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Pierre 29-11-2024 22:07

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Can we just call it for what it is?

Assisted Suicide.

Chris 29-11-2024 22:09

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Originally Posted by Pierre (Post 36186803)
Can we just call it for what it is?

Assisted Suicide.

Labour activisty type (possibly the bill’s sponsor, I don’t know) got very cross during the debate when someone in the debate dared to use the ‘S’ word. Very telling that they don’t want it known for what it is.

Edit … here’s the clip.

https://x.com/josh_self_/status/1862...56-Kgau3lzowJw

Pierre 29-11-2024 22:15

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Whether the professional in the room, gives you a rope, gun or syringe, the result is the same.

As I say, I am sympathetic to certain arguments.

But this bill is not good enough.

Paul 29-11-2024 22:56

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Originally Posted by Mr K (Post 36186798)
If we're talking about the last hours/ days of life and avoiding that being in agony, who can object? Dogs get better treatment.

As I understood it, you have to have (or at least supposedly have) less than 6 months to live

TheDaddy 29-11-2024 22:56

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Originally Posted by Mr K (Post 36186798)
If we're talking about the last hours/ days of life and avoiding that being in agony, who can object? Dogs get better treatment.

Put like that no one can but if you actually stop and think about it properly it becomes a very different proposal, for instance how long will it be before someone who isn't terminally ill screams discrimination and the law changes to accommodate them? Think that's unlikely, just look at Holland where that exact thing happened.

Pierre 30-11-2024 00:20

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Originally Posted by Paul (Post 36186809)
As I understood it, you have to have (or at least supposedly have) less than 6 months to live

But from what I’ve understood, trying to make an accurate prognosis of that length in nigh on impossible.

It’s like predicting the weather.

Anonymouse 30-11-2024 04:55

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There are pros and cons.

Pro (a bit cynical, perhaps): the person doesn't cost the NHS more than the injection. It frees up a bed, and they are short of them. Plus organ donation? For me, when I clock out, in the unlikely event I have anything useful by then, I say let it be used.

Con: if this option had been available years ago, we might not have had Stephen Hawking. He lasted years longer than predicted. I fondly remember him in ST: TNG, "Descent part 1", getting the better of Data, Newton and Einstein on the holodeck.

Pro: the person is relieved of suffering. I don't think they should suffer longer than they have to. Isn't it more civilised to let them choose?

Con: what if the person's in a coma and/or unfit to decide?

I honestly don't know. I do think the right to live as long as you want to includes the right to die when you want to - but there must be safeguards.

Hugh 30-11-2024 09:18

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Hawking’s thoughts on the matter - quite nuanced.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/p...g-9611930.html

TheDaddy 30-11-2024 12:20

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Originally Posted by Pierre (Post 36186824)
But from what I’ve understood, trying to make an accurate prognosis of that length in nigh on impossible.

It’s like predicting the weather.

As evidenced by one of the bills biggest supporters, Esther Rantzen, who went on a bit of a guilt trip a while back saying she wouldn't be here for the debate only now to be telling everyone how surprised she is to still be here.

Itshim 30-11-2024 22:14

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Bottom line for me is what has it got to do with anyone else. And think of the trama, it saves the train driver, person that finds a body hanging, ( yes I have) etc. The cost argument doesn't hold water , 6 months less cost to NHS far out weighs any cost.

Pierre 30-11-2024 22:32

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Originally Posted by Itshim (Post 36186869)
Bottom line for me is what has it got to do with anyone else. And think of the trama, it saves the train driver, person that finds a body hanging, ( yes I have) etc. The cost argument doesn't hold water , 6 months less cost to NHS far out weighs any cost.

So anyone that wants to kill themselves ……just let them do it?


That’s a bit sick, well….. a lot sick.

Jaymoss 30-11-2024 22:38

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Originally Posted by Pierre (Post 36186871)
So anyone that wants to kill themselves ……just let them do it?


That’s a bit sick, well….. a lot sick.

To be fair those that really want to kill themselves do. I know this is a different subject though and more likely linked to mental illness that terminal illnesses. Most attempted suicides are cries for help

RichardCoulter 01-12-2024 09:57

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Originally Posted by Jaymoss (Post 36186872)
To be fair those that really want to kill themselves do. I know this is a different subject though and more likely linked to mental illness that terminal illnesses. Most attempted suicides are cries for help

I've been looking into this lately and the
problem is that a lot don't know how to do it properly. They either end up having a slow terrible death or survive and are disabled as a result of the damage caused by their attempt.

This is a subject that i"m torn on. I have sympathy for those that say that God should choose when we leave this Earth and (as I believe that the meaning of life is for us to learn and, hopefully, grow from lifes experiences, both good and bad), having a terrible death may be something that it was intended for us to learn from.

On the other hand, we put animals to sleep in preference to letting them suffer. To prolong their suffering just so that we can spend a little more time with them is extremely selfish and i've had to do this myself on more than one occasion.

My view on this subject is also influenced by the fact that I have had proof that death isn't final, so the subject isn't as daunting for me as it is for someone who believes that it is truly the end.

peanut 01-12-2024 10:03

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Originally Posted by Jaymoss (Post 36186872)
To be fair those that really want to kill themselves do. I know this is a different subject though and more likely linked to mental illness that terminal illnesses. Most attempted suicides are cries for help

Totally agree with that. Depending if someone goes through with it but saved by some reason, that's not a cry for help.

My neighbour went through a bit of a crisis, the person would knock on my door and say "I've taken a lot of pills" etc. So I had to call 999. This kind of thing is a classic kind of cry for help. This is certainly classed as a mental health issue and a cry for help, this actually happened numerous times.

But if you have no quality of life, and in severe constant pain etc but not terminal. Fully aware of the intentions because enough is enough, then shouldn't that also be discussed? That's nothing to do with a mental health issue.

Pierre 01-12-2024 10:39

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Originally Posted by Jaymoss (Post 36186872)
To be fair those that really want to kill themselves do. I know this is a different subject though and more likely linked to mental illness that terminal illnesses. Most attempted suicides are cries for help

Agreed.

Itshim 01-12-2024 12:44

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Originally Posted by Pierre (Post 36186871)
So anyone that wants to kill themselves ……just let them do it?


That’s a bit sick, well….. a lot sick.

Yes, what has it got to do with a random stranger, close family I guess , of cause if they really want to kill themselves they will , this way it would be less stressful. Forcing your view on someone else is what is sick.

Chris 01-12-2024 20:49

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Originally Posted by Itshim (Post 36186899)
Yes, what has it got to do with a random stranger, close family I guess , of cause if they really want to kill themselves they will , this way it would be less stressful. Forcing your view on someone else is what is sick.

The fallacy that personal choice is the ultimate good is dangerous. We do not live in an atomised non-society in which any individual can make a choice about anything without that having any implications for anyone else. We therefore have laws which regulate behaviour in ordered society. And, in one way or another, every law forces a view on those individuals who may wish they were not bound by that law, but are bound by it all the same. This is not sick. To claim it is, is bizarre.

One person’s freedom to choose to die will now come at the cost of creating a mechanism that can - and will - work against those whose palliative care is a burden on family and the State and who will feel a persistent, gentle pressure to make themselves scarce. For me, one person’s right to choose is not worth someone else feeling obliged to kill themselves. Not at all.

Paul 01-12-2024 20:49

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36186882)
.. the fact that I have had proof that death isn't final

Errr... what ? :erm:

Pierre 01-12-2024 21:40

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Originally Posted by Itshim (Post 36186899)
Yes, what has it got to do with a random stranger, close family I guess , of cause if they really want to kill themselves they will , this way it would be less stressful. Forcing your view on someone else is what is sick.

So if your daughter said to you that she wanted to kill herself, You wouldn’t urge her to explore any avenue to avoid that conclusion?

And if that person has no family, they shouldn’t have “someone” put that outlet to them?

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36186882)
fact that I have had proof that death isn't final

Box office.

How is Elvis?

Maggy 01-12-2024 23:11

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 36186931)
The fallacy that personal choice is the ultimate good is dangerous. We do not live in an atomised non-society in which any individual can make a choice about anything without that having any implications for anyone else. We therefore have laws which regulate behaviour in ordered society. And, in one way or another, every law forces a view on those individuals who may wish they were not bound by that law, but are bound by it all the same. This is not sick. To claim it is, is bizarre.

One person’s freedom to choose to die will now come at the cost of creating a mechanism that can - and will - work against those whose palliative care is a burden on family and the State and who will feel a persistent, gentle pressure to make themselves scarce. For me, one person’s right to choose is not worth someone else feeling obliged to kill themselves. Not at all.

:tu:

RichardCoulter 02-12-2024 09:04

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Originally Posted by Paul (Post 36186932)
Errr... what ? :erm:

Approximately half of people believe in life after death, with many having seen or heard from people that were so called 'dead'.

Pierre 02-12-2024 09:09

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36186960)
Approximately half of people believe in life after death, with many having seen or heard from people that were so called 'dead'.

Not a fact, or proof of anything.

There’s also no such thing as “so called dead”, I believe the state is binary in nature.

But I fear we’re drifting into philosophical territory.

Paul 02-12-2024 23:14

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36186960)
Approximately half of people believe in life after death, with many having seen or heard from people that were so called 'dead'.

Belief is not a fact.
Anyone can say they "heard from people that were so called 'dead'".

If there were any actual real evidence, it would be headline news.

RichardCoulter 04-12-2024 17:41

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Originally Posted by Pierre (Post 36186961)
Not a fact, or proof of anything.

There’s also no such thing as “so called dead”, I believe the state is binary in nature.

But I fear we’re drifting into philosophical territory.

I use the term 'so called dead' because the state of death doesn't exist.

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Originally Posted by Paul (Post 36187041)
Belief is not a fact.
Anyone can say they "heard from people that were so called 'dead'".

If there were any actual real evidence, it would be headline news.

It doesn't matter whether people believe in it or not, the process is just the same.

To those who don't believe (I can understand this if they haven't had proof personally) all I say is to bear it in mind. That way, when your time comes and you 'wake up dead', it won't be as surprising, confusing or even frightening.

It's not unknown for some people not to know that they've 'died'. They can still see, hear, think etc and so initially it doesn't occur to them that this change has happened.

Chris 04-12-2024 18:10

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36186960)
Approximately half of people believe in life after death, with many having seen or heard from people that were so called 'dead'.

Worldwide I suspect that actually a lot more than half of people believe in life after death. Humanism is largely a Western idea, and isn’t universally popular here either.

Nonetheless, in some of your later posts on this I think you’ve gone a bit overboard. None of the major world religions are anything like so didactic about the precise mechanism by which someone passes from this life to the next. I’m a Christian minister, I lead services every Sunday and I take funerals several times every year, yet I would never try to tell anyone how things happen with such detail.

Your problem is you are trying to make scientific-sounding pronouncements as if they have been, or could be, scientifically verified. That is impossible - the scientific method is, by design, limited to measurable, repeatable interactions within the material universe.

papa smurf 04-12-2024 18:15

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36187132)
I use the term 'so called dead' because the state of death doesn't exist.

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It doesn't matter whether people believe in it or not, the process is just the same.

To those who don't believe (I can understand this if they haven't had proof personally) all I say is to bear it in mind. That way, when your time comes and you 'wake up dead', it won't be as surprising, confusing or even frightening.

It's not unknown for some people not to know that they've 'died'. They can still see, hear, think etc and so initially it doesn't occur to them that this change has happened.

how exactly do you know this?

jfman 04-12-2024 19:08

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Michael Aspel's Strange but True?

Itshim 04-12-2024 19:59

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Originally Posted by Pierre (Post 36186938)
So if your daughter said to you that she wanted to kill herself, You wouldn’t urge her to explore any avenue to avoid that conclusion?

And if that person has no family, they shouldn’t have “someone” put that outlet to them?
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That is not the same as having the right in the end ( sorry for the pun) to choose for yourself. In my case I have a gun :shocked:

Pierre 04-12-2024 21:06

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36187132)
I use the term 'so called dead' because the state of death doesn't exist.

you’re going to have to qualify that……….unless you’re a Hindu.


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To those who don't believe (I can understand this if they haven't had proof personally) all I say is to bear it in mind. That way, when your time comes and you 'wake up dead', it won't be as surprising, confusing or even frightening.

It's not unknown for some people not to know that they've 'died'. They can still see, hear, think etc and so initially it doesn't occur to them that this change has happened.
This is next level batshit

I don’t know where to start.

“Wake up dead”? Do you know many awoken dead people? That have explained this to you?

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Originally Posted by Itshim (Post 36187150)
That is not the same as having the right in the end ( sorry for the pun) to choose for yourself. In my case I have a gun :shocked:

Yes a bottle of whiskey and a gun…………

Instead of forcing people to drink a bottle of whiskey and blow their brains out, Can’t we give them a more less stressful way out, in a clinic?


My point being, we should not, as a society, be allowing depressed, troubled, or other issue, healthy adult wishing to think they have no value, nothing to offer to the world, or to themselves, and wanting to end it. They need to be counselled.

Assisted suicide should, in general, only be considered for terminally ill were you are going to deteriorate beyond the state of the person you are, and can no longer function as you. A clumsy definition but. I.e. MND, Alzheimer’s (difficult one to sort)

Or were the illness is too painful to continue with or leaves you with no quality of life

There are definitions we can work on.

But healthy people should be allowed to be euthanised

Paul 04-12-2024 22:04

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Originally Posted by Pierre (Post 36187152)
But healthy people should be allowed to be euthanised

:erm:

RichardCoulter 05-12-2024 04:41

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We live in a material world, so it's nigh on impossible to provide proof as we know it of something spiritual.

After our soul leaves the body we are spirit only, we are actually spirit now, but encased in a physical body. Those who have 'died' sometimes communicate with us in various ways.

I'm a very practical person and wouldn't believe this unless I had had personal proof that life continues after we leave here, so I can understand people being skeptical.

When your time comes, like I say, just bear it in mind as I think it will help. There's no need to be frightened, someone comes to collect you, so nobody ever 'dies' alone.

Chris 05-12-2024 08:21

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Nobody’s surprised you believe in life after death Richard. Plenty of people do. I do. The objections here are with the extremely specific descriptions you’re giving of how it occurs in the immediate moments after death. I don’t think you can offer such uncompromising descriptions of things the human race has struggled with and argued over for millennia without expecting some pushback. We need some context. Sentences like “I died on the operating table and before they brought me back, this is what happened… “ or “My friend had a near-death experience and this is what he saw …” would be helpful.

Pierre 05-12-2024 10:35

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Originally Posted by Paul (Post 36187158)
:erm:

whoops! missing a "not" there.

TheDaddy 13-02-2025 22:52

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The bills already being watered down, they're trying to remove the judicial oversight element in favour of a expert panel, the thing I've always worried about was once introduced it'd be watered down due to discrimination over time, I never envisaged it'd get watered down before it became law though :spin:

Chris 13-02-2025 23:03

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Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 36191277)
The bills already being watered down, they're trying to remove the judicial oversight element in favour of a expert panel, the thing I've always worried about was once introduced it'd be watered down due to discrimination over time, I never envisaged it'd get watered down before it became law though :spin:

The committee was stacked with true believers. It was always going to be shredded back to its ideological bare bones at this stage. The only silver lining here is that sound oversight is the only reason some MPs voted for it at 2nd reading. Without that, they may not stick with it. It doesn’t need too many MPs to change their vote to fall.


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