Re: Crush at work
 

Oh, thanks.
I dread to think what name he would use if I was a woman :)

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What a quitter, have you not heard the saying faint heart never won fair lady

Re: Crush at work
 

If she hasn't replied to your email or updated her facebook I would hazard a good guess she hasn't accessed her personal interwebclickthingy as of yet.

When the facebook gets updated and you still get no reply then you can be a tad concerned and goto plan B.

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Ahhhhhh, When will people realise that these days people SHOULD check their email once a minute.

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Or even rhyming - Richard the Third?

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Lets stick to the topic shall we :)

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I'm not quitting. I'm even more determined!

It's just fustrating having to wait and wait to make things happen.

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I think she's not been in contact with anyone, going by what you said about her facebook. Give the girl sometime, she may be nervous also ;)

I'd like to think that if she didn't have any feelings at all for you, she'd let you know (i had to do his recently). Its not nice, but at least you know where you stand :)

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Yeah I would hope so. She's a nice girl so I would hope she wouldnt string people along.

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I'd agree, some might also conclude that she may see you as someone in a postion of power...and like to have your attention. Are you in IT, fixing stuff on her PC?

def dont engage in email and always reply ages after, but not too long...dont appear easy or desperate. email can easily offer false hope. maybe that's what she's doing now.

if she updates her facebook and not email you the same night, you're ****ed! unfortunetly for you I don't mean her. In that incase, hack into her PC in work and delete random work files...and rows/cells out of ramdom XLS files ;) Then get her sacked so you dont have see her mug everyday! scratch her car, if she drives ;) -stick some nails under her tyres or maybe some itching powder on her work chair, hopefully it's fabric chair.


oh, I was asked out by a fellow worker.... we're celebrating our 15th year together this year! I think most people meet their spouse in work, or in a geeky club of some kind...so all this is natural.

One tip for you and others in your situation - just don't **** the office whore, you might catch AIDS!

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wow, I really don't know what to say to that except, I hope Halcyon has the good sense to ignore any advice in that post.

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Well, not all of it, the last sentence is fairly relevant ;)

Halcyon, mate, in my opinion just chill a little, que sera, sera & being pushy may push things the wrong way - I do wish you both all the best, though :)

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He's probably got the sense to see that it was humour.
But he does need to get her back though :D :)

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You mean me going down the local garage tonight to buy some nails, a can of petrol and deleting her photos off her Pc and replacing them with LOL Cat pics was a bad idea ?

;)

Nope, not going for that approach just as yet, or possibly ever.

I'm going to try and chill. I did mention originally to her "some time in the holidays" so didnt make it clear but hoped it would be this week as I think she is off to visit her sister next week.
We'l see how it goes. Love is strange. You can't sto thinking about the person, however hard you try.

Time to chill out, and get some sleep I think.

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I've stopped thinking about Superbiatch already, so it is possible :)