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I totally agree that people should vote either way.

However the reports show that the EU us worried that if we pull out the whole thing could collapse.

If it is so unstable that 1 country can pull out and the whole thing topples over then for me that just says it's a sinking ship and we are going to get pulled under with them if we don't vote out.

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Its not that its unstable but if we leave then other may follow.

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I suspect that a lot of other Countries are watching with great interest and if we do (by a miracle) leave, then the whole house of cards will follow.


Which kinda begs the question, if it's that crap, should it really exist in its present form, we'll see in 8 days or so.

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If the EU were viable I'd be concerned about leaving but it isn't so I'm not. I am sad it's got to this point however, due in no small measure to the egos and arrogance of the Eurocrats whose chief attribute seems to be seeing success in failure.

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Well, surprise, surprise. Why do you assume I am a UKiper and why would that be an issue? I only want, in my personal opinion, what I think is best for Britain. You have your say, I have mine.

You obviously have not read the whole thread, Britain will not crumble. The leave campaign don't want to build a wall and stop migration completely. Why don't remain campaigners understand the word CONTROL. Should we use the word MANAGE? Will this make it easier to understand?

I am pleased you had all the help you needed, it is a shame there is such a division in who is helped and who isn't.You were one of the lucky ones. If Europe is so good for our country, why are people experiencing the issues they do. If Europe are big on human rights and they want to protect us, why don't they step in and help the people who are being treated despicably by this government. They cannot just pick and choose. What do they really do in all honesty. They do what benefits them best! See one of the many stories below:

A grandad who had just found out his benefits were being stopped shot himself dead – after telling friends he was “unable to cope”.

Shaun Pilkington, 58, was sent a letter saying he was to lose his *Employment and Support *Allowance, which he got after a long-term illness.

He was told he would have to be reassessed and needed to prove he was eligible. But as the hearing approached, friends said Shaun, a licensed gamekeeper, became discouraged.

Days later he called police and said he was about to kill himself. They found him dead at his flat.

A neighbour said: “There were armed police everywhere. Sadly he’d gone through with his threat.

“It is a tragedy. He was upset because he got a letter saying his ESA was being stopped.

“He was pretty down about it and said he was finding it hard to cope with the decision. He was a lovely man. It is not fair what the Government is doing.”

Well-wishers left floral tributes and cans of Stella outside Shaun’s home in Beighton, Sheffield.

The neighbour added: “It all got on top of him – having no money for Christmas and being warned he’d lose his benefits.

“It’s wrong what they’re doing, targeting people on benefits. We haven’t got a lot of money but the Government seems intent on cutting it.”

As to your comment 'You make it sound like they shouldn't work and should all be sent home so British folk can have the jobs and social housing. That is so so wrong' please direct me to a sentence I have actually said this? This is absolutely your opinion and an incorrect opinion at that.

I have worked with many nationalities throughout my career, I have provided guidance and advice on the visa Tier system. I fully believe in multi-culturism. I also believe that we should allow the most skilled people to Britain to work. We need the best in academia, the medical profession, areas where there are skill shortages, unskilled workers to meet economic demands but we need to check we are allowing good, decent, hard working people into our country.

Obviously you are not aware that some countries do not hold criminal record information in the way that the UK does. For instance, in the UK, someone who has committed 2 crimes now matter how minor will always have these detailed on an enhanced records check if they wish to work will children or vulnerable adults as the record is never spent (even if this relates to a silly period as a young adult yet, in Spain for example, when a record is expunged after a certain period, information is not available if a UK DBS check is requested. This person can work with vulnerable adults and children yet may be unsuitable. Europe allows these laws which benefit some people in the EU who have a criminal record yet they are not interested in the lives of those UK citizens who are penalised all their life for a mistake or two! Does Europe consider the human rights of UK ex-offenders? Would you be happy for an unsuitable person to care for your parents or look after your children because they cannot be properly vetted, or they come from a country where criminal record information is not held?

There should not just be a free for all so that we don't know who we are opening our borders to. The infrastructure in certain cities will collapse in time. I don't have any issues with race, age, sexuality, religion etc. I am for helping refugees who genuinely need our help. I do have an issue with overcrowding, limitation of services, allowing terrorists and criminals free access into our country, supposed refugees who don't register in the first country they arrive in, wages being pushed down, lack of jobs in areas for British born citizens due to economic migrant excess in certain areas. Why should I not expect this, my grandfather fought in the war, paid taxes, my parents paid taxes, I paid taxes - surely I should have a right to live in a place I feel happy too - why should I not have the same consideration given to newcomers to our country, I have the interests of Britain at heart. I want Britain to foremost retain our sovereignty and at the same time allow multi-culturism to thrive.

Please let me know which company you work with, perhaps I could submit my CV.

.. and in response to your comment that I will be saying the earth is flat, you simply destroyed any credibility you had!

Additionally, I will use both pen and pencil to register my vote, better to be safe than sorry.

Please remember, it is people like my husband who fight for the rights of many different nationalities and who keep Britain safe whilst putting their own lives at risk!

Have a lovely day!

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Did you actually read the quote to which I was referring?

Originally Posted by Stephen http://www.cableforum.co.uk/board/im...s/viewpost.gif
No it's not. Not voting is a wasted vote. Voting for what you think is right no matter the outcome is always important.

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We can always hope for change!! Yes, I agree with your points, it is dependent upon where you live. I am all for sovereignty but I am also for managed immigration - they both go hand in hand. One example of this would be Luton, there is no such thing as British Sovereignty there. Watch the Stacy Dooley interview and you will understand why I have concerns...

Good luck with your business, I wish you every success in retaining its viability to take care of your family.

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You said you couldn't get a job in Peterborough - what is your profession/trade/skill set?

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I cannot speak for them as I cannot speak for the opinions of others in this forum. Obviously, they have similar issues they feel strongly about and they have the freedom to debate. It is MY opinion that America is a wonderful place.

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If that is the case then it is unstable.

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Like most countries, the USA has good places and bad places, and some wonderful places - I have visited, or worked in, about 27 of the States.

An example of a wonderful place would be Provincetown, Massachussetts, where everyone I met was friendly, helpful, and tolerant - an awful place was Columbia, South Carolina, where my son spent a year at University; everyone there was polite, friendly, respectful - unless you weren't white...

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There are so many lovely people as you pointed out. There are good and bad everywhere. I hope your son enjoyed his year at University and it was a fantastic experience for him.

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I nver said you were but what you were saying made you sound like one.

Also I am not revealing who I work for but I will say the company supports remain.

Using anything other than the officially provided pencils is weird. Seems to have been a recent thing that people think those can be erased and votes changed, people are paranoid for no reason.

I do know a lot about industry and have grown up around trade unions and also supporting labour my whole life. My father worked for a few different ones and was pretty high up in them.

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I don't think it did make me sound like 'one' and I will continue to reiterate this point. You may like to know that my mother was one of the first in her area to help newly relocated asian immigrants settle and adapt into their new culture! This was even at the expense of losing the respect of neighbours due to racism and fear of immigration in the early days.

I have no interest in whether your company supports remain or not, they again have their choice. Their decision will be based on finance and success (as it is with with most unless money isn't their main priority). I wonder if your company would still vote remain if they were to become more successful (and wealthier) if they voted leave!

I am pleased to hear that your father had a successful career, I am happy for you and your family. You have grown up around trade unions and know a lot about industry and you have always voted labour. My life experiences are vast, many difficult, therefore I am well qualified to comment on many of the issues people face today. We have a failing government and a failing country.

Take the time to read the attached link and if you don't have any sympathy, then we really are at a loss! Things are only going to get worse. Again, did the EU consider the human rights of these people?

http://www.theguardian.com/commentis...ating-families

... and as for the pencils, it isn't weird, it's a personal choice! I do not trust anything the government says or does. Read about one failing after another, one lie after another. This is fact. In large letters - FACT!

You say people are paranoid for no reason. Tell all of these people who have been lied to, let down, been driven to despair and who are VOTING OUT in the hope of a better life that they are 'paranoid'.

"Paranoia is an unfounded or exaggerated distrust of others, sometimes reaching delusional proportions. Paranoid individuals constantly suspect the motives of those around them, and believe that certain individuals, or people in general, are "out to get them."
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CHANGE IS NEEDED!

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So let me get this straight. You say the UK government are useless and can't manage the country and lie to us all the time....

Yet you are willing to vote and give them more control?

Yeah cause that makes sense.