

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Dave Stones
im not mentioning anything about pasty shops again, i got red-blobbed for it earlier :blush::blush:

maybe mr K could invest in a gym or sports centre membership... you get to work out, have fun and play random sports (squash?? :erm: ) with people whenever you want, all for a modest fee :angel:

no, you got red blobbed for calling someone an idiot - it was nothing to do with fast food - I thought I made that clear in the comment, Dave ;)

- gym's are the last place I can imagine Kronas fitting in - at the moment, anyway.

- but, not to dismiss, how much would a ½ hour court & lights, racket, balls - all hire deal, cost, at your leisure centre - assuming one has the 'right kind' of shoes & can play in 'any' shirt & shorts?

Dave Stones 02-08-2004 23:08

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Originally Posted by homealone
no, you got red blobbed for calling someone an idiot - it was nothing to do with fast food - I thought I made that clear in the comment, Dave ;)

- gym's are the last place I can imagine Kronas fitting in - at the moment, anyway.

- but, not to dismiss, how much would a ½ hour court & lights, racket, balls - all hire deal, cost, at your leisure centre - assuming one has the 'right kind' of shoes & can play in 'any' shirt & shorts?

oh im not bitter about it, its a welcome change from the green ones ;) it makes my rep count 666 too, which is quite cool in an iron maiden sort of way... :erm:

prices... ermm... mirfield leisure centre doesnt seem to have a website, so i am basing this on huddersfield sports centre... (i know for a fact there are 2 buses an hour at least to huddersfield from heck, so he has no excuse ;))

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Originally Posted by huddersfield sports centre
To ensure more people become more active, more often in Kirklees, we offer flexbile pricing to suit everyone.

With such a wide reaching programme of activities its not possible to show all prices here but typical 'Pay & Play' prices are as follows;

Adult Swim................................Ãâà ¢‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚£2.75
Junior Swim...............................Ãâ⠂¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚£1.35
Family Swim...............................Ãâ⠂¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚£5.95 (£6.70 with flume)
Aquafit...................................ÃÆâ€ ™Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚£3.00
5-a-side 3/4 Hour Hire....................Âà ƒâ€šÃ‚£27.60
Badminton 3/4 Hour Court Hire.............ÂÆšÃ‚£5.75
Keep Fit Classes..........................Ãâ↚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚£3.00
Climbing Wall (must be qualified).........ÂÃââ ‚¬šÃ‚£4.00
Squash Court Hire (40 minutes)............ÂÃ⠀šÃ‚£4.90
OWLS (Over 50's Clubs).................... £4-6.00 prices vary between centres

Regular users can benefit from Lifestyle Plus offering access to all facilities, including access to the Peak Physique Health & Fitness suites from less than a £1 a day.

More senior users can access a range of activities at a discounted rate through the OWLS clubs for over 50's running in all of our centres.

Kirklees Passport holders can use their cards for discounts at all Kirklees Active Leisure centres and NUS cards are also accepted.

In addition, many of our sports & leisure centres hold a number of special events and promotions in your area please visit your nearest centre or visit the website for future offers.

linky: http://www.huddersfieldleisure.co.uk

oh and if he wants a random job, the galpharm stadium are looking for stewards for the new footy season...

Russ 02-08-2004 23:17

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Always thought he'd make a pretty good bar steward :D

Ramrod 02-08-2004 23:18

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Quote:

remember Tai Chi is a 'martial art' Kronas - supposed to be very good for you, I've watched a couple of programs on our local channel, about it, lately, & been quite interested :)
Yes, it is a martial art but it's very difficult to find it taught as such. Most clubs teach it for relaxation', and not very well. :(

kronas 02-08-2004 23:38

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Russ D
Always thought he'd make a pretty good bar steward :D

you will be the first to be barred if you visted me :p: :D :knock: :D

Quote:

Originally Posted by Incognitas
kronas I've been thinking about this today.I think you need to find some regular activity like the charity shop thing and to try and keep to a regular sort of timetable every day.Get up at the same time and eat at regular set intervals.Try to go to bed at the same time every night.The more you work at that the better.

charity shop is out of the question, we had one but guess what....it closed down :rolleyes:

i see your point about the sleeping, no activity means i cant go to sleep, even my eating habits have gone irattic again :(

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Originally Posted by Incognitas
How about just taking as interesting photos as you can of the people in your area.Take a look at the winners of the first section of Online Photographer of the Year for 2004.It's not about the area but the people every time.I'm sure you can get some interesting pictures AND get out to meet new people this way perhaps even some girls. ;)

:erm: photography............hmm....i could proberbly start taking pictures of what ever around my area, we have some nice 'scenery' sometimes, i dont just mean the mcdonalds either.....

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Originally Posted by Incognitas
Or try to work on your poetry at a regular time every day.Write something every day and see what you achieve? Write a story perhaps?Please don't say you can't,that's just the depression talking.You already proved that you can achieve anything if you are determined enough.You just have to find something that you can fit around your problems without letting the problems overwhelm your dreams.

the thing is my mind keeps drawing blanks, i used to have answer for everything....and now its pitch black :no:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Incognitas
Not knowing you well enough I can't know all your abilities.Perhaps compiling a (positive) list of your strengths,abilities and interests might give you some clue as to what you can do.Leave out the negative stuff completely and concentrate on can do's.

Incog. :)

i dont know really i just feel lost.

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Originally Posted by Ramrod
I keep telling you....take up a martial art :)

and i keep telling you there is no where that does that around here.

yes it is as bad as dave stones makes out :erm:

Maggy 03-08-2004 11:34

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Well with the cookery biased comments I'll just have to go with the flow and suggest you take up cooking.

No seriously it might be a way to maintain your interest in food and eating.If you take it up as a hobby it will help you to perhaps maintain a healthy lifestyle.

Frankly I just can't help anymore.I am finding you very negative. I know it's part of your problems but YOU were the one who ASKED for HELP. :( Why not actually try something before dismissing it?

Incog. :(

Nugget 03-08-2004 11:52

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Kronas
the thing is my mind keeps drawing blanks, i used to have answer for everything....and now its pitch black

Just sticking with the poetry theme, some of the most famous / popular poetry comes from people who have 'suffered' from depression - why don't you just see if you can write something about how you feel? If you can manage that, it may help you get over the writers block :)

I also think that Incogs ideas about cookery is a good one - it's a proper 'hands on' thing to do, and something that you're in control of. If you don't like the end result, just try again with a couple of different ingredients until you get it exactly how you want :tu:

Ramrod 03-08-2004 11:58

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Quote:

Originally Posted by kronas
and i keep telling you there is no where that does that around here.

yes it is as bad as dave stones makes out :erm:

Nothing? At all? :shocked: :confused:

paulyoung666 03-08-2004 12:01

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Originally Posted by Ramrod
Nothing? At all? :shocked: :confused:

it must be some sort of vacuum in that area , all the life must be sucked out of it :rofl:

Nugget 03-08-2004 12:04

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Originally Posted by kronas
and i keep telling you there is no where that does that around here.

yes it is as bad as dave stones makes out :erm:

Sorry Kronas - I don't know exactly where Heckmondwike is! Can you drive, or is the public transport any good? If the answer's yes to either of those, why don't you just get yourself out and about - maybe a change of scenery for a little bit will do you some good?

Dave Stones 03-08-2004 12:40

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Nugget
Sorry Kronas - I don't know exactly where Heckmondwike is! Can you drive, or is the public transport any good? If the answer's yes to either of those, why don't you just get yourself out and about - maybe a change of scenery for a little bit will do you some good?

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Originally Posted by Ramrod
Nothing? At all?

Round these parts is one of those places where the average of the population, is, shall we say, "old". as such the majority of everything is geared towards that age group :erm: mecca bingo and market day anyone? :angel:

Heckmondwike is sort of right smack bang in the middle of Huddersfield and Leeds, transport links are *excellent* to both these places, you can also get on the bus to dewsbury which has *very good* transport links, with minimal effort and not a lot of cost you can get as far as sheffield or manchester...

Electrolyte01 03-08-2004 13:00

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Nugget
Sorry Kronas - I don't know exactly where Heckmondwike is! Can you drive, or is the public transport any good?

When is public transport EVER good? It's always a rip off here in Tamworth *points to Ariva* :disturbd: :disturbd: :disturbd: :disturbd:

Paul, I think I'm starting to turn into a you :D :D :D :disturbd: :disturbd: :disturbd:

Dave Stones 03-08-2004 13:14

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Originally Posted by Electrolyte
When is public transport EVER good? It's always a rip off here in Tamworth *points to Ariva* :disturbd: :disturbd: :disturbd: :disturbd:

Paul, I think I'm starting to turn into a you :D :D :D :disturbd: :disturbd: :disturbd:

funny you should say that, all the public transport round and about heckmondiwke is Arriva Yorkshire :), heckmondwike even has it's own big arriva depot....

But, bus and rail services get a massive subsidy around here so they actually make them reliable :Yikes:

Colin 05-08-2004 21:38

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Have you decided what to do to yet Kronie?

kronas 12-08-2004 17:48

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Colin
Have you decided what to do to yet Kronie?

sorry colin i have been wrapped in trying to sort myself out, i have been to some councilling etc so been busy with that....

i have nothing planned as yet, but i may have in the near future, apparently someone has the bright idea of possibly introducing me to a youth center somewhere oh joy :rolleyes:

not that i wouldnt be looking forward to that, but people my age or slightly younger than me do not have the same interests as me, its a proven fact, they dont want to talk about politcs, business, etc do they ?

they (usally) want to talk about the next fad or useless gibberish they call TV 'programming' such as ali g or bo selecta :rolleyes:

but ill give it a try, maybe i will find it fun, i will go in open minded if something does happen...

EDIT ill save the slang and related instances for another time :rolleyes:


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