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moaningmags 08-04-2009 23:43
Re: Crush at work
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 34771833)
I've stopped thinking about Superbiatch already, so it is possible :)
Aaah but you have the attention span of a goldfish :D:p:

Hugh 09-04-2009 08:15
Re: Crush at work
 
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Originally Posted by moaningmags (Post 34771837)
Aaah but you have the attention span of a goldfish :D:p:
That has Alzheimers, ADHD, and hasn't renewed its Ritalin prescription..:D :) ;)

Caspar 09-04-2009 09:05
Re: Crush at work
 
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Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 34771831)
You mean me going down the local garage tonight to buy some nails, a can of petrol and deleting her photos off her Pc and replacing them with LOL Cat pics was a bad idea ?

;)

Nope, not going for that approach just as yet, or possibly ever.

I'm going to try and chill. I did mention originally to her "some time in the holidays" so didnt make it clear but hoped it would be this week as I think she is off to visit her sister next week.
We'l see how it goes. Love is strange. You can't sto thinking about the person, however hard you try.

Time to chill out, and get some sleep I think.
Oh no people we have a bleeder! .... he used the LOVE word! I think you're still in the attraction stage...or possible even stalking stage!

I recommend going out on the town and getting laid, quick! (you know my advice, use a condom! freaking **** out there ;) )

Halcyon 09-04-2009 09:40
Re: Crush at work
 
LOL It's OK, I'm not that desperate.

The word LOVE was to describe the whole thing. I know it isnt love as yet. At the moment it is attraction and that feeling where you just want to be with that person because they make you feel so happy.

Time to just wait and see where things go.

superbiatch 09-04-2009 10:16
Re: Crush at work
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 34771957)
LOL It's OK, I'm not that desperate.

The word LOVE was to describe the whole thing. I know it isnt love as yet. At the moment it is attraction and that feeling where you just want to be with that person because they make you feel so happy.

Time to just wait and see where things go.
And after attraction comes LUST - my fave bit :romance:

Gary L 09-04-2009 10:30
Re: Crush at work
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 34771957)
LOL It's OK, I'm not that desperate.

The word LOVE was to describe the whole thing. I know it isnt love as yet. At the moment it is attraction and that feeling where you just want to be with that person because they make you feel so happy.
It's called lust :)

Oh, someone already said it :D

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Originally Posted by superbiatch (Post 34771981)
And after attraction comes LUST - my fave bit :romance:
Then you start taking it all for granted, and get fed up of the sight of each other eventually :)

Julian 09-04-2009 10:33
Re: Crush at work
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by superbiatch (Post 34771981)
And after attraction comes LUST - my fave bit :romance:
You missed out the bit involving the photocopier. ;)

superbiatch 09-04-2009 10:35
Re: Crush at work
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 34771984)
Then you start taking it all for granted, and get fed up of the sight of each other eventually :)
To me lust is all about looking forward to seeing each other, waiting for the phone to ring, doing outrageous/spontaneous stuff together and having a great time with lots of s£x! Unfortunately its the bit that follows I struggle with beginning with L :erm:

Mr Gary L - you are such a cynic! Let your hair down and have some fun :D

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Originally Posted by Julian (Post 34771988)
You missed out the bit involving the photocopier. ;)
Read my next post - outrageous and spontaneous easily cover this an a multitude of other things ;)

Gary L 09-04-2009 10:42
Re: Crush at work
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by superbiatch (Post 34771989)
To me lust is all about looking forward to seeing each other, waiting for the phone to ring, doing outrageous/spontaneous stuff together and having a great time with lots of s£x! Unfortunately its the bit that follows I struggle with beginning with L :erm:

Mr Gary L - you are such a cynic! Let your hair down and have some fun :D
Ok, when can we start?
how far through the lust one till the love stage comes, are you? ;)

superbiatch 09-04-2009 10:49
Re: Crush at work
 
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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 34771993)
Ok, when can we start?
how far through the lust one till the love stage comes, are you? ;)
Unfortunately I don't play the game ;)

Gary L 09-04-2009 10:55
Re: Crush at work
 
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Originally Posted by superbiatch (Post 34771994)
Unfortunately I don't play the game ;)
You know the saying.
you'll miss what you never had :)

superbiatch 09-04-2009 10:57
Re: Crush at work
 
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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 34771995)
You know the saying.
you'll miss what you never had :)
I've had it, but my life has taken a confusing turn in these last few years, if you read back a few pages - you'll see why.

Sorry for taking a bit off topic Halycon - any news today?

Halcyon 09-04-2009 11:12
Re: Crush at work
 
Yes - The news is she can't make it this Friday. She mailed me.

Which means I have been looking forward to this and now as everything else in my life I get my hopes up for nothing.

Right now I'm emailing her and just going to be straight with it, tell her my feelings and that's it.
Then she will know and it's up to her.

I've had it with women! Complete nutters!

[Apart from the CF women ofcourse, I like you all]

joglynne 09-04-2009 11:17
Re: Crush at work
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 34772007)
Yes - The news is she can't make it this Friday. She mailed me.

Which means I have been looking forward to this and now as everything else in my life I get my hopes up for nothing.

Right now I'm emailing her and just going to be straight with it, tell her my feelings and that's it.
Then she will know and it's up to her.

I've had it with women! Complete nutters!

[Apart from the CF women ofcourse, I like you all)
Nice save there Halcyon. :D

Don't give up on her yet, she may be feeling just as confused as you do. It's not easy having an office relationship and she may just be wary of actually taking the first step.

Halcyon 09-04-2009 11:22
Re: Crush at work
 
Well I don't like being in this situation but the Email I'm going to send basically gives her the option to reply back and say: "I only want to be friends", or "Actually Yes, I'd still like to meet up and see where things go".


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