Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35913632)

In my opinion someone's sexuality should not be a problem and shouldn’t be seen as such just remember if people see it as a problem then the problem is with them not you. Mark personally I could not give a hoot about someones sexuality, I personally judge a person on what value's they have in life if there nice and kind then I want them in my life if not I now just say bye bye.

What I'm trying to say if someone judges you on just being you then do you really want to know that person but saying that it may come as a shock to some family members then again it may not. My advice on family members is give them time to adjust after all you it has taken you the last 17 years of your life to finally accept yourself. Speaking as a Mother I do not care who my children chose to love or date as long as there happy and treat each other with respect that is what truly matter's to me.

The best advice I can give you Mark is be kind to yourself and take it day by day, remember baby steps Mark. If someone has a problem with you for whatever the reason is then let that be there problem and don't allow it to become yours (taken my own advice here :)) you know my sister has a problem with me and it took me 48 years to walk away from her and I suspect she still has a problem but the main difference now is the problem is hers and it was the best decision I have ever made saying good bye to her negative attitude.

Mark remember when and if you tell your family just do it in your own time and if you need to talk you know what to do.

I'm so proud of you for accepting who you are and all I can say is well done.

Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35913757)

My nieces headmaster called her the day before her GCSE results to say she is in the top 12 in the school, and she has to go in early to get her photo in the local newspaper. So hopefully it's 9 A*'s.

Will find out tomorrow

Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35914199)

My nieces results are so good she is 100% guaranteed a place and her first choice of college.

Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35914230)

Well done to your niece Hom3r, clever girl.

:) :tu: :)

Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35914199)

My nieces results are so good she is 100% guaranteed a place and her first choice of college.

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35914558)

Another operation done - just waiting for dialysis now :)

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35914558)

Another operation done - just waiting for dialysis now :)

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35914558)

Another operation done - just waiting for dialysis now :)

Originally Posted by MadGamer (Post 35915033)

Well following on from a previous post I made in the thread I have two dates lined up this month. One on the 16th and one on 23rd. I wonder if this will be the start of something special :)