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kronas 23-05-2004 20:44

like a virgin...
 
rebecca st james (who ?) has launched an attack on britney spears being a bad role model, the christian rockstress has vowed to retain her virginity until she has wed as have the rest of her band.

Quote:

"The biggest thing I feel for Britney is I feel sad for her"

Quote:

"I also feel sad for the nine or 10-years-old watching her who see her dressing in a very promiscuous fashion, almost asking for people to treat her as a sex object. They are going to start dressing that way too."
so ? :D

Quote:

Australian-born St. James, who fronts the True Love Waits organization in the U.S. which urges teenagers to avoid pre-marital sex, is embarking on a whirlwind European tour during which she hopes to spread the group's message.
so a new technique for infiltration eh ?

source: CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2004/SHOWBIZ/Musi...eut/index.html

it goes on and on :rofl: :rofl:

threadbare 23-05-2004 20:53

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she obviously hasnt met the right guy yet

or maybe guys aren't her thing :D

Bex 24-05-2004 10:41

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i've actually heard of this group before..... i understand their ideals.... but when you have sex for the first time is a decision that you have to make and one you should make for yourself
britney could be seen as hypocritical for saying one thing and then doing another, but i bet you that there are hundreds of people who say they are going to wait for marriage and then don't.... but britney is in the public eye., so yes maybe she has more of a responsibility, but at the same time as being a celeb she is also a person, with her own autonomy and thus her own decisions

orangebird 24-05-2004 16:52

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Quote:

Originally Posted by kronas
rebecca st james (who ?) has launched an attack on britney spears being a bad role model, the christian rockstress has vowed to retain her virginity until she has wed as have the rest of her band.






so ? :D



so a new technique for infiltration eh ?

source: CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2004/SHOWBIZ/Musi...eut/index.html

it goes on and on :rofl: :rofl:


Personally, I'd ask her who died and put her in charge. Then I'd tell her to remove the rod from her backside, get a life and give her opinions to someone who gives a ****. :rolleyes:

I bet she's all of 17 or something..... clueless.

paulyoung666 24-05-2004 16:55

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Originally Posted by orangebird
Personally, I'd ask her who died and put her in charge. Then I'd tell her to remove the rod from her backside, get a life and give her opinions to someone who gives a ****. :rolleyes:

I bet she's all of 17 or something..... clueless.



i was kinda thinking the same :erm:

Chris 24-05-2004 17:01

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So what's the topic here? Britney's image change, a duplicate of the underage sex thread, or a re-run of the abstinence thread? :D

On Britney's image: I don't know how she lives with herself, why would someone want to go from successful pop idol to sleazy table dancer?

On underage sex: See other thread. I've posted there what I think.

On abstinence: Further to the abstinence thread (which was about STDs rather than the wider sex-before-marriage thing, IIRC), I believe that sex is best kepw within a marriage relationship, in fcat I believe that is what it was invented for; and seeing as we live in a society that believes in free speech and promotion of ideas, I defend to the hilt young Mis St James' right to say so. Anyone who disagrees with her is welcome to do so, but I don't see any need to be so .... impolite. :)

orangebird 24-05-2004 17:04

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Quote:

Originally Posted by towny
So what's the topic here? Britney's image change, a duplicate of the underage sex thread, or a re-run of the abstinence thread? :D

On Britney's image: I don't know how she lives with herself, why would someone want to go from successful pop idol to sleazy table dancer?

On underage sex: See other thread. I've posted there what I think.

On abstinence: Further to the abstinence thread (which was about STDs rather than the wider sex-before-marriage thing, IIRC), I believe that sex is best kepw within a marriage relationship, in fcat I believe that is what it was invented for; and seeing as we live in a society that believes in free speech and promotion of ideas, I defend to the hilt young Mis St James' right to say so. Anyone who disagrees with her is welcome to do so, but I don't see any need to be so .... impolite. :)

Beleive me, I am no fan of Broccoli Spears....I just don't like the way she blames Britney for 9-10 year olds wanting to wear hotpants etc.... Jumped up little madam. :mad:

Bifta 24-05-2004 17:11

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I thought music was about music, not about how soon you got laid, personally I don't care if Britney's been through the entire population of the USA, the reason I won't buy/download or recommend any of what she claims as music is because it's trashy middle of the road mainstream pop with less balls than my mum.

(And we all know that real bands have a different sort of crack habit ;))

Russ 24-05-2004 17:27

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Quote:

Originally Posted by towny
Anyone who disagrees with her is welcome to do so, but I don't see any need to be so .... impolite. :)

Of course they need to!! She has the cheek to speak out on a subject which is linked to religion!!

Neil 24-05-2004 17:39

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Quote:

Originally Posted by orangebird
Beleive me, I am no fan of Broccoli Spears

Oi!

It's Ms Spears to you. ;)

kronas 24-05-2004 17:42

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Neil
Oi!

It's Ms Spears to you. ;)

or ms 'look at me im a slut and sing about suicide' spears :D ;) :pp

Neil 24-05-2004 17:47

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Quote:

Originally Posted by kronas
or ms 'look at me im a slut and sing about suicide' spears :D ;) :pp

Oh & AV is just 'oh so attractive' isn't she? :rolleyes:

I'm also willing to bet money that AV has sung about death at some point in her (short) career too....:angel:

paulyoung666 24-05-2004 17:48

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Quote:

Originally Posted by kronas
or ms 'look at me im a slut and sing about suicide' spears :D ;) :pp


me wonders what has happened to the swear filter , has someone turned it off :confused:

kronas 24-05-2004 17:51

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Neil
Oh & AV is just 'oh so attractive' isn't she? :rolleyes:

I'm also willing to bet money that AV has sung about death at some point in her (short) career too....:angel:

nothing short about her career, 14 million albums first time around, second album is not out everywhere and its riding high in the world charts.

the single is in the top 5 i hardly call that a flagging career, its not all about looks, some people forget that.

britney uses her looks to 'get her over' i dont see her singing a mature song, apart from the 'poppy' stuff!

Neil 24-05-2004 17:56

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Quote:

Originally Posted by kronas
nothing short about her career, 14 million albums first time around, second album is not out everywhere and its riding high in the world charts.

Yes there is-2 albums (the 2nd only just released) is a very short career. ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kronas
the single is in the top 5 i hardly call that a flagging career,

Who mentioned flagging? :erm:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kronas
its not all about looks, some people forget that.

Lucky for AV I'd say! ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kronas
britney uses her looks to 'get her over' i dont see her singing a mature song, apart from the 'poppy' stuff!

And you think AV doesn't use her 'image' to appeal to a particular audience? :rolleyes:

Every pop/rock 'star' uses something to get noticed/sell CDs-thats what its all about.

Now-what were you saying about Britney singing about suicide....?

Quote:

Wake up, (Wake up)
Grab a brush and put a little makeup,
Hide the scars to fade away the shakeup
Why'd you leave the keys upon the table?
Here you go create another fable

You wanted to,
Grab a brush and put a little makeup,
You wanted to,
Hide the scars to fade away the shakeup,
You wanted to,
Why'd you leave the keys upon the table,
You wanted to,

I don't think you trust,
In, my, self righteous suicide,
I, cry, when angels deserve to DIE! RRRRRRRAAA!

Wake up, (Wake up)
Grab a brush and put a little makeup,
Hide the scars to fade away the shakeup
Why'd you leave the keys upon the table?
Here you go create another fable

You wanted to,
Grab a brush and put a little makeup,
You wanted to,
Hide the scars to fade away the shakeup,
You wanted to,
Why'd you leave the keys upon the table,
You wanted to,

I don't think you trust,
In, my, self-righteous suicide,
I, cry, when angels deserve to die,
in, my, self-righteous suicide, I, cry
when angels deserve to die.

Father, Father, Father, Father,
Fall into your hands, I commend my spirit,
Fall into your hands,
Why have you forsaken me,
In your eyes forsaken me,
In your thoughts forsaken me,
In your heart forsaken, me oh,

Trust in my self-righteous suicide,
I, cry, when angels deserve to die,
In my self righteous suicide,
I, cry, when angels deserve to die.
;)

http://www.lyrics007.com/Avril%20Lav...%20Lyrics.html

Chris 24-05-2004 18:47

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Quote:

Originally Posted by orangebird
Beleive me, I am no fan of Broccoli Spears....I just don't like the way she blames Britney for 9-10 year olds wanting to wear hotpants etc.... Jumped up little madam. :mad:

The sexualisation of pre-pubescent kids by Western popular culture is a very interesting topic, but I'm still not sure exactly what the topic of this thread is so I'll not start on about that just yet. Suffice it to say that I think Britney and others, who market themselves at that age group, bear a share of the responsibility. Kids look up to their role models and they want to be like them. If their role models start playing on their sexuality, they will want to follow. It's not rocket science and I don't think recognising the fact makes you a jumped up little madam.

downquark1 24-05-2004 19:10

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Quote:

Originally Posted by towny
The sexualisation of pre-pubescent kids by Western popular culture is a very interesting topic, but I'm still not sure exactly what the topic of this thread is so I'll not start on about that just yet. Suffice it to say that I think Britney and others, who market themselves at that age group, bear a share of the responsibility. Kids look up to their role models and they want to be like them. If their role models start playing on their sexuality, they will want to follow. It's not rocket science and I don't think recognising the fact makes you a jumped up little madam.

I have to disagree, the music she makes, or the way she acts is not perposely aimed at that age group - or it wasn't originally, the young ones take it upon themselves to watch it, then the businessmen realise the market and move in with mercendice.

People should be able to act how they want, it's the press which spreads the word.

punky 24-05-2004 19:45

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Neil
Now-what were you saying about Britney singing about suicide....?



;)

http://www.lyrics007.com/Avril%20Lav...%20Lyrics.html

That site is wrong. That song is by System Of A Down.

People like her get on my nerves though. Someone who has made some change/decision, and suddenly think they are some kind of deity and think they treat all other lesser human beings (meat-eaters/people that have sex etc.) like idiots, and/or patronise them. Because I have a different point of view or lifestyle, that means you are better than me.

Chris 24-05-2004 23:17

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Quote:

Originally Posted by downquark1
I have to disagree, the music she makes, or the way she acts is not perposely aimed at that age group - or it wasn't originally, the young ones take it upon themselves to watch it, then the businessmen realise the market and move in with mercendice.

People should be able to act how they want, it's the press which spreads the word.

So why do you disagree? If the businessmen have indeed realised the tweeny market is there, and are now targeting it, as you say, then what I am suggesting stands. Britney is complicit, whether by design, or by her failure to object.

Plonking 24-05-2004 23:35

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Quote:

Originally Posted by punky
That site is wrong. That song is by System Of A Down.

Well noticed! I think it's funny that someone submitted it there, though. SOAD are great! I saw them live a few years ago, and twas brill!

Perhaps there is a smear campaign on other popstars being waged across lyrics sites on the net, lol.... ;)

downquark1 25-05-2004 11:17

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Quote:

Originally Posted by towny
So why do you disagree? If the businessmen have indeed realised the tweeny market is there, and are now targeting it, as you say, then what I am suggesting stands. Britney is complicit, whether by design, or by her failure to object.

I merely think the whole idea of these celebrity role models is stupid, David Beckham for example has a job that virtually no-one can relate to, resources beyond that of the average person, and yet is described as a good/bad role model based on the hair cuts, the fathering or the cheating. If he isn't a good role model, they should find someone who is.

If for whatever reason you or I were put in the public eye and children respected us would we want to be told how to live or lives for sake of role-modelling?

"Don't spend so much time on the computer" "Don't talk to wierdos on the internet" "I want my child to be studying, not helping strangers with computer problems"

Of course, it could be a matter of culture that kids only respect those who aren't good role models, so changing to suit them won't help as they will probably find someone else.

orangebird 25-05-2004 11:20

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Russ D
Of course they need to!! She has the cheek to speak out on a subject which is linked to religion!!


No Russ, you're being a bit oversensitive there. The only time relgion was mentioned was in the article and by you.....

My opinion on that young lady has nothing to do with her religious beliefs. It's her appallingly jumped up attitiude about other peoples actions not conforming to her high standards. What ever happened to live and let live???

Chris 25-05-2004 11:25

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Quote:

Originally Posted by downquark1
I merely thing the whole idea of these celebrity role models is stupid, David Beckham for example has a job that virtually no-one can relate to, resources beyond that of the average person, and yet is described as a good/bad role model based on the hair cuts, the fathering or the cheating. If he isn't a good role model, they should find someone who is.

If for whatever reason you or I were put in the public eye and children respected us would we want to be told how to live or lives for sake of role-modelling?

"Don't spend so much time on the computer" "Don't talk to wierdos on the internet" "I want my child to be studying, not helping strangers with computer problems"

Of course, it could be a matter of culture that kids only respect those who aren't good role models, so changing to suit them won't help as they will probably find someone else.

It is simple psychological fact that growing children need role models. The people kids look up to are the ones who have jobs that they dream of having - footballer, pop star, etc - and who are portrayed as being glamorous by the media the kids subscribe to. I think it is quite right that it is stupid that some random 11-year-old should adore Beckham and want to copy him because I know that Becham's life and circumstances are so utterly different than those of the 11-year-old - but the 11 year old doesn't know that and you can't expect them to just ditch Beckham (or Britney) simply because their parents tell them to.

Personally I do think these people have a responsibility towards those that made them rich in the first place, whether by buying their albums or their merchandise, or turning up to watch them perform on stage or on a football pitch. I hope that if I were ever a role model I would find it easy enough to be careful of my public behaviour. It might be an intrusion on my personal freedom, but then don't I owe anything to the people who made me rich?

downquark1 25-05-2004 11:33

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Quote:

Originally Posted by towny
It might be an intrusion on my personal freedom, but then don't I owe anything to the people who made me rich?

Yes, but David Beckham and Britney Spears do not specifically target children through their 'work'. Beckham is respected by all ages who like football and Spears the teenage - young adult groups who like pop music - among other things.

If posing nude on a magazine is appropriate for one half of your public but not for the other, what can you do? Loose the young male audience, (which probably has the most money) or appease the parents of the young ones, who you never meant to attract in the first place.

Chris 25-05-2004 11:41

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Quote:

Originally Posted by downquark1
Yes, but David Beckham and Britney Spears do not specifically target children through their 'work'. Beckham is respected by all ages who like football and Spears the teenage - young adult groups who like pop music - among other things.

If posing nude on a magazine is appropriate for one half of your public but not for the other, what can you do? Loose the young male audience, (which probably has the most money) or appease the parents of the young ones, who you never meant to attract in the first place.

The point is, Britiney did mean to attract the young audience in the first place, and it is this radical change of image that is now part of the problem. And Beckham does specifically target children - the range of kids clothes at Marks & Sparks called 'DB07' is one (admittedly lame) example. Britney Spears is a brand, and as any marketeer will tell you, brands need to build a relationship with the consumer to survive. I think that relationship ought to be a two way thing and those responsible for promoting it, whether Britiney directly or her marketing agents, are responsible to ensure that the relationship is not abused. That's not to say that Britiney can't change her image as she grows up, but she should be prepared to let go of the 'tweenie' market at the same time. Does the range of merchandise, type of advertising and kind of magazine she gives interviews to these days support that?

downquark1 25-05-2004 11:48

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Quote:

Originally Posted by towny
but she should be prepared to let go of the 'tweenie' market at the same time.

Can she do that? Maybe she sold the rights and has lost control of it
Quote:

Does the range of merchandise, type of advertising and kind of magazine she gives interviews to these days support that?
I don't know. Kronas?

Jarandco 25-05-2004 11:48

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All i have to say is Go Neil! :D In your support for Ms Spears!

Chris 25-05-2004 11:59

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Quote:

Originally Posted by downquark1
Can she do that? Maybe she sold the rights and has lost control of it I don't know. Kronas?

As I said earlier, the marketeers themselves share the responsibility here. I don't know whether she has sold all rights to her own name for marketing purposes, but personally I would think her very stupid if she has. I know I wouldn't want to lose control over my image for any amount of money.


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