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RichardCoulter 13-04-2021 10:31

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
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Originally Posted by TheDaddy (Post 36076762)
Anyone see 24hrs In Police Custody earlier, I knew the victim, for many of those that knew him he was a pretty unpleasant, troubled man but he didn't deserve to die like that and for his killer to be basically left of with a 16 month sentence beggars belief, I wonder what would have happened had the rolls been reversed?

The programme made out that he was a jolly, happy go lucky character and that she was a controlling & violent alcoholic. Was this not the case in reality?

Hugh 13-04-2021 13:22

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36076785)
The programme made out that he was a jolly, happy go lucky character and that she was a controlling & violent alcoholic. Was this not the case in reality?

Richard, "reality" TV is often far from it.

They cut/slant things, with dramatic music, to create a picture that is often at odds with actual reality.

TheDaddy 13-04-2021 17:18

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
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Originally Posted by nomadking (Post 36076766)
Are you sure you got that the right way around?
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Positive

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 36076785)
The programme made out that he was a jolly, happy go lucky character and that she was a controlling & violent alcoholic. Was this not the case in reality?

He was a jolly, happy go lucky, non violent, thieving, alcoholic but he didn't deserve that, she's started a new life up in Leeds iirc, doesn't appear to have a care in the world, you can only hope a positive came out of this whole sorry saga and she conquered her demons but I doubt it

Russ 14-04-2021 17:42

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
https://inews.co.uk/opinion/comment/...nce-273416/amp

As long as we get people genuinely coming out with crap like that, domestic abuse will always be seen as a gendered issue by many.

Mad Max 14-04-2021 20:16

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
So she slapped her husband and he went to the police, lmfao.

Mr K 14-04-2021 20:52

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 36076804)
Richard, "reality" TV is often far from it.

They cut/slant things, with dramatic music, to create a picture that is often at odds with actual reality.

Incredibly cheap TV it is too.

Once upon a time they used to make drama with actors, now they use members of the public/emergency services for free. Suits the short attention span audience these days too.

Maggy 15-04-2021 09:07

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
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Originally Posted by Mr K (Post 36076939)
Incredibly cheap TV it is too.

Once upon a time they used to make drama with actors, now they use members of the public/emergency services for free. Suits the short attention span audience these days too.

:tu:

Angua 16-04-2021 07:14

Re: A male victim of domestic violence
 
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Originally Posted by Mr K (Post 36076939)
Incredibly cheap TV it is too.

Once upon a time they used to make drama with actors, now they use members of the public/emergency services for free. Suits the short attention span audience these days too.

Holby had a long running storyline about an abused male Doctor. This was male on male abuse. Most of the actual physical details did not come out until the person had the courage to report their attacker.

Casualty has also covered Female on Male DV. Dramas do cover this type of abuse and show how it is the victims who are left unprotected and ignored until something dramatic happens.


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