Finally set a day
 

Yes ladies and gentlemen, as of the 10th June 2006 I will be a married man.
Co-incidently it will also be the day after my 30th Birthday which is cool because it means I resisted throughout my 20's :D

Couldnt be happier, its actually a scary feeling knowing that you will be marrying on a set date.

My dilema now is who to ask to be Best man, do I go for my best mate who I hardly ever see now since he got married and also works away from home. Or do I ask my dad who would still play an important role in the wedding anyway?

The other option I am having difficulty in deciding is the suit.
I would love to get married in a Kilt, but as I am not Scottish i wondered if there was any reason I couldnt/shouldnt marry in one?

Any more tips etc would be gratefully received.

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Congratulations :)

I think if you father is still going to have an important role on the big day then I would ask your best mate.
Also, I cant see any reason why u can't/shouldn't wear a kilt if u are not scottish (and besides, it might be the last time you can wear a skirt once you are married LOL)

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First of all - big congratulations M8. :)

Go for your best mate as best man, be a good chance to catch up again. As you say your Dad plays a big part in the day anyway. :)

As for the kilt - would your best man have to wear one too?
My feeling is do what you want, it is your day - enjoy.

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Congratulations m8 :)

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Thanks for all the congrats people :) Still a long way off yet, but its gonna be some stag night/30th birthday lmao.

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congratulations TW2001 :tu: - you shouldn't have said about the stag do, though, now we will all want to come & 'help out' :jk:

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congratulations mate i sat down just the other day to add it all up and see how much it's going to cost me :Yikes: man i could buy a small country for that has any
one got tips on how a can keep cost's down

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congratulations 'timewarrior' just remember life ends when your married..... prepare yourself for the end of your freedom.........the beginning of the end of single blissful life, and the start of a two way relationship full of arguing, and kids :rolleyes: :Yikes:

apart from that enjoy :D

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Congrats & Best Wishes for a happy future together :luv:

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Congratulations! :tu:
Is that right? 2006? plenty of time to get used to the idea, or to pull out. :)

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Cheers guys, Yes 2006 , the year after next.

I'm sure it wont be the end of my life, but even if it was to be I would gladly give it up for my gorgeous fiance.

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thus speaks a very cynical person, when you meet someone and fall in love you want nothing more but to spend time with that person......even the arguing can be fun at times ;)

congrates timew.......as for the kilt, if you want to wear one then do so, im sure there must be some scottish roots somewhere :pp

i am stunned by the amount of my mates who are getting married.......have three wedding invites in the pipelines :)

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play your cards right and you may get an invite to mine ;)

:notopic: are you on yahoo im today bexy

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more pressies to buy :rolleyes: :LOL:

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lol am thinking about turning it in to a pay per view event that's the only way am ever going to me able to pay for it all

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moi cynical ? :angel: i think its being honest and realistic ;)


you right, you want to cherish the moments you have togethor, they wont come back, so hold on to each other :)

*sits up pays attention

yes it can especially when things get physical ;)

just dont let the draft push the kilt up :Yikes:

ah the wonders of marriage, atleast youll have a healthy amount of work to do to 'salvage' the clean up after 90% of them fail :pp

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not all marriages end in divorce..........90% is a bit harsh.........would like my friends to be happy with their choices and if it doesn't last forever then i hope they wil give it a damn good try
sometimes i wonder why we are all so concerned about getting that bit of paper, a long term commitment can be made without having to sign a bit of paper and get a ring