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Gary L

22-03-2009 16:09

Re: Crush at work

Best advice I can give is to buy her loads of stuff like drinks, chocolate and whatever. then at the end of the night tell her that she owes you know. any real woman would know that anyway :)

I've never had to resort to that as it's them that want to buy me everything. anyone would think they were trying to buy me :)

moaningmags

22-03-2009 16:11

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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 34759639)

Best advice I can give is to buy her loads of stuff like drinks, chocolate and whatever. then at the end of the night tell her that she owes you know. any real woman would know that anyway :)

I hope you're single and no woman was stupid enough to take you if that's how you think.

xpod	22-03-2009 16:44

Re: Crush at work

I thought this thread was gonna be about compensation advise.
It could still end up that way i suppose:)

Gary L

22-03-2009 17:13

Re: Crush at work

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Originally Posted by moaningmags (Post 34759642)

I hope you're single and no woman was stupid enough to take you if that's how you think.

You're my mates sister. she hasn't got a sense of humour either :D
She was a good moaner too.

Hugh	22-03-2009 17:21

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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 34759684)

You're my mates sister. she hasn't got a sense of humour either :D
She was a good moaner too.

You probably get that a lot from girls.... ;)

Mr_Moo

22-03-2009 17:50

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Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 34758495)

lol

There is more to love than looks Mr DRZ400.

Only ugly people say that.

moaningmags

22-03-2009 17:50

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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 34759684)

You're my mates sister. she hasn't got a sense of humour either :D
She was a good moaner too.

I'm surprised you have mates :p:

LondonRoad

22-03-2009 18:31

Re: Crush at work

Ask her out for lunch as a means to getting her alone to talk to her. A simple request to take the lady out to lunch to chat is probably easier for you and her.

She may well be wondering why you haven't asked her out yet so to asking her out now may get her flustered and catch her off gaurd.... whereas a lunch is a chance to communicate without interruption.

Over lunch tell her you actually wanted to ask her out but wasn't sure how she'd react. Tell her if she wants to just be friends, that's fine but if she'd like a night out to see how you get on with each other outwith the work situation that'd be even better.

Be honest with her and remind yourself that you have got a lot to offer.

As Tennyson said. Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

As ABBA said. Take a chance:) Good luck and keep us posted.

Chris

22-03-2009 19:51

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Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 34759625)

Good points:

- She is always in a smiley happy mood.
- She asks me to do jobs for her.
- She doesnt mind me coming to talk to her.
- She's on my facebook page.
- We have things in common.
- We've shared chocolate together.
- She knows I like her.

Bad points:

- I go to see her, She doesnt come to see me. Although this could be becuase I'm never in the same place at work.
- She never gives clear signals. If she knows I like her she is not doing anything about it.
- We sometimes cross eyes passing and I don't know what she's thinking.

... from which I would conclude that she enjoys your attentions but isn't interested in taking things any further. Sorry ...

Mr_love_monkey

22-03-2009 21:30

Re: Crush at work

At my first workplace there were 2 young women - I had crushes on both of them (different times of course) - I went out with one of them for the best part of a year, and married the other one...

so be careful of what you start :)

Halcyon

05-04-2009 13:57

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Well I thought it was time to give an update on this situation......

I put off asking her for a few weeks as I was really busy at work but finally did on Thursday and she wants to go out for a drink next week.
No idea how things will turn out but even if we end up being just friends I'm happy.
After the last few depressing months, I feel like this is a breath off fresh air!

If you are in the same situation as me, go for it!

lauzjp

05-04-2009 14:27

Re: Crush at work

:tu: be good ;)

superbiatch

05-04-2009 14:37

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Originally Posted by Halcyon (Post 34769184)

Great news, have a wonderful time :)

(SB starts dusting off the hat :D)

zing_deleted

05-04-2009 14:51

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Originally Posted by lauzjp (Post 34769205)

:tu: be good ;)

and if you cant be good be careful lol

Hugh	05-04-2009 15:24

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Originally Posted by zinglebarb (Post 34769219)

and if you cant be good be careful lol

And if you can't be careful, make sure you get a DNA test..... ;)

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