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Yeah but.. people always say it's what's on the inside that counts..

But being good looking must be a good starting point, otherwise you might not notice them in the first place.
I'm not shallow, but i couldn't go out with somebody who was a proper minger, there's have to be some chance that i'd find them attractive!

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Your eyes may play a little part in picking out who you go for but then I think it is your heart that takes over and it is this part that just seems to dominate everything. You cant control it as your heart decides who it goes for.

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Getting back to the thread title: one reason is that if a girl is more physically attractive, any bloke who generally doesn't have much luck with girls anyway will tend to assume she's already in a relationship. That's the whole point of attractiveness; you don't usually get to the finer points - sense of humour, common interests, intelligence - until you've established a mutual attraction...shallow but sadly true.

Of course, it works both ways; sometimes a beautiful girl will have trouble finding the right bloke because she's beautiful - blokes think 'nah, she's gorgeous, I've no chance', so beauty can be a double-edged sword. As a corollary, the 'less' attractive girls (and, BTW, I agree with Robert Heinlein: there are no unattractive ladies; there are only some who look better than others, assuming we're talking purely about physical attractiveness) concentrate more on personal qualities and attributes, viz. the finer points I mentioned. This can result in a deeper relationship, on both sides, so that's one answer to the question...but in truth it takes a great deal of moxie to ask any girl out. In fact I can't remember the last time I did. Not that I lack the courage per se, but because I'm on a crappy shift and don't get much opportunity. :(

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Last time i asked one out was today. Best damn feeling i've had in years. And i have to agree, i do feel alot less intimidated when you can tell they are down to earth rather than New Look this and w/e that.

(i really don't know any shop names do i? Tend to switch off when people talk about it)

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simple answer as you get older appearance becomes less improtant factor, and attratice to one person can be unattractive to another.

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lol! :drunk:

Whenever I get down about being a size 26 / having terrible hair / bad teeth / whatever, my other half cheers me up by getting me chocolate or ice cream or something! bless him. :D

I have seen it both ways - a girl we know is really pretty, but she always goes out with guys you really wouldn't think she'd glance twice at. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. ;)

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ive been wanting a girl for ages, never been in a relationship, however any girls i do know are just treating me as the 'freind type' oh and ugly men do get nice looking girls :D

i guess im too timid, quiet, wierd, etc

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hmm i like older women ..... anyway i hate that 'fake' look too much makeup, eyeliner, the ruddy green or coloured stuff on the eye lids that puts me off, pink cheeks :disturbd: unless the pinkness is natural :naughty:

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listen luv whatever anyone says your a very attractive girl, ive learned onething, whoever your trying to impress just be yourself, i personally can look past someone by their looks, heck the other day i just started a bit of a conversation off with an elderstateswoman, granted its not something i normally do, but i find that older women (grannies :D) often are more approachable for some light hearted conversation, whilst if i find a woman hot, or like something about them i just become very shy and well ya know :(

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a couple of platinum cards help ;)

i dunno, im just one of those nice nice guys, i like to have a laugh and a joke, rude ones count too ;) but i can never approach someone, then my chances disappear, what can i say, what can i do, things like that go over and over in your mind..

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Personally I wouldn't kick "one of those girls that looks like a model" out of bed for farting but I doubt there would be any more depth to the relationship than that.

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We don't agree on much Russ but you are correct, Pia is hot :)

You should be happy with your looks, your a stunner as well.

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the novelty of looks wears off after a few weeks/months - then the reality sets in. a sexy woman is sexy for more than just 'model looks'. I've associated with beautiful women and not so beautiful.

The beauty thing gives you a bit of a buzz when you take them to TGI's on a fri night and you see other men react in a way that lifts your ego - when a couple of weeks later the same girl acts like an ass and goes off on a cocaine bender and turns out to be a compulsive liar etc the beauty thing means zero. Also to be bluntly honest, girls with 'model looks' tend to make less effort in bed and expect to be chased by their men.

In my experience beautiful girls are often shallow and waiting for Brad Pitt and they complain about being treated badly when they only date beautiful men! They also tend to be more likely to have a poor sense of humour from my experience.

There are many exceptions.

A few months back I met a girl of exceptional looks - so much so that I ripped the **** out of her with some of my conversation but then discovered that she had a great personality and a really sweet person.

Generally if I see/meet someone who I believe fancies themselves too much I will take the **** as looks should not mean status.

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Must ...... resist ......... vulgar connotations !!! :disturbd:

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You sound like you've had a bit of experience with that there:disturbd: :rofl:

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You'd better hope Clarie doesn't read that..

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yes!

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What!

You didn't tell us you were a model! :erm: