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How many threads has he started on that site :shocked: I thought I logged into CF to start with with the same exact threads there too.

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I may be old but didn't have a clue what he is on about :shrug::shrug::shrug:

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Watching someone going through the process of loss, grief and guilt

My sister in law lost her cat yesterday that she had for fifteen years, died in its sleep. my sister in law has significant neurological impairment due to Microcephaly and it’s truly horrific watching her break her heart over and over again and blaming herself.

Well my browser doesnt force HTTPS and it looks like Dave is not redirecting to HTTPS right now as when I goto http://www.cybertechhelp.com (or http://cybertechhelp.com) it doesnt do anything... (It used to put me on https://www.cybertechhelp.com / https://cybertechhelp.com)

Very strange........ Im sorry if you guys get mad at me,I doint mean to upset any of you......

mrmistoffelees: Im so sorry about your sister in laws loss....... https://www.cableforum.uk/images/local/2022/07/3.gif

I miss my kitty cat alot.............. :(

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I can only imagine how hard that must be seeing them constantly reliving that same horrible moment.

I lost both my cats at 15 years. April 23 for you younger one and June 22 for the older ofnthe two and that has been heartbreaking enough with the added issue of neurological impairment. :(

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Confidence knocked bad. Been chatting to a lass on Facebook dating and Whatsapp. Getting on well chatting for ages arranged a meet then suddenly blocked and ghosted. No reason why. Shiz like this really sets me back`. The weight I am at now is where I was the last time I was in a serious relationship and although it was not the break up from that led me to my breakdown and weight gain it was a contributing factor.

How I feel now proves I am still vulnerable to this which makes me not want to try but I also do not want to be alone anymore. I do not know what to do

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Sorry to hear that. Sounds like something wasn't right on her part. It's just natural progression to want to meet after chatting for so long.

See it as her loss but don't let it get to you. Just keep doing what you're doing as that is building your confidence within yourself. From what I've read so far you've done brilliantly so keep building on that. Yeah it's a set back and you might go through many more till you find the one. Just never give up. :)

I mean I have a face that looks like a smacked arse, but been married twice, and constantly told I've punched well above my weight (I can accept that's a put down / negative remark on my side). But I don't care what I look like as I can't change that fact but I can accept that it's my personality and confidence is what that counted far more than my looks. It's how you carry yourself.

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Her loss. Keep moving forward one small step at a time. In the meantime try to be comfortable & embrace being on your own it’s an amazing place to be.

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I agree wholeheartedly with the comments already made by the guys. From my perspective it's definitely her loss.

Jay you are a great guy, you always have been as long as I have known you. Don't let this get to you. You have worked so hard and you look great, it's her loss and even if you never find out why she bottled meeting you in real life it shows how lucky you were not to invest any more time on her.

Take a break from the search and just enjoy the new freedom. The more you socialise the more confidence you will gain and who knows, maybe the lady you are looking for is just waiting around the corner.

xx Jo

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Good new and bad news. (From the report) The good news is I don't have Parkinson's disease. But the cause of the aggressive shakes is still yet not known. So further tests needs to be done. (Nerve Conduction Study and scans).
The bad news that a lot could be related to my neck. C3/4 has collapsed and now fused. C2/3, C4/5, C5/6 and C6/7 has degenerative changes also. And also a significant joint (shoulder) pathology was raised which is the cause of the persistent neuralgic amyotrophy (I can no longer lift my right arm up). As well as other problems related to the above which are long term.

Still it's a step forward at least.

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I want to buy some quality A4 paper 80gsm+ preferably HP, It's nigh on impossible to buy it in a 5 ream box.


I could do Amazon, but worried if the corners will get damaged.

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Do you have a staples near you?

https://www.staples.co.uk/office-sup...clean%20finish.

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Well my one pack got left out in the rain because the delivery chap didn't knock and I didn't get the notice from amazon until the morning..:mad:

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Buy in bulk : https://www.costco.co.uk/Business-Of...heets/p/237731


But it is in smaller quantities : https://www.costco.co.uk/Business-Of...heets/p/237727


Need Costo membership : civil servant or retired civil servant???

You should ask them to replace the item.... It shouldnt have been left in the rain,how bloody stupid!

Does your item work ok Maggy?