Re: abortion under the spotlight.
 

As a female I believe in the womans right to choose however as I found out during my surgery days, some women chose to use terminations as a means of birth control which I found unacceptable. One woman in particular had at least 10 whilst I worked there and they were carried out on the NHS as far as I know. In the end the GP said enough was enough and he wouldn't refer her again and if she wanted yet another one she would have to pay for a private termination.

I'm not quite sure whether this is something that should be shown on TV but maybe it will show the reality of what happens and make some people consider birth control more seriously.

Re: abortion under the spotlight.
 

And there are plenty of men out their who would dearly love to be fathers but their partners choose to terminate. I know.
Us men aren't the ones who have to carry for 9 months
Us men aren't the ones who have to go through the trauma of giving birth
Us men aren't the ones who have to put our lives on hold for years
Us men are the ones who have to do the decent thing and support our partners in whatever they choose.

Re: abortion under the spotlight.
 

in my experiance of hearing cases, its usally the man..... im not suggesting that women dont do the same, but its more previlant in the man wanting the abortion, not all men stick by a pregnant women afraid of the responsability...........

Re: abortion under the spotlight.
 

Just out of interest Kronny, what do you know about the abortion process?
How it's done at each stage, how much it costs, what support there is?

Re: abortion under the spotlight.
 

i dont really know.


about £300 upwards, i think it depends on how late it is in to pregnency.....

(if your private)

that i dont know, i dont know if there is, i wonder if the NHS offer counselling......

Re: abortion under the spotlight.
 

Thanks kronas.

I did say originally I would take no further part but this some views in here really get at me.


As above and agree.


Another cheap shot at publicitiy by C4.


Spot on Russ.

What makes it worse to me is the original poster creates the thread and then adopts a sort of post and run without any real discussion being brought by him.

I neither want to patronize anyone but this will not even be considered at the evenings viewing in this house as thatâ₠¬Ã¢â€žÂ¢s what the change channel or off button is for.

Again I am not trying to be patronising but merely pointing out how distressing this very subject can touch a nerve or two.

I am not myself going to crawl or offer any apology as to my original comment as there no doubt will be many like myself who will be uncomfortable with this thread.

My opinion is my own and in no way am I trying to inflict that on others.


Utter crap m8.

No one here has tried to discredit your views but merely pointed out that when you experience these things your views will change.

On a whole most will experience at some point but do not and try kid us all you have been through it all.

At such a young age as yourself you have a lot to learn.


Sorry your experience??

What experience???

Oh right in hearing cases you mean by that what you have read from google and such.

I think when you gain a bit more experience you will find it is a bit more than the man not sticking by the woman being afraid of responsibility.

Nothing personal kronas but you have a vast learning curve ahead of you called life.

And your last quotes below prove that

Re: abortion under the spotlight.
 

i have a life too you know, im not on here 24/7


i stay away from the discussion (works fine)



your calling my view utter crap :rolleyes:

neither you or i can experiance the real pain of aborting, by having it done to you.

how do you know ?

my sister went through it SO DONT GIVE ME THAT!!! :mad:

prove it i dare you ?



well it was a family member......

well my sisters.......

personal, news, documentries, and google.

you cannot deny it and tell me, men dont run away from responability of a child ?

i learn everyday, somethings im good at others im not, you have no right to patronize me over a subject, because im willing to learn discuss with what i do know......

the real helpers are peopel who provide evidence, debsy42 pm'd me with a link to what the processes are, it made me a bit queezy, but i knew how hard it is for a women after reading all the proccedures available it pains me to say that a family member of mine HAD to go through of those proccedures :(