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joglynne 29-05-2017 15:18

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Oh weenie, what a prat you have for a neighbour and how lucky you are to have the proof that your son did nothing wrong. I doubt if the Police will take any formal action against her at this stage as it wouldn't be cost effective.

nashville 29-05-2017 16:08

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Quote:

Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35900925)
When will my neighbour learn that we don't break the law and we just want left alone!

Last Wednesday evening hubby allowed our son to reverse his car up our driveway while he was moving mine. Long story short we had a visit from the police stating that they had received a call saying that we were allowing our son who is 15 to drive on a public highway but were not willing to say who reported the incident. My eldest son took over as he is doing law and explained that our neighbour has a interdict against her, he showed them the dashcam footage in where they said that they were happy that no crime had been committed as this was clearly on private land, he also offered to them CCTV footage which they said was no need as they were satisfied that no crime had taken place. My eldest son said that he suspected that it was our neighbour who reported his brother and if his suspicion was correct would they please have a word with her as she knows this was private land due to the court case as both parties were in receipt of the surveys and he suggested the only crime that has been committed in his opinion was was by our neighbour and since he has given proof of our court case with our neighbour along with showing video footage, if his suspicion is correct and that she was the one who reported this incident surely this can be classed as wasteful employment of police time by knowingly making a false report since she knew this was our private property and not a public highway. When my son mentioned our neighbour again the police said so you have a disgruntled neighbour and my son said well you could say that but I can understand being upset at losing a court case and having to pay all costs but just because you have a interdict preventing you from harassing my parents that does not give you the right to use Police Scotland for harassment.

The police have since been at my neighbours house I can only hope that if it was her who reported my youngest son they take my eldest sons advice and explain to her about wasting police time and more importantly that she was the only one who committed a crime as she knew without doubt that this was private land as she has a copy of the land register (title deeds)

I think this proves our suspicion that this was once again my delightful neighbour trying to cause upset to us. I have asked my son if the police will now tell us if it was her that reported his brother and he said no but he is keeping a file just in case this should happen again then he said he will be asking the police to press charges as I really don't need this at the moment or anytime. Will this woman never learn how many times will it take for her to learn or is she really that unintelligent...

Anyway I have more things to worry about atm than this silly woman! but I just can't stop crying at the moment I just do not know how much I can take tbh.



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This is a person who should mind her own business, Weenie, I would stay clear of her,

weenie 29-05-2017 16:25

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Yes the dash cam footage really helped along with the offer of CCTV the best money we have spent by far :) and to think that we thought these would be used to prove a crime never thinking it would prove no crime has been committed. Our neighbour knows that there is CCTV as she also complained about this when it was getting fitted something about her right for privacy whereas our other neighbours were delighted as one of the camera's covers there driveway so the way they see it is they have CCTV with no expense to them. Our cameras only film our back garden, front garden and our driveway the camera just under the back eave captures the driveway from the back overlooks our other neighbours driveway and like I have said they are more than delighted with there cars being filmed.

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Originally Posted by nashville (Post 35900935)
This is a person who should mind her own business, Weenie, I would stay clear of her,

We do nash but she seems obsessed with my household last year she said at a chance meeting at the bank Happy New Year then in the same breathe I'm going to get you this year :shocked: It is pretty obvious that she thought at last she had something on us but we don't do anything if boring people were a crime then she could have us convicted LOL as honestly we are the most boring people in the world last week when the police came it was at 11 minutes after 9 and I was in my Pyjamas just about to go to bed.

SnoopZ 29-05-2017 17:07

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I thought she was moving?

nashville 29-05-2017 17:11

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Quote:

Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35900940)
Yes the dash cam footage really helped along with the offer of CCTV the best money we have spent by far :) and to think that we thought these would be used to prove a crime never thinking it would prove no crime has been committed. Our neighbour knows that there is CCTV as she also complained about this when it was getting fitted something about her right for privacy whereas our other neighbours were delighted as one of the camera's covers there driveway so the way they see it is they have CCTV with no expense to them. Our cameras only film our back garden, front garden and our driveway the camera just under the back eave captures the driveway from the back overlooks our other neighbours driveway and like I have said they are more than delighted with there cars being filmed.

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We do nash but she seems obsessed with my household last year she said at a chance meeting at the bank Happy New Year then in the same breathe I'm going to get you this year :shocked: It is pretty obvious that she thought at last she had something on us but we don't do anything if boring people were a crime then she could have us convicted LOL as honestly we are the most boring people in the world last week when the police came it was at 11 minutes after 9 and I was in my Pyjamas just about to go to bed.

Take Care Weenie :)

Hugh 29-05-2017 18:53

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Having to re-plan part of our Californian trip next month, as around 50-60 miles of the Pacific Coast Highway has been cut off by landslides.

We will probably just take the 101 from Carmel to Cambria, rather than our previous plan to follow the PCH (missing out on a lot of marvellous scenery).

weenie 29-05-2017 20:08

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Quote:

Originally Posted by SnoopZ (Post 35900951)
I thought she was moving?

Nope but I wish for that everyday SnoopZ, the trouble we both have is that we would need to declare our dispute over land etc along with the court case. I would need to declare that she has a interdict against her and that she not only has CCJ but is also known for her antisocial behaviour then there is the fact that her insurance company felt the need to give her a reservation of rights letter so therefore it would be very difficult for her to be able to get buildings insurance. I know I would run away from the sale no matter how much I loved the house and that is why my hubby and I have fitted a new kitchen and done up the house as we ain't going anywhere till we be guaranteed full market value of our home.

Anyway we will be here far longer than her anyway :D

TheDaddy 30-05-2017 02:31

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Quote:

Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35900925)
When will my neighbour learn that we don't break the law and we just want left alone!

Last Wednesday evening hubby allowed our son to reverse his car up our driveway while he was moving mine. Long story short we had a visit from the police stating that they had received a call saying that we were allowing our son who is 15 to drive on a public highway but were not willing to say who reported the incident. My eldest son took over as he is doing law and explained that our neighbour has a interdict against her, he showed them the dashcam footage in where they said that they were happy that no crime had been committed as this was clearly on private land, he also offered to them CCTV footage which they said was no need as they were satisfied that no crime had taken place. My eldest son said that he suspected that it was our neighbour who reported his brother and if his suspicion was correct would they please have a word with her as she knows this was private land due to the court case as both parties were in receipt of the surveys and he suggested the only crime that has been committed in his opinion was was by our neighbour and since he has given proof of our court case with our neighbour along with showing video footage, if his suspicion is correct and that she was the one who reported this incident surely this can be classed as wasteful employment of police time by knowingly making a false report since she knew this was our private property and not a public highway. When my son mentioned our neighbour again the police said so you have a disgruntled neighbour and my son said well you could say that but I can understand being upset at losing a court case and having to pay all costs but just because you have a interdict preventing you from harassing my parents that does not give you the right to use Police Scotland for harassment.

The police have since been at my neighbours house I can only hope that if it was her who reported my youngest son they take my eldest sons advice and explain to her about wasting police time and more importantly that she was the only one who committed a crime as she knew without doubt that this was private land as she has a copy of the land register (title deeds)

I think this proves our suspicion that this was once again my delightful neighbour trying to cause upset to us. I have asked my son if the police will now tell us if it was her that reported his brother and he said no but he is keeping a file just in case this should happen again then he said he will be asking the police to press charges as I really don't need this at the moment or anytime. Will this woman never learn how many times will it take for her to learn or is she really that unintelligent...

Anyway I have more things to worry about atm than this silly woman! but I just can't stop crying at the moment I just do not know how much I can take tbh.

It's hard to ignore her when she gets the police involved, at least if she tries it again there will already be a record on file of her false allegations, she might even end up being arrested with luck, until then don't give her the head space, it's obviously what she wants

weenie 30-05-2017 10:03

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It is very hard TD but I can assure everyone that we are not the sort of family to play her games as I think she would love nothing more than a game of tit-for-tat. I admit I have in the past wanted to ask what is her problem but I suspect that would have her dancing with utter glee cos then she would know what she is doing is bothering us. What really bothers me is the fact she continues with such malice and childish behaviour towards us even after the talking too she received from the Judge as his exact words to her were Mrs XXXX it is my opinion that your a social nuisance who thinks it is alright to cause nuisance or annoyance to your neighbours, Mrs XXXX you ignored all advice from both legal teams as well as your insurance company Mrs XXXX you even declined the offer of mediation when your neighbours (us) contacted the council. Mrs XXXX this is unacceptable behaviour and on the proof I have before me I have no option but to grant a interdict against you and order you pay all costs.

Osem 30-05-2017 13:39

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@ Weenie - There are some people you just can't reason with and sadly your neighbour is one such. The thing to do is remember that every minute you spend fretting about her antics is a minute you'll never have again and a minute she'd be delighted to have ruined for you. It's far better that you do what you do, post here, let off steam as you do then move on because in that way you are minimising the negative effect she has on your life and your family. :tu:

Hom3r 30-05-2017 17:50

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Weenie what is a interdict?

We are lucky with our neighbours either side were retired and we got alone, sadly late 2014 one died and his wife shortly after.

A couple moved in with young kids moved in and at least one has ADHD, but they are no problem, a little noisy but they are kids.

The other side is a woman who has schizophrenia, but again shes OK.

My worst neighbour is a woman two doors away who cannot park her small car (smallest Hyundai) in the space vacated by a large people carrier, the other week she was touching my dad rear bumper.

dilli-theclaw 30-05-2017 18:41

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Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

Osem 30-05-2017 18:43

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35901094)
Weenie what is a interdict?

It's a court order.

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901103)
Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

Yes, toes too mate. I'm sure everyone here* will be rooting for you. :tu:


* 'tools' excepted... :D

denphone 30-05-2017 18:45

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901103)
Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

Good luck dilli as l have my fingers crossed for you.

TheDaddy 30-05-2017 20:32

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35901094)
Weenie what is a interdict?

Some sort of restraining order or banning order maybe iirc

Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901103)
Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

Good luck matey :tu:

dilli-theclaw 31-05-2017 11:20

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901103)
Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

They said no! Nuts to it :(

weenie 31-05-2017 17:01

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35901094)
Weenie what is a interdict?

In England is called an injunction.

I know with my neighbours interdict against her it stops her doing many things.

She is not allowed to verbally assault me or my family, make abusive phone calls or do anything that can frighten alarm or distress us or anyone visiting my household.

It also prevents her from planting any form of tree species 2 meters from the boundary of our properties both front and back.

She also cannot step on our property without a invitation nor block my driveway, nor instruct anyone to use our property as access to maintain or carry out works to her property without permission from us the home owners unless it is a vital service then no permission will be needed.

She is not even allowed to ask workmen or anyone to carry out the duty of planting trees within 2 meters from our property.

The judge advised her that if the interdict is breached the possible punishments imposed by the court can include a fine or even imprisonment.

Our court case could not have went better for us and I'm just so grateful that we had legal cover through Direct Line something I had thought of cancelling but now would never be without!

MalteseFalcon 31-05-2017 17:31

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901154)
They said no! Nuts to it :(

That sucks, I'm sorry dilli. Way I feel tonight, you can have my heart kidneys, in face everything but eyes.

My moan is that I feel like work are trying to force me out by making working conditions unbearable. They know I hate one manager and one worker, so they have dumped me with both of them permanently. Seriously, if I had seen the manager responsible for doing that today, I would have unloaded on her.

denphone 31-05-2017 17:33

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Just had to see the GP again as my legs and ankles swelled up even more overnight and he has given me another tablet to take the fluid off my body.

Osem 31-05-2017 18:07

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901154)
They said no! Nuts to it :(

So sorry to hear this Dilli but you've come through so many challenges and you'll get through this one I'm sure. Hopefully things will soon take a turn for the better for you and Natalie. :hugs: :tu:

joglynne 31-05-2017 18:21

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901154)
They said no! Nuts to it :(

<hugs> Did they give a reason dilli or give you any idea what needs to happen before you can be reassessed ?

denphone 31-05-2017 18:22

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901154)
They said no! Nuts to it :(

So sorry to hear that dilli as that is not what you wanted to hear.:(

TheDaddy 31-05-2017 20:46

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901154)
They said no! Nuts to it :(

Sucks powerfully :(

Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35901208)
Just had to see the GP again as my legs and ankles swelled up even more overnight and he has given me another tablet to take the fluid off my body.

Good luck with that

denphone 01-06-2017 05:56

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Quote:

Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 35901232)
Sucks powerfully :(



Good luck with that

If it had got any worse the GP said infection could have set in which in his opinion is not what you want but looking at it this morning l sense a little improvement already.:)

weenie 01-06-2017 10:51

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901154)
They said no! Nuts to it :(

That really sucks dilli :(

Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35901289)
If it had got any worse the GP said infection could have set in which in his opinion is not what you want but looking at it this morning l sense a little improvement already.:)

Glad you see a improvement den just sorry that you had to visit your GP :hugs:

MalteseFalcon 02-06-2017 16:55

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Ugh. Last couple of days I can't seem to say or do anything without upsetting people. Getting the feeling now I might as well just stop breathing and then maybe I will please everyone.

Mr K 02-06-2017 18:20

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35901495)
Ugh. Last couple of days I can't seem to say or do anything without upsetting people. Getting the feeling now I might as well just stop breathing and then maybe I will please everyone.

Doesn't work mate, you just fall unconscious and start breathing again....

dilli-theclaw 02-06-2017 19:08

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The transplant doctor told me I had to diet, I'm only fourteen stone so hopefully I've not got too much to loose. As long as I can still have marmite :)

denphone 02-06-2017 19:16

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Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35901504)
The transplant doctor told me I had to diet, I'm only fourteen stone so hopefully I've not got too much to loose. As long as I can still have marmite :)

Well cheese would be my weakness dilli if l had to do the same as your good self.:)

MalteseFalcon 03-06-2017 21:48

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I wish I could get through to my brother and sister. Sister might have epilepsy, so what does she do? Binges on damn Monster energy drinks to revise and go out boozing every night. Brother is determined to throw his life away. Only 17 and went on a 48 hour drug and booze bender the other day. Both seem determined to throw their lives away, and I am getting to the stage now where I want to disown them both.

Hom3r 03-06-2017 22:19

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35901572)
I wish I could get through to my brother and sister. Sister might have epilepsy, so what does she do? Binges on damn Monster energy drinks to revise and go out boozing every night. Brother is determined to throw his life away. Only 17 and went on a 48 hour drug and booze bender the other day. Both seem determined to throw their lives away, and I am getting to the stage now where I want to disown them both.

Well you can only try and help.

Then be there if things go wrong.

denphone 04-06-2017 06:04

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35901572)
I wish I could get through to my brother and sister. Sister might have epilepsy, so what does she do? Binges on damn Monster energy drinks to revise and go out boozing every night. Brother is determined to throw his life away. Only 17 and went on a 48 hour drug and booze bender the other day. Both seem determined to throw their lives away, and I am getting to the stage now where I want to disown them both.

Never disown Mark as often big regrets often follow down the line.

Just try to there for them if they have their fall.

denphone 06-06-2017 05:43

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2 medical appointments today as its the doctors this morning and 2 specialist nurses coming for a home visit this afternoon.

TheDaddy 06-06-2017 08:01

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Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35901858)
2 medical appointments today as its the doctors this morning and 2 specialist nurses coming for a home visit this afternoon.

On the bright side it's good to get them out of the way in one go, hope they go well for you

weenie 06-06-2017 12:29

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Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35901858)
2 medical appointments today as its the doctors this morning and 2 specialist nurses coming for a home visit this afternoon.

Hope all goes well den :hugs:

denphone 06-06-2017 16:46

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Well first of all the doctor saw me this morning and was concerned at the oedema that has built up these past few weeks as that can cause considerable ongoing problems if it continues so its a continuation of the second diuretic and depending on blood tests a increased dose of the other diuretic is highly likely.

Because of the fluid retention a pretty severe itchy rash developed on large parts of the lower body thus they have prescribed 3 drugs for that as well.

Then this afternoon l had a home visit by my cardiac community nurse and a senior nurse who examined me considerably but also assessed me about having a special pressure mattress and raised higher bed aid or a electronic hospital bed so l await the decision on that in time.

Also l have to have a quick access heart scan to see if there has been a deterioration with my heart function and a MRI scan to see if there is everything untoward happening which has which has not been diagnosed currently.

nashville 06-06-2017 18:25

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Hope you get sorted out soon Dill and glad there is an improvement with you Den, Keep it up ,

Mr K 06-06-2017 20:03

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Sounds a right kerfuffle Den, at least you're getting plenty of attention. Take care.

denphone 06-06-2017 20:21

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr K (Post 35901968)
Sounds a right kerfuffle Den, at least you're getting plenty of attention. Take care.

One has to take each day as it comes Mr K as one never knows what is around the corner sadly.

weenie 07-06-2017 11:06

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Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35901939)
Well first of all the doctor saw me this morning and was concerned at the oedema that has built up these past few weeks as that can cause considerable ongoing problems if it continues so its a continuation of the second diuretic and depending on blood tests a increased dose of the other diuretic is highly likely.

Because of the fluid retention a pretty severe itchy rash developed on large parts of the lower body thus they have prescribed 3 drugs for that as well.

Then this afternoon l had a home visit by my cardiac community nurse and a senior nurse who examined me considerably but also assessed me about having a special pressure mattress and raised higher bed aid or a electronic hospital bed so l await the decision on that in time.

Also l have to have a quick access heart scan to see if there has been a deterioration with my heart function and a MRI scan to see if there is everything untoward happening which has which has not been diagnosed currently.

These beds a amazing den as my Mum has both the hospital bed and the air mattress that gently moves. When my Mum had a little mobility she was also given a chair topper to help with sores etc the chair topper mattress was clear in colour filled with air that you just pumped up den I'm sure this was called a air mattress overlay that was suitable for single bed and chair use for chair use you just put it in a cover that had straps that went round the chair. In my opinion it looked like one of those Inflatable Lilo things only on a smaller scale so this maybe also an option as well as I know this also benefited my Mum in regards to her sores among other problems regarding her health. I know the NHS also supplies these for patients that need these.

Anyway den I hope you get the bed etc and your health improves take care and hugs and best wishes being sent your way.

nashville 07-06-2017 12:06

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It has been all go for you Den, Hope things get sorted out, Take Care

weenie 08-06-2017 11:46

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Apologies for the long post.

I have a question that I'm looking for some unbiased answers on.

If you had a number of things to do like be home within the hour, make your family a meal, take your child to a club since your hubby is working and you and a other person were both asked who can go to the shops for me now as I need etc, is it taking the pee if that other person just simply ignores the person asking and continues to sit on the sofa and watch the tennis while shouting come on Andy. Hubby, both my son's and friends said this is taking the pee if one person is running trying to catch their tail and be expected to do this while the other person has nothing to do at that moment simply because that other person had nothing to do and knew how busy I was.
Well that is what happened to me last night.



What happened on Tuesday is my Dad phoned me at 4pm and said my Mum's nurse has phoned the GP and a prescription is waiting at the doctors so I left and picked this up from the doctors then went to Boots to get it. Then he asked me to do some shopping as my sister was busy I said he would have to wait till later if that was ok. To give you an idea of Tuesday it was that I left my house at 4pm got back home at 6pm then offered the wee one a subway as he was hungry as dinner was not happening as it had been put on hold for obvious reasons, took the wee one to his cadets at 6:45 then went from their to do my Dad's shopping, took the shopping to my parents at approximately 8pm only to find the sister who remember was too busy to do the shopping sitting in my parents drinking coffee with her hubby, then I left my parents house with my sister and her hubby still there despite being apparently busy and far too busy do any shopping at 9:10 I left my parents house to pick up my son from cadets at 9:30 then came home at 9:50 made us something to eat as remember we had no time for a dinner then I made hubby something to eat when he came in from his work at 11pm. That was my Tuesday evening.

So on two occasions this week alone this has happened which is not unusual as I find this is happening all the time, so I ask am I getting made a fool off?
Please tell me your view's whether that is posting or pm as I'm at my wits end and hubby is ready to blow with my sister he has said don't do it but I can't say no to my Dad especially given the situation. Hubby hurt me last night when he said that my Father has always treated me so differently from my sister and it has always astonished him at how differently we are treated, whereas my eldest son said that my father uses emotional blackmail on me as when I said to my Dad last night that I felt it was unfair to ask me to do so much when I had other commitments and my sister had none his reply was well you can just say no. My son said this is emotional blackmail is it?

Am I getting made a fool off and been treated like a doormat?

denphone 08-06-2017 11:51

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Quote:

Originally Posted by nashville (Post 35902021)
It has been all go for you Den, Hope things get sorted out, Take Care

Yes it has been nash and another appointment awaits tomorrow with further phone calls one suspects next week to me as well but l have a wonderful family and some good close friends apart from one we sadly lost weeks ago who are incredibly supportive to me.:)

Osem 08-06-2017 16:18

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Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35901939)
Well first of all the doctor saw me this morning and was concerned at the oedema that has built up these past few weeks as that can cause considerable ongoing problems if it continues so its a continuation of the second diuretic and depending on blood tests a increased dose of the other diuretic is highly likely.

Because of the fluid retention a pretty severe itchy rash developed on large parts of the lower body thus they have prescribed 3 drugs for that as well.

Then this afternoon l had a home visit by my cardiac community nurse and a senior nurse who examined me considerably but also assessed me about having a special pressure mattress and raised higher bed aid or a electronic hospital bed so l await the decision on that in time.

Also l have to have a quick access heart scan to see if there has been a deterioration with my heart function and a MRI scan to see if there is everything untoward happening which has which has not been diagnosed currently.

Sorry to hear this Den but hope the results are good and you'll soon get it sorted.

joglynne 08-06-2017 18:23

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35902185)
Apologies for the long post.

I have a question that I'm looking for some unbiased answers on.

If you had a number of things to do like be home within the hour, make your family a meal, take your child to a club since your hubby is working and you and a other person were both asked who can go to the shops for me now as I need etc, is it taking the pee if that other person just simply ignores the person asking and continues to sit on the sofa and watch the tennis while shouting come on Andy. Hubby, both my son's and friends said this is taking the pee if one person is running trying to catch their tail and be expected to do this while the other person has nothing to do at that moment simply because that other person had nothing to do and knew how busy I was.
Well that is what happened to me last night.



What happened on Tuesday is my Dad phoned me at 4pm and said my Mum's nurse has phoned the GP and a prescription is waiting at the doctors so I left and picked this up from the doctors then went to Boots to get it. Then he asked me to do some shopping as my sister was busy I said he would have to wait till later if that was ok. To give you an idea of Tuesday it was that I left my house at 4pm got back home at 6pm then offered the wee one a subway as he was hungry as dinner was not happening as it had been put on hold for obvious reasons, took the wee one to his cadets at 6:45 then went from their to do my Dad's shopping, took the shopping to my parents at approximately 8pm only to find the sister who remember was too busy to do the shopping sitting in my parents drinking coffee with her hubby, then I left my parents house with my sister and her hubby still there despite being apparently busy and far too busy do any shopping at 9:10 I left my parents house to pick up my son from cadets at 9:30 then came home at 9:50 made us something to eat as remember we had no time for a dinner then I made hubby something to eat when he came in from his work at 11pm. That was my Tuesday evening.

So on two occasions this week alone this has happened which is not unusual as I find this is happening all the time, so I ask am I getting made a fool off?
Please tell me your view's whether that is posting or pm as I'm at my wits end and hubby is ready to blow with my sister he has said don't do it but I can't say no to my Dad especially given the situation. Hubby hurt me last night when he said that my Father has always treated me so differently from my sister and it has always astonished him at how differently we are treated, whereas my eldest son said that my father uses emotional blackmail on me as when I said to my Dad last night that I felt it was unfair to ask me to do so much when I had other commitments and my sister had none his reply was well you can just say no. My son said this is emotional blackmail is it?

Am I getting made a fool off and been treated like a doormat?

Hello Mrs Doormat.

Learning to say NO!!!!!! is the hardest thing that a caring, considerate and downright nice person can ever try to do. Your Father uses emotional blackmail on you because he knows it works. As for your sister, well you already know my opinion of her.

I know that you are between a rock and a hard place but if you run yourself into the ground then your Dad will have to become a bit more accommodating as you will end up burning yourself out.

If your Father needs shopping, or anything that you know could wait, then tell him you will do it when you can.... maybe tomorrow.... and if he can't wait till then tell him to phone your sister and just step back and leave them to it. Do not get drawn into a guilt session. Do not carry on as you are doing sweetie. Decide what your priorities are and then gently say NO to the rest.

Your caring husband and son can see what is happening and obviously love you too much to sit back and keep their mouth's shut any longer. Sometimes we wear rose tinted specs when it comes to our families and it hurts when those glasses are removed.

Sending you the biggest virtual hug,

Jo

Mr K 08-06-2017 20:29

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People that don't bother voting, then moan on for the next 5 years complaining nothing changes.....

denphone 08-06-2017 20:45

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr K (Post 35902296)
People that don't bother voting, then moan on for the next 5 years complaining nothing changes.....

Well for once Mr K l agree with you.:tu:

Gary L 10-06-2017 09:16

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
People that vote for the wrong person. then moan for the next five years that they voted for the wrong person :)

Hom3r 10-06-2017 13:05

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Bought a pair of scissors, I need another pair to cut them out of the packed or a cutting torch.

heero_yuy 10-06-2017 13:07

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My sister's black Labrador's been diagnosed with cancer. They don't know how aggressive it's going to be. Poor old fella has been getting very tired recently and is on medication for joint pain. He's nearly 15 now so has had a good innings.

She's cancelled a booked holiday in Turkey next week, I was going to dog sit, so that she can enjoy him to the last.

denphone 10-06-2017 13:15

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35902610)
My sister's black Labrador's been diagnosed with cancer. They don't know how aggressive it's going to be. Poor old fella has been getting very tired recently and is on medication for joint pain. He's nearly 15 now so has had a good innings.

She's cancelled a booked holiday in Turkey next week, I was going to dog sit, so that she can enjoy him to the last.

So sorry to hear about your sisters Labrador as its never nice when one gets bad news like that.

MalteseFalcon 10-06-2017 13:42

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Why do family wait until they are nearly there to call and ask to pop in?

dilli-theclaw 10-06-2017 14:39

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35902625)
Why do family wait until they are nearly there to call and ask to pop in?

I get people turning up from two hundred miles away with a broken pc and no notice at all. Gotta love it! :(

Hom3r 10-06-2017 17:14

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Websites that now stop you access them because they've detected you are using a ad blocker

So this sit is now added to my block list

http://www.thewindowsclub.com/print-...folder-windows

nashville 10-06-2017 17:26

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35902610)
My sister's black Labrador's been diagnosed with cancer. They don't know how aggressive it's going to be. Poor old fella has been getting very tired recently and is on medication for joint pain. He's nearly 15 now so has had a good innings.

She's cancelled a booked holiday in Turkey next week, I was going to dog sit, so that she can enjoy him to the last.

So sorry about your sisters dog, they are part of the family, Nash

Hom3r 10-06-2017 20:01

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Watch the F1 qualifying, and recording dr who and the Tivo box reboots itself, so no we have to wait for the iPlayer to see the episode.

Osem 10-06-2017 20:44

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35902630)
I get people turning up from two hundred miles away with a broken pc and no notice at all. Gotta love it! :(

I've got you down for a visit when mine goes down. Can you PM me your address please? ;)

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Quote:

Originally Posted by joglynne (Post 35902262)
Hello Mrs Doormat.

Learning to say NO!!!!!! is the hardest thing that a caring, considerate and downright nice person can ever try to do. Your Father uses emotional blackmail on you because he knows it works. As for your sister, well you already know my opinion of her.

I know that you are between a rock and a hard place but if you run yourself into the ground then your Dad will have to become a bit more accommodating as you will end up burning yourself out.

If your Father needs shopping, or anything that you know could wait, then tell him you will do it when you can.... maybe tomorrow.... and if he can't wait till then tell him to phone your sister and just step back and leave them to it. Do not get drawn into a guilt session. Do not carry on as you are doing sweetie. Decide what your priorities are and then gently say NO to the rest.

Your caring husband and son can see what is happening and obviously love you too much to sit back and keep their mouth's shut any longer. Sometimes we wear rose tinted specs when it comes to our families and it hurts when those glasses are removed.

Sending you the biggest virtual hug,

Jo

Agreed Jo. :tu:

@ weenie - Old folks often forget that their families have lives and get all worked up about the smallest of things or stuff that could wait a little. You can't really blame them but it does need to be spelled out from time to time. I had exactly the same issues with my dad in the year or two before he passed away and had to tell him more than once that we'd do our best to help him (he was carer for my mum) but he couldn't just expect us to drop everything every time something happened because we had quite enough on our plate caring for Osem Jnr # 2. For one reason or another he rarely ever asked anything of my siblings but, largely because we were there, we got all the grief and few of the thanks. He frequently wanted to ask my wife to take on the caring role for my mum when he was no longer there but I told him it would be totally unfair to put her in that situation as she already had enough on her plate. It's called being taken for granted, I'm glad I didn't carry on letting him do it to us and I don't feel the tiniest it guilty about it because I know we did far more for them than the rest of my family put together. That was especially true of my eldest retired millionaire brother who was always the favourite even though he never helped them and always tried to palm off what few duties he was asked to perform even right at the end, onto us. I finally told him to get stuffed too and I'm glad I did.

Osem 11-06-2017 12:17

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Aphids - especially the ones infesting my garlic chives. I've never seen anything quite like it, or them for that matter, especially on my chives. They seem to be specialists as they've not touched neighbouring plants - millions of tiny, black shiny little blighters who've just been treated to a nice cool soapy shower.

denphone 11-06-2017 12:28

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35902630)
I get people turning up from two hundred miles away with a broken pc and no notice at all. Gotta love it! :(

l hate it when people don't give you any notice and are suddenly on your doorstep.

Osem 11-06-2017 12:38

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35902765)
l hate it when people don't give you any notice and are suddenly on your doorstep.

Get the cream teas going Den, we're just round the corner... :D

Tinky 11-06-2017 12:55

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35902764)
Aphids - especially the ones infesting my garlic chives. I've never seen anything quite like it, or them for that matter, especially on my chives. They seem to be specialists as they've not touched neighbouring plants - millions of tiny, black shiny little blighters who've just been treated to a nice cool soapy shower.

We have a similar problem Osem, something is eating our runner bean leafs :erm:

denphone 11-06-2017 13:09

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35902766)
Get the cream teas going Den, we're just round the corner... :D

Thinking of cream teas is making me peckish now Osem but alas it will have to wait until our sister comes down as she absolutely loves them.:)

MalteseFalcon 12-06-2017 08:16

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Why do I keep making the same mistakes when it comes to women? Ugh. Someone lock me in a room for a week please.

denphone 12-06-2017 08:44

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35902960)
Why do I keep making the same mistakes when it comes to women? Ugh. Someone lock me in a room for a week please.

Sorry to enquire Mark but what mistakes do you think you are making?.

weenie 12-06-2017 15:17

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Does virgin mobile have any UK call based call centers any more as I have been trying all day since 09:10 to get through to one. They do not understand me nor I them and tbh I'm totally fed up at going round in circles. Things like this do not usually bother me but at this time in my life I really need my mobile as my Dad needs to be able to contact me.

Hom3r 12-06-2017 17:54

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
I have no broadband as my sh1 has died

I'm having issues with this site trying to search as it won't let me using chrome or the phones native browser.

Any ideas how to sort this

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It will open the search box but when I click or type the box closes

SnoopZ 12-06-2017 18:15

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35903067)
I have no broadband as my sh1 has died

I'm having issues with this site trying to search as it won't let me using chrome or the phones native browser.

Any ideas how to sort this

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It will open the search box but when I click or type the box closes

Try using your phone in landscape mode and see if it works then, this site isn't mobile friendly, atleast on my Android phones.

Don't you have a laptop or PC you can use?

Hom3r 12-06-2017 19:13

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Yeah, but I'll have to see if I can tether to my phone

MalteseFalcon 13-06-2017 13:27

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Life really bloody sucks at times. My Nan is getting rushed to A&E because her employers think she has had a mini stroke. I really hope not, because if she has I won't be able to control myself at the source of the stress she's been under last few weeks.

MalteseFalcon 13-06-2017 18:04

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And it's not a stroke at all. She's got tumours on the brain. Because more than one they won't operate and haven't said it's terminal. Devastated doesn't cover it.

Paul 13-06-2017 21:08

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SnoopZ (Post 35903077)
Try using your phone in landscape mode and see if it works then, this site isn't mobile friendly, atleast on my Android phones.

Don't you have a laptop or PC you can use?

You know we have a Mobile Style right ?

SnoopZ 13-06-2017 22:18

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul M (Post 35903270)
You know we have a Mobile Style right ?

Yes i do but i find it too limited so i use the standard site, what i mean by that is when i use it in desktop mode i always click 'Todays posts' and i use the 'user cp' all the time also to see if i have any new posts in my subscribed threads, on the desktop site these both work but on the mobile site last time i checked they don't work as i expect them too or there isn't that option.

Maybe i will give it another go to see if there are any work arounds to my annoyances.

weenie 14-06-2017 14:18

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35903235)
And it's not a stroke at all. She's got tumours on the brain. Because more than one they won't operate and haven't said it's terminal. Devastated doesn't cover it.

Sorry to hear this Mark, love and hugs being sent your way.

nashville 14-06-2017 14:44

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[QUOTE=weenie;35903346]Sorry to hear this Mark, love and hugs being sent your way.[/QUO



Sorry to read this Mark.

Hom3r 14-06-2017 19:17

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
I have no broadband as my modem died I phoned Monday and a new SH3 is being sent and should be 24-48 hours.

Well obviously not.

To top it off my phone signal indoors is garbage.

Not happy

---------- Post added at 19:17 ---------- Previous post was at 19:12 ----------

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul M (Post 35903270)
You know we have a Mobile Style right ?

Where?

joglynne 14-06-2017 20:02

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
@ Homer

Style options are at the bottom left of most of the forum pages. :)

dilli-theclaw 14-06-2017 20:40

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Friday is the day - the day they want to start using my fistula and stick me with pencil sized needles!!!

joglynne 14-06-2017 21:25

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35903392)
Friday is the day - the day they want to start using my fistula and stick me with pencil sized needles!!!

Wear blinkers or lie back and think of England? Hope it goes well dilli. <hugs>

Hom3r 14-06-2017 21:37

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Tried the app but cannot login, I keep getting "unexpected server response"

nashville 14-06-2017 23:22

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Terrible when you cannot get Broadband

heero_yuy 15-06-2017 10:44

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by nashville (Post 35903415)
Terrible when you cannot get Broadband

Feels like a limb's been removed. I was down in Cornwall the last two weeks and the lappy died on the Sunday. (POST fail, fan not working) Even though I had to use the local pub's WiFi as the mobile can only get a flakey 2G connection I still felt so isolated.

Osem 15-06-2017 12:48

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35903466)
Feels like a limb's been removed. I was down in Cornwall the last two weeks and the lappy died on the Sunday. (POST fail, fan not working) Even though I had to use the local pub's WiFi as the mobile can only get a flakey 2G connection I still felt so isolated.

Awww... :hugs: ;)

It's terrible how dependent we're all becoming on the internet for everything. I'm trying my best not to go down that route with social media, banking etc. but we're gradually being pushed in the direction of virtually everything we do being online. All very well if it's total secure and reliable but of course it isn't.

Last week we were away and I only had access to the internet via my phone. I managed to post a couple of times here but can't say I missed being 'out of touch'...

heero_yuy 15-06-2017 13:50

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
I was trying to hand-hold a client and as a moderator on another site I have to touch base often. At least I don't do facebook or those other banal places.

I agree we're being pushed to do more and more on-line, can't see that changing.

Osem 15-06-2017 14:00

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35903492)
I was trying to hand-hold a client and as a moderator on another site I have to touch base often. At least I don't do facebook or those other banal places.

I agree we're being pushed to do more and more on-line, can't see that changing.

See! Even 'hand-holding' is becoming an online activity... ;)

Paul 15-06-2017 17:33

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35903485)
It's terrible how dependent we're all becoming on the internet for everything.

Its not always terrible, many things I prefer to do online, like Banking & Shopping (and have done for almost 20 years now).

I cannot really be doing with "Social Media" (which is mostly anti social these days).
I probably spend about 5 minutes a day on Facebook, just to check on certain things, I would not miss it. I dont use Twatter, or any of the other things.

So many people seem permanantly glued to their phones these days, and cannot go five minutes without them.

Uncle Peter 15-06-2017 19:59

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul M (Post 35903514)
Its not always terrible, many things I prefer to do online, like Banking & Shopping (and have done for almost 20 years now).

I cannot really be doing with "Social Media" (which is mostly anti social these days).
I probably spend about 5 minutes a day on Facebook, just to check on certain things, I would not miss it. I dont use Twatter, or any of the other things.

So many people seem permanantly glued to their phones these days, and cannot go five minutes without them.

Facebook has become an outrage conduit for halfwits; the intellectual baseline at which Corbyn and his militant cabal pitch their campaign.

A long time ago in a galaxy far away I remember when it was a convenient way of keeping in touch with friends, family abroad and interest groups related to hobbies and pastimes and not a platform upon which you're bombarded with vacuous, political soundbites.

TheDaddy 15-06-2017 20:35

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
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Anyone know what type of fish this is, poxy heron had it out the pond and dropped it

MalteseFalcon 15-06-2017 22:03

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Nearly got banned from my local hospital this evening. Went down to CT with my Nan and 4 porters from A&E were sat around in full earshot of the patients (and me) shouting and swearing, talking about oral sex. When my Nan told them they were rude, they were insulting to her. I was ready to go back round and punch them. Instead, I just said loud enough for them to hear that I would be making a formal complaint against them for their behaviour and then they can sit in the Jobcentre swearing and being rude to people.

heero_yuy 16-06-2017 15:16

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Just watched a youtube tutorial on how to get down to the fan on the laptop (HP Probook 450 G3) I've virtually got to gut the thing. :mad: At least it gave the tip on how to get the keyboard out: lots of hidden clips. I can see the fan, it starts and stops randomly so maybe it's just a bad connection.

Thought I'd found all the T8 screws that secure the aluminium top and finger mouse, some were hidden by rubber bungs, but there's a couple more under the CD/DVD drive that also has to come out.. First thing is to get a suitable T8 driver.

denphone 16-06-2017 15:18

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35903635)
Just watched a youtube tutorial on how to get down to the fan on the laptop (HP Probook 450 G3) I've virtually got to gut the thing. :mad: At least it gave the tip on how to get the keyboard out: lots of hidden clips. I can see the fan, it starts and stops randomly so maybe it's just a bad connection.

Thought I'd found all the T8 screws that secure the aluminium top and finger mouse, some were hidden by rubber bungs, but there's a couple more under the CD/DVD drive that also has to come out.. First thing is to get a suitable T8 driver.

They make it very difficult on purpose to get to certain bits on the laptop sadly heero.

heero_yuy 16-06-2017 15:35

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35903636)
They make it very difficult on purpose to get to certain bits on the laptop sadly heero.

Yep, they hope you'll either buy a new one or take it to an expensive repair shop.

Anyhow I've found a nice set of miniature bits with a few other tools like tweezers and plastic blades for a tenner on Amazon.

My old Sony FX101 Vaio was a doddle to take apart.

dilli-theclaw 16-06-2017 15:41

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35903392)
Friday is the day - the day they want to start using my fistula and stick me with pencil sized needles!!!

I got all worked up about it then they decided not to do it today but wait for Monday.

Pah I have to spend all weekend getting ready again!

denphone 16-06-2017 15:47

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35903639)
I got all worked up about it then they decided not to do it today but wait for Monday.

Pah I have to spend all weekend getting ready again!

So sorry dilli that it was not done today and that is has been delayed until Monday as when l go to my local hospital on early Monday l will be hoping and praying that it is done then for you.

Hom3r 18-06-2017 20:00

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
When programmes use "Don't try this at home"

Like we have lying at home 2 tons of sand, or 200 ton weights, and even access to 1billion volts"

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Quote:

Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35903638)
Yep, they hope you'll either buy a new one or take it to an expensive repair shop.

Anyhow I've found a nice set of miniature bits with a few other tools like tweezers and plastic blades for a tenner on Amazon.

My old Sony FX101 Vaio was a doddle to take apart.

My VAIOs battery needs replacing, it doesn't help that I no longer have the battery manager software, which I lost thanks to a failed attempt to back up pre a Win 10 install which never happened.

The base is unvented just will need to work out which screws to remove.

denphone 19-06-2017 10:33

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
l saw the consultant this morning after having some of dilli needles stabbed into me ;):waving: and the upshot is they are going to do a CT scan as they really don't want to do another colonoscopy on me given my other serious other long term medical conditions and his initial thoughts are that l suffer from IBS and that l have had some pretty bad bouts of it since my last operation.

Tinky 19-06-2017 10:51

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Den :sorry::hugs:

peanut 19-06-2017 11:02

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35903908)
l saw the consultant this morning after having some of dilli needles stabbed into me ;):waving: and the upshot is they are going to do a CT scan as they really don't want to do another colonoscopy on me given my other serious other long term medical conditions and his initial thoughts are that l suffer from IBS and that l have had some pretty bad bouts of it since my last operation.

You can try an over the counter drug called Buscopan which will help with stomach cramps and pain associated with IBS. Also try and do a food diary of some kind to narrow down what food or ingredient could be causing the problem. Luckily IBS can be controlled with a change of diet and lifestyle. At least you don't have to have a colonoscopy so that's good.

denphone 19-06-2017 16:17

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by peanut (Post 35903919)
You can try an over the counter drug called Buscopan which will help with stomach cramps and pain associated with IBS. Also try and do a food diary of some kind to narrow down what food or ingredient could be causing the problem. Luckily IBS can be controlled with a change of diet and lifestyle. At least you don't have to have a colonoscopy so that's good.

l will have to try that peanut but l just have to make sure it does not interact with all my other medication's.

l have changed my diet quite considerably and try to avoid foods that set it off and l have much smaller meals then l was having as he seems to think that all the stressful events that had happened in the last 10 months have set it off and sadly there have been a few of them.

Yes not having a colonoscopy was a relief :) as he said he was very wary of doing one of them because of my other complex medical conditions.

dilli-theclaw 19-06-2017 16:30

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35903908)
l saw the consultant this morning after having some of dilli needles stabbed into me ;):waving: and the upshot is they are going to do a CT scan as they really don't want to do another colonoscopy on me given my other serious other long term medical conditions and his initial thoughts are that l suffer from IBS and that l have had some pretty bad bouts of it since my last operation.

I hope they sort you out :tu:

Me - again they didn't do it as they ran out of absthetic. Which is twice I've been all worked up for it.

denphone 19-06-2017 16:42

Re: Moans and Pet Hates part 8
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35903950)
I hope they sort you out :tu:

Me - again they didn't do it as they ran out of absthetic. Which is twice I've been all worked up for it.

Thanks dilli as yes hopefully they can get it under control as l also have many other tests and scans coming up in the next 2 months as the phone lately has been ringing nearly every day with them arranging dates for all these things as we are away for a few weeks in a few weeks time.:)

Sorry to hear about your test not happening as l know what it is like as you prepare yourself for it and then it does not happen.:(


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