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Portuguese law says that you can't leave young children unattended.
Copied a post from elsewhere. [copied] Some of the scenarios given here about about when or where we leave our children are just daft. Leaving your child in another room whilst the family sleep or in some other part of the house/garden while you do something else is very, very different to leaving them entirely alone whilst you go out to dinner in a different building, out of eye/ear shot and for half an hour at a time. In addition, these weren't young children or teenagers who may have been able to fend for themselves should something go wrong, they were near enough babies. If we're saying it's okay to leave children in circumstances similiar to this story then the world really has gone mad![/copied] Quote:
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That nothing was heard, and their window was opened with a crow bar suggests that the parents being in the next room wouldn't have made a blind bit of difference. |
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Why do the checks have to be regular anyway? Surely it doesn't matter whether the checks are regular or irregular. It's the frequency of the checks that are important i.e how often the checks are made. btw...it has now been reported that the patio doors were left unlocked. Quote:
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............... and the media are largely to blame for this parental paranoia.
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by 2007 they all wanna play on a console
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The abduction will be featured on tonight's Crimewatch. It will be interesting to see the sequence of events.
After watching the BBC interview, I also watched the ITV & Sky interviews. Once again the McCann's did not say that they checked every 30 minutes. They again used the meaningless word "regularly". Strangely, Kate McCann says, in the Sky interview, that she can't go into any more detail. She doesn't say why. . |
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I'm sure that anyone would bend the truth a little in those circumstances, I think they would say 30 mins to start with, but I wouldn't be surprised ( at all) if it was once in 4 hours to be honest. Could it be they've got found out and don't want to own up? Think of the differnces IF they did say we just leave them there all night, we ain't that far away so is that bad? |
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Agree about the timing question - this aspect has seemed rather fuzzy since day one. It's the sort of thing many people would say initially in the circumstances but I really wouldn't be surprised if it turns out that whatever checks were made were far less frequent.
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I can only speak from experience, but there seems to be a general sort of paranoia around, that is largely created by the media. My cousin, for instance, is convinced that she needs to take her children everywhere (even to school and back) in her 4x4, and if she or her children ever come to London, she will be blown up by any of the hundreds of Muslim terrorists we apparently have here. This is despite the fact that I can count the number of bombings that have occured in London in the last 30 years on my fingers. Note, I am not saying that we don't have Paedophiles in this country (or terrorists, be they muslim or something else), it's just that I don't think it's as widespread as the media makes out. |
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and this is on topic how? Just because people are being paranoid means we should all change and leave 3 children under 4 on their own without proper supervision while we go out and have dinner???
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20 or 30 years ago, many parents thought nothing of leaving their children sleeping at home, while they went for a dinner party around a neighbour's house, without worrying about checking on them at all.
It's interesting how times have changed, especially when those children who were left and unharmed by such, now are too paranoid to even let their children cross the road before they've hit puberty. |
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I also remember stories of children left alone burning to death in a fire. Maybe no more are carried off now but the risks are still the same
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I also remember stories about children burning to death in fires at home while their parents were also in the house.
I also know kids who aren't allowed to cook for themselves, cross the road, go outside to play, and they are very sorry children indeed, unable to think for themselves, unable to use their imagination, interested in only sitting infront of the TV or computer, over weight, unable to cope with new situations, heck one of them still wet the bed until he was 14! |
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well nothing that has been said in this thread has made me even consider changing my view. The part on crimewatch said nothing basically. No one yet has displayed anything to make me even flicker on my stance so Im not gonna shift. Im sure you feel the same so its an impasse
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Today on the radio, it was mentioned that some bloke in spain had information about the whereabouts of the little girl.:)
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so unless this went public after the law had given them the knock then they will be on their toes now. Maybe thats what the law have done thought they may make a move and give themselves away . But I just hope some good comes from it
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I cant see why this is publicised before investigations
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The more I read about this, & the more press conferences & interviews the McCann’s give, the more uneasy I feel towards them. Sorry to harp on about this, but 2 more interviews & 2 more “we checked them regularly†statements. Actually in the German news conference, Kate McCann says “we checked them very, very regularlyâ€Â, as if emphasizing it makes a difference!
What I find more concerning is that they said that they could see their apartment from the Tapas bar. This has now shown to be impossible. Their apartment was outside the holiday complex in a public road. There is a high concrete wall surrounding the complex. The McCann’s apartment was on the ground floor, obscured by the wall and high bushes. To get to their apartment, they would have to leave the complex & walk down 2 public roads. So they left their children alone, in a ground floor apartment they could not see, with the french windows unlocked, in a street accessible to any member of the general public. Even worse, the rear of the apartment backed onto a car park. Quick & easy getaway? |
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I hate to trivialise a life here but basically, if you dont watch yer stuff, some f**ker will nick it.
Car keys bike CHILDREN. they didnt keep watch. they only have themselves to blame and personally i'd like to see them charged wth negligence. kids are full time. if you want time off, you get a babysitter and DO NOT leave it to chance while you have some 'us time'. I wonder what the public reaction would be if the couple were dodgy scallies from a council estate... |
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Would they have left a suitcase with 10 grand inside, lying on a bed in an unlocked apartment? I don't think so. |
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When the German reporter spoke up last week, I for one said well someone has to say it/mention it, yet the media called it a disgrace. It's clearly biased towards the subject. |
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yeah you're right it was harsh, but there are questions that need to be said rather than pussy-footing around them.
How many time has their been press conferences where the parents/members of the family plead for info only to be found out later they are the ones that are the guilty party. They said they didn't have anything to do with the abduction and they had something like a party of 10 people at that meal to prove their innocence. I can agree with them that they didn't take maddie themselves, but no one yet can rule out that they don't play any part of her abduction. Maybe they were harsh for a reason, to see their reaction etc, (which there was a lack of (yet again) even I must admit but again, proves nothing). |
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Seems to me she asked those questions for the benefit of her own career rather than to help the police, I am sure they are more than capable of asking challenging questions without the help of a ghoulish hack |
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I can agree with the 'hack' making a name for herself, but who know's she might also be right, and if she is then how she will be praised later instead of being a ghoul that you think she is now. Maybe you think it can't be them because they are fine upstanding citizens with high social standings etc, so does that mean they are automatically ruled out of any 'suspicion'. |
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Im sorry for their loss, but parents like that make me sick. |
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This website has photo's taken around the area:-
http://gazetadigitalarquivo.blogspot.com/search?q= It clearly shows how detached the apartments are from the Ocean Club, and the wall between them. Also the front windows of the apartment are recessed in a porch. If you scroll down you can see an aerial photo. This marks the tapas restaurant and the back bedroom where the children were sleeping. Someone on another forum used Google Earth to measure the direct distance. It came out to 70.5 metres (around 230 feet). He also estimated the walking distance to be between 120 to 130 metres (about 395 to 428 feet). |
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Well unless you live in a mansion in acres of ground I'd say its nothing like eating dinner in your garden! |
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There are many things that the McCann's have said that are a bit strange. I would feel more compasion for them if they were honest, and said that with hindsight they were wrong to leave them alone, and that they were sorry for what they had done. But instead they harp on about what good parents they are, and that "at worst, we were naive". . |
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Personally I'd rather leave the acusing finger of suspicion pointing to the police when it's something as serious as this |
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Im sorry but imo she had the balls to ask something that im sure a lot of journos have thought. I dont trust the parents. There have been plenty of cases where children are abused by parents etc. Im not saying this is the case but maddies parents have been jetting off all around the world keeping this in the news im sure spending thousands of pounds of the cash raised (like whats the pope gonna do ffs). Ive never seen anything like it the media frenzy is just ridiculous. Also I dont see the twins with them while they are jetting off all over the place I for one wouldn't want to away from them under these circumstances. I hope and pray maddy is safe and well but ive seriously lost any Patience ive had (which isnt much) with the parents
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what was actually asked? I was told it was something like " are you involved in this " I do not knwo the facts but I have felt very suspect of them maybe not thinkign they are involved but the whole thing stinks to me.
How many times have people made appeals and used the media to try and cover their tracks? im not saying this is the case but it happens. In my home town a bank manager killed his wife and said it was someone trying to rob the bank and went into quite an elaborate story etc went on tv loads and all the rest but it was him all along. I know this is unrelated. Thing is if I was babylon I would say my main suspects were not suspects to allow them to feel safe while they can incriminate themselves so I wouldnt listen to what the law say to closely |
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“How do you feel about the fact that more and more people seem to be pointing the finger at you, saying the way you behave is not the way people would normally behave when their child is abducted?” The reporter went on: “They seem to imply you might have had something to do with it.” Seems to me though, that there was no need to ask them this question, what was expected by asking it? Confessions? Or giving her own career a leg up? |
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Afterwards Sabine Mueller, 35, who has worked for German Radio for 14 years, was unrepentant. "I know it has been seen as a hard question but I do not think it was improper," she said. "I did not want to hurt these people, I don't suspect the McCanns of being involved In which case, why ask the question then, what did you hope to achieve? |
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it gave them a chance to answer the question to those who have been thinking it?
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Looking horrified, Mrs McCann responded: "I don't actually think that is the case, I think that is a very small minority of people that are criticising us. Actually quite a few people are criticising you two, perhaps with good reason, thats a question for their consciences imo, seems unlikely to me though that the reporter was trying to prepare them for a public backlash |
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It gave psychologists the chance to guage their reactions, both verbally and through their body language to a blunt question. |
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that makes sense and it's what journalism is about - getting a reaction as well as an answer.
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The letter strongly resembles another received by the De Telegraaf paper last year, accurately pinpointing where two missing Belgian girls were buried.
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I was reading that article in the BBC and it says that a paedophile is on remand for the murder of the 2 girls (Abdullah Ait Oud). I assume the Belgian police thing Oud killed the 2 girls and subsequently wrote the letter? If so then this is either a copy cat, or could be that the Belgian police have got the wrong man.
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There are no depths some people won't sink to, it seems :(
He added that he could not confirm reports that the arrests were in connection with an attempt to extort money from the McCanns http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/6251266.stm |
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I am assuming that someone in the Government must think so at the very least, or else why are Leicestershire's finest boys in blue crawling all over Praia Da Luz like a rash? They clearly think they have the techniques and the resources to find something that the Portuguese police can't, even on their home turf. |
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Well it could be anyones blood. Perhaps some guy smacked his misses the week before or another chap punched someone in the gob and caused it
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Are they suggesting that Maddy might have died in an accident and the McCann's came back and cleaned/covered up?
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Correct, what is worrying is it took thirteen weeks for them to locate it ! Also the forensic investigation conducted by the Portugese authorities has been at best laxidasical. |
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The Portugese equivalents of our SOCO (or CSI's as they are now known thanks to the program :) ) On noticing should have immedialtely sampled and also done whats known as a blood pattern analysis. Only with these results should they dismiss. |
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I think the Portuguese police are being criticised unfairly, and as TheNorm says, unfair to criticise them based on reports in the press.
The danger is that they, the Portuguese, might get a bit peeved off and it could influence the manner in which they continue conducting the investigation. |
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It's unlikely they'd have noticed with the naked eye. Is this type of investigation routine for what appears to be an abduction? If not, it does seem the Portuguese Police are criticised harshly. |
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A forensic investigation does not just cover whats visible to the naked eye. It's the time that it has taken for them to get to where they are that concerns me. |
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Agreed entirely, their initial external investigation of the surrounding garden area in the original 'suspects' mothers house had to be all redone. Again this was done by British officers |
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As I understand the Portuguese have invited police from the UK to review their investigation, most probably to see where they could have done things different. Its a shame that they weren't working together much earlier though. |
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Let's not forget this is a holiday resort. I suspect the chances of finding minute blood specks on the wall of any room in a holiday resort are fairly large. |
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Same UK police who throughout the years have cocked up investigations too. The press want a story and to point blame, some pointed it at the parents in the early stages, and now that its not flavour of the month to criticise them, let's start criticisng the Portuguese police. Like an earlier poster said, if the Brazilian police started critcising the manner in which the police were tailing Mendez, let alone his shooting, then we would be making alsorts of excuses as to how they were doing their job properly. Mistakes happen, and more importantly what is deemed right by some maybe viewed differently by others. |
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Interestingly, the BBC only reports that the investigation had 'at least one British sniffer dog' present. They also mention 'suspected blood'.
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Can you imagine the media reaction if MAddie had died in an accident whilst left alone in the apartment as the parents did so. The police would definately have arrested them then (its a criminal offence to leave kids unattended like that in Portugal according to friends and family I know who live there).
Maybe the McGanns came back, so she was dead, weighed up some options regarding outcomes of reporting it as opposed to dumping the body and claiming they are victims of child abduction. They would have something genuine to feel guilty about then. Yep, it does sound like a daty time soap, but its totally feasible. I've never felt 100% about the copuple and it wouldnt suprise me if that happened. |
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Trying to dispose of a body in a foreign country is a massively tall order for anyone, as would be the task of forensically cleaning the scene of death. I believe the McCanns are intelligent enough to know this and not to try - even if the child did die in an accident the parents would know they didn't have the expertise to hide it and too much to lose on discovery of the body (a guaranteed murder conviction and the loss of their remaining children). |
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There is no reason to suggest that it could not happen again in this scenario. What percentage of people would have the ability to hide/dump a cadaver ? |
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It is a fact of human nature that we as a species are capable of hurting and destroying our own children. There is no news there. What we have to do is look at the circumstances here and ask how likely is it that this has happened. When child murder occurs in the UK the body - or bodies - are usually found, and found within a reasonabley sort space of time. They are not well disposed of because the vast majority of people are not professional killers with an understanding of how to defeat police search techniques. The challenge of disposing of a body in wholly unfamiliar territory is all the greater - enough to dissuade all but the most determined from trying and to make it less likely that a body could remain concealed for long. What is lacking in all these 'The family did it' conspiracy theories is a convincing motive. 'covering up a tragic accident' does not stack up as a motive as the family do not have the skill to cover it up and they have far too much to lose. |
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You are giving insights into what you think the Mcganns are capable/not capable off, what if they thought that they had enough expertise to clean the scene properly (being from medical backgrounds might have helped). Unfortunately parents do kill children (im not saying its happened here) and as much as we dont like to see it happen its a fact that it does happen. My sceanario is totally feasible. You are right, intelligent people should know that they are likely to get caught by covering up a death, but its been done before, and not all criminals are stupid. |
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