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Zing 19-04-2011 10:53

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Originally Posted by Stuart (Post 35216543)
He is, up to a point.

It's worth remembering that when you go into a pub or shop, you are allowed in because the landlord/manager/owner has allowed you in. You do not have an automatic right to be there. The owner has the ultimate right, but the manager or landlord can act in their absence. We were actually told when I worked for Blockbuster (the small Express store I worked in rarely had a manager on duty) that if we felt uncomfortable dealing with a customer we were within our rights to ask them to leave.

Of course, that does not mean we could ask them to leave based purely upon their race, gender or sexuality. We had to operate within the confines of the law.

asking a dodgy customer to leave is a sure fire way of making him/her more dodgy lol

Stuart 19-04-2011 10:59

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Originally Posted by Zing (Post 35216549)
asking a dodgy customer to leave is a sure fire way of making him/her more dodgy lol

Not necessarily. In my experience, most people will leave if they are required to. They may moan about it, but they will do it.

If they don't, you can always involve the Police who will happily move them on (and did, the one time I did have trouble).

Zing 19-04-2011 11:01

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Originally Posted by Stuart (Post 35216555)
Not necessarily. In my experience, most people will leave if they are required to. They may moan about it, but they will do it.

If they don't, you can always involve the Police who will happily move them on (and did, the one time I did have trouble).

I used to be a butcher. Our most problematic customers were Indians last thing on a Saturday wanting a shoulder of Lamb boned and defatted when all I wanted to do was go home lol lol

Stuart 19-04-2011 11:05

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Originally Posted by Zing (Post 35216558)
I used to be a butcher. Our most problematic customers were Indians last thing on a Saturday wanting a shoulder of Lamb boned and defatted when all I wanted to do was go home lol lol

Admittedly, the one time I did have trouble, I had good reason to believe the people concerned were nicking stock. They scarpered as soon as they saw the blue flashing lights of the Police car..

Maggy 19-04-2011 11:06

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Originally Posted by Zing (Post 35216376)
well and I know I am going to get flamed here but abortion is far to easy to get nowadays. I will never ever agree that abortion is ever right when used as contraception IE morning after pill and I will never agree that abortion is right for women who just caught by mistake. Spread your legs with no protection you made the choice you should bare the consequences its murder in my eyes.The only time I my opinion is a bit different is where health is at risk

The back street abortions were due to society not accepting single women getting pregnant I do think the change there is good except for those who do it to get housed and benefit

Well marriage is a contract and being a victim of a cheating woman who got away scott free maybe divorce should be harder to get now

Well you only have to see the influx of immigrants and how soft this country is for me I think racial equality although fair should not mean those native to this country have less rights in certain situations than those who were either born abroad or are children of those born abroad.

I know my views will be distasteful to some but I am honest and not afraid to voice my opinion

Wasn't just single women who visited back street abortionists Zing.Contraception pre Pill was very unreliable.

As for the rest of your views well I cannot agree with all of them.

Some women were treated dreadfully by their husbands and during that time the idea that domestic abuse should be an affair for the police was unheard of.
I know you think women get an easy ride these days but there was a time when the laws of this country were very much weighted in the interests of men.Any woman who left her home and her children because of domestic abuse were deemed to have left the marital home and to have lost the right of access to their children.
Sadly there were no refuges for such women and their children and taking your children with you to live rough was not a solution for most women especially if they had no family to turn to.

As I said today there are some issues that are handled differently and there is a reason for that.I'm sad that some women having got to a better position re equality use it as a weapon against men..it's not right and it's not fair and it tars those women whom are not guilty of thinking that way.

Dai 19-04-2011 11:21

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Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35216561)
As I said today there are some issues that are handled differently and there is a reason for that.I'm sad that some women having got to a better position re equality use it as a weapon against men..it's not right and it's not fair and it tars those women whom are not guilty of thinking that way.

Well said.:clap:

Zing 19-04-2011 11:33

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Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35216561)
Wasn't just single women who visited back street abortionists Zing.Contraception pre Pill was very unreliable.

As for the rest of your views well I cannot agree with all of them.

Some women were treated dreadfully by their husbands and during that time the idea that domestic abuse should be an affair for the police was unheard of.
I know you think women get an easy ride these days but there was a time when the laws of this country were very much weighted in the interests of men.Any woman who left her home and her children because of domestic abuse were deemed to have left the marital home and to have lost the right of access to their children.
Sadly there were no refuges for such women and their children and taking your children with you to live rough was not a solution for most women especially if they had no family to turn to.

As I said today there are some issues that are handled differently and there is a reason for that.I'm sad that some women having got to a better position re equality use it as a weapon against men..it's not right and it's not fair and it tars those women whom are not guilty of thinking that way.


yes definately.

And I am glad women are not allowed to be beaten in the home that was never right

Osem 19-04-2011 14:10

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Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35216561)
Wasn't just single women who visited back street abortionists Zing.Contraception pre Pill was very unreliable.

As for the rest of your views well I cannot agree with all of them.

Some women were treated dreadfully by their husbands and during that time the idea that domestic abuse should be an affair for the police was unheard of.
I know you think women get an easy ride these days but there was a time when the laws of this country were very much weighted in the interests of men.Any woman who left her home and her children because of domestic abuse were deemed to have left the marital home and to have lost the right of access to their children.
Sadly there were no refuges for such women and their children and taking your children with you to live rough was not a solution for most women especially if they had no family to turn to.

As I said today there are some issues that are handled differently and there is a reason for that.I'm sad that some women having got to a better position re equality use it as a weapon against men..it's not right and it's not fair and it tars those women whom are not guilty of thinking that way.

Yes, tackling one unfairness by creating another isn't a solution.

iFrankie 19-04-2011 22:50

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Interesting this

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Facebook forcibly removed a photo today of two men kissing from a page protesting a London pub’s decision to eject a same-sex couple for kissing. A "gay kiss-in" demonstration has been organized and is being promoted on Dangerous Minds Facebook page, which posted the picture of the two men in lip-lock as the events visual.
http://perezhilton.com/2011-04-18-ga...moved-facebook

They take it down because of a kiss, but some of my facebook friends who have pictures of themselves well drunk and half flashing! and they don't get taken down? :/

Russ 19-04-2011 22:56

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Presumably because they don't get reported.

Zing 19-04-2011 23:04

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Originally Posted by iFrankie (Post 35217266)
Interesting this



http://perezhilton.com/2011-04-18-ga...moved-facebook

They take it down because of a kiss, but some of my facebook friends who have pictures of themselves well drunk and half flashing! and they don't get taken down? :/

at the end of the day mate the Facebook mods do not see everything. There is a report feature same as there is here. If it is indecent and reported it will be removed.

iFrankie 19-04-2011 23:10

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Ah i didn't know that, i just thought Facebook chose to take it down.

Mr_love_monkey 19-04-2011 23:35

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Originally Posted by iFrankie (Post 35217266)
but some of my facebook friends who have pictures of themselves well drunk and half flashing! and they don't get taken down? :/

female friends? if so, we need links! :)

Karrington 20-04-2011 00:52

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What has any of this got to do with Cable Television? Nothing...

I wish I had not clicked on the thread as the level of homophobia expressed by some of the posters on this thread is nauseating...

I feel terribly sad for anyone who is so closed minded. Comments such as "men kissing makes me want to vomit" and the like are just plain nasty and I don't understand why they have not been removed by moderators..
They are offensive and uncalled for.

Welshchris 20-04-2011 01:32

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35216461)
But here you are expressing a religious belief. Does that make you a fool as well?

I do not see believing in a God as a religion, i do not follow a set of rules laid out for me nor preach that others should follow those i do.

iFrankie 20-04-2011 05:50

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35217329)
What has any of this got to do with Cable Television? Nothing...

I wish I had not clicked on the thread as the level of homophobia expressed by some of the posters on this thread is nauseating...

I feel terribly sad for anyone who is so closed minded. Comments such as "men kissing makes me want to vomit" and the like are just plain nasty and I don't understand why they have not been removed by moderators..
They are offensive and uncalled for.

Tbh, they can say whatever they like im not loosing sleep over it, whats the point? they are only words :).

Some need to stop worrying and moaning about others, worry and moan about your own life.

Russ 20-04-2011 06:30

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35217329)
What has any of this got to do with Cable Television? Nothing...

This thread is in the part of the forum named the "Basement" where non-VM issues and topics are discussed.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35217329)
I wish I had not clicked on the thread as the level of homophobia expressed by some of the posters on this thread is nauseating...

I feel terribly sad for anyone who is so closed minded. Comments such as "men kissing makes me want to vomit" and the like are just plain nasty and I don't understand why they have not been removed by moderators..
They are offensive and uncalled for.

Easy - we are not the thought police. Just because someone posts something you find objectionable does not mean it must be removed, people are entitled to their opinions even if others find them objectionable. We keep an eye on threads that may contain contentious matters and act on reported posts if required.

As it stands nothing has been posted here that breaks our T&Cs.

Stuart 20-04-2011 09:49

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35216461)
But here you are expressing a religious belief. Does that make you a fool as well?

I don't want to go too far off topic, but there is a massive difference between a belief in God and an organised religion. Religion implies a belief in a deity (not necessarily God, maybe Allah or another deity), but you do not need to follow a religion to believe in a deity. I'd have thought you of all people would know that.

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Originally Posted by Zing (Post 35217278)
at the end of the day mate the Facebook mods do not see everything. There is a report feature same as there is here. If it is indecent and reported it will be removed.

Indeed. It's hard enough for us to keep an eye on everything that goes on here, and we have only a few thousand members. Facebook has half a billion members, all of whom have their own photo albums and walls, amongst other things. They would have to keep track of over 1 billion pages..

The mods at facebook probably only act on reports. That's the only way they can act.

Gary L 20-04-2011 09:56

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35217329)
Comments such as "men kissing makes me want to vomit" and the like are just plain nasty and I don't understand why they have not been removed by moderators..
They are offensive and uncalled for.

Pah.. you're just too over sensitive, or just too PC.

Zing 20-04-2011 11:14

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35217329)
What has any of this got to do with Cable Television? Nothing...

I wish I had not clicked on the thread as the level of homophobia expressed by some of the posters on this thread is nauseating...

I feel terribly sad for anyone who is so closed minded. Comments such as "men kissing makes me want to vomit" and the like are just plain nasty and I don't understand why they have not been removed by moderators..
They are offensive and uncalled for.

Isn't the freedom to be gay just as important as peoples freedom to express themselves? is it not all part of the same liberty? In fact freedom of expression often is the victim of other freedoms as I can not openly express how I feel about a great many subjects in society anymore

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Originally Posted by Gary L (Post 35217508)
Pah.. you're just too over sensitive, or just too PC.

Or maybe Gay? I can understand why some might find some of whats posted distasteful but we all have to put up with a lot of things we do not like don't we? ie governement corruption, wars in god forsaken countries both of which I find disgusting

Karrington 23-04-2011 12:29

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[QUOTE=Russ;35217346]This thread is in the part of the forum named the "Basement" where non-VM issues and topics are discussed.



"the Gutter" would seem more of an appropriate name for this particular thread..

Homophobic comments may not break the T&Cs of this forum but they are just as wrong as racism and just as prohibited by law, they break the equality act..

Maybe I am being too sensitive, maybe a little too PC or maybe Im just a person who dislikes reading hate speech targeted towards my community...

Yes I happen to be gay...

Chris 23-04-2011 12:42

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There is nothing illegal about a person saying they find homosexual behaviour makes them feel uncomfortable. We do not do thought crimes in this country. if you want to live somewhere they legislate for what people think and feel as well as for how they act, try China or North Korea. But expect them to be rather less tolerant of your way of life than you are used to.

Stuart 23-04-2011 13:02

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220143)
Homophobic comments may not break the T&Cs of this forum but they are just as wrong as racism and just as prohibited by law, they break the equality act..

Saying that you disagree with something or that you think it is wrong is not homophopia. By comparing the two, you cheapen the plight of those are generally suffering.

Karrington 23-04-2011 13:07

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Actually calling Gay people un-natural, and saying that they make you want to vomit is indeed unlawful, it's also morally wrong. If you did that in the workplace you would soon find yourself without a job..


I understand what you are saying people are of course entitled to think and feel however they choose to. Acting upon those feelings however is another matter entirely..

martyh 23-04-2011 13:08

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[QUOTE=Karrington;35220143]
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Originally Posted by Russ (Post 35217346)
This thread is in the part of the forum named the "Basement" where non-VM issues and topics are discussed.



"the Gutter" would seem more of an appropriate name for this particular thread..

Homophobic comments may not break the T&Cs of this forum but they are just as wrong as racism and just as prohibited by law, they break the equality act..

Maybe I am being too sensitive, maybe a little too PC or maybe Im just a person who dislikes reading hate speech targeted towards my community...

Yes I happen to be gay...


yes you are ,i will also add that you are wrong in just about every way possible .I have followed this thread since it started and have seen no homorphobic remarks .In this country the general populace is allowed to dislike sections of the community ,including gays ,lesbians,whatever as much as they are allowed to be part of a particular section of a community ,so get over yourself

Karrington 23-04-2011 13:14

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Originally Posted by Stuart (Post 35220166)
Saying that you disagree with something or that you think it is wrong is not homophopia. By comparing the two, you cheapen the plight of those are generally suffering.

That's makes no sense. Racist talk is racism and homophobic talk is homophobia..

Do you only consider something homophobia when people are violently attacked?

If I were to say black people made me feel sick that would make me a racist..

If someone says gay people make them feel sick they are homophobic.

martyh 23-04-2011 13:16

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220168)
Actually calling Gay people un-natural, and saying that they make you want to vomit is indeed unlawful, it's also morally wrong. If you did that in the workplace you would soon find yourself without a job..


I understand what you are saying people are of course entitled to think and feel however they choose to. Acting upon those feelings however is another matter entirely..


that's called being PC something which you seem adept at ,it is not wrong or illegal for someone to voice there opinion or feelings no matter how much you dress it up .I dislike seeing 2 men kissing it seems unnatural to me so guess what i do ..i don't watch ..i ignore them ,i still feel the same way about it ,because all the PC rules that the likes of yourself invent can't change how i think any more than "us straights" can't change how gay people think

Zing 23-04-2011 13:19

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220168)
Actually calling Gay people un-natural, and saying that they make you want to vomit is indeed unlawful, it's also morally wrong. If you did that in the workplace you would soon find yourself without a job..


I understand what you are saying people are of course entitled to think and feel however they choose to. Acting upon those feelings however is another matter entirely..

Morally wrong? you mean like cheating on a partner? sex outside of marriage? theft ? murder? think morality is stretched pretty thin nowadays

It was obvious you were Gay btw only a uptight homosexual would feel the need jump in feet first into a thread like.

Please tell me where in law its illegal for me to say seeing 2 men kiss makes me feel sick? its just an opinion. Now if I was kicking your head in and saying you kissing your partner makes me sick then it would be.( just an example not a threat) If a group of Muslims can stand and tell a group of soldiers that they should be killed for Allah then I can say you make me feel queezy

I find it offensive that you think my opinions are any less important than yours actualy you are no better than me and your rights no more important than mine just because you happen to be part of a minority. Who do you think you are to come here and tell me how I or anyone else on this forum should think?

Oh and btw I am quite tolerant of homosexuality compared to some but not those who think they have more rights than me because of it

martyh 23-04-2011 13:20

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220172)
That's makes no sense. Racist talk is racism and homophobic talk is homophobia..

Do you only consider something homophobia when people are violently attacked?

If I were to say black people made me feel sick that would make me a racist..

If someone says gay people make them feel sick they are homophobic.

you are allowed to be racist or homorphobic ,that isn't illegal it's acting on those feelings that is illegal ..as you said yourself

Zing 23-04-2011 13:26

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220172)
That's makes no sense. Racist talk is racism and homophobic talk is homophobia..

Do you only consider something homophobia when people are violently attacked?

If I were to say black people made me feel sick that would make me a racist..

If someone says gay people make them feel sick they are homophobic.

may I just point out to you that being homophobic and rasist is only illegal when you act upon the beliefs and cause harressment or violently etc

Karrington 23-04-2011 13:43

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I can see this discussion is pointless. I was hoping to change your opinion, I obviously failed..

Nobody suggested extra or added rights for anybody. I expect total equality not extra rights...
I said your views are offensive, they are to me. I have a right to say that you have made that quite clear.

I came onto the thread because I found it an odd topic to be on here.. Me being uptight has nothing to do with it :)
I enjoy reading the threads here and thought it was a relatively progressive community..

How mistaken I was... Last time I bother discussing anything here of any real value.

I will go off and enjoy the sunshine, instead of wasting my time and energy here.

Zing 23-04-2011 13:46

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220192)
I can see this discussion is pointless. I was hoping to change your opinion, I obviously failed..

Nobody suggested extra or added rights for anybody. I expect total equality not extra rights...
I said your views are offensive, they are to me. I have a right to say that you have made that quite clear.

I came onto the thread because I found it an odd topic to be on here.. Me being uptight has nothing to do with it :)
I enjoy reading the threads here and thought it was a relatively progressive community..

How mistaken I was... Last time I bother discussing anything here of any real value.

I will go off and enjoy the sunshine, instead of wasting my time and energy here.

There is your biggest miskake, Who are you to try and change anyone. I aint here trying to change you

Welshchris 23-04-2011 14:00

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220192)
I can see this discussion is pointless. I was hoping to change your opinion, I obviously failed..

Nobody suggested extra or added rights for anybody. I expect total equality not extra rights...
I said your views are offensive, they are to me. I have a right to say that you have made that quite clear.

I came onto the thread because I found it an odd topic to be on here.. Me being uptight has nothing to do with it :)
I enjoy reading the threads here and thought it was a relatively progressive community..

How mistaken I was... Last time I bother discussing anything here of any real value.

I will go off and enjoy the sunshine, instead of wasting my time and energy here.

what u have to realise is that everyone has a right to an opinion of their own. Saying Homosexuality is unnatural is just their opinion doesnt mean its a right nor a wrong opinion.

Chris 23-04-2011 14:08

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220168)
Actually calling Gay people un-natural, and saying that they make you want to vomit is indeed unlawful,

No, it is not.

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it's also morally wrong.
By which moral code?

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If you did that in the workplace you would soon find yourself without a job.
That might be covered by that workplace's terms and conditions of employment - a matter wholly different than the law, or morality. It might come under the equality legislation under certain circumstances ... see below. This, however, is not a workplace. It is a discussion forum.

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I understand what you are saying people are of course entitled to think and feel however they choose to. Acting upon those feelings however is another matter entirely..
This goes to the heart of your failure to understand the equality legislation. Acting on feelings by merely expressing them aloud is not against any law. The law is only broken if that expression occurs in any of the specific contexts set down in the law, or if the expression is shown to be an aggravating factor in some other crime.

The phrase 'thought crime' is not confined to your inner monologue. The notion is generally held to encompass ideas about freedom of speech and expression also.

Oh, and you really were wasting your time if you thought you were going to change anyone's mind by coming in here and making half a dozen posts telling people what to think. The most you can hope for on a forum like this is an intelligent exchange of ideas and greater mutual understanding. If you want to influence anyone, it takes a lot of time and a willingness to listen as well as speak ... something your last post suggests you had no intention of doing.

Enjoy the sunshine. :wavey:

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 14:45

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Originally Posted by Karrington http://www.cableforum.co.uk/board/im...s/viewpost.gif
Actually calling Gay people un-natural, and saying that they make you want to vomit is indeed unlawful,

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35220211)
No, it is not.

I think you'll find that the Public Order Act (Section 5) says it is - if it causes someone harassment, alarm or distress or to feel insulted.

martyh 23-04-2011 14:52

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220233)
I think you'll find that the Public Order Act says it is if it causes someone to be distressed or feel insulted.

There has to be deliberate intent to cause harassment or distress though .That is a world away from voicing one's opinion

Chris 23-04-2011 14:52

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220233)
I think you'll find that the Public Order Act (Section 5) says it is - if it causes someone to be distressed or feel insulted.

... and I think you'll find that it is not an offence of absolute liability. I.E. intention to cause harassment, alarm or distress must be proved.

It is not enough for someone to stand up and say they are insulted in order to secure a conviction.

The contention here was that expressing disgust about homosexual activity is, in and of itself, illegal. That is not true.

Zing 23-04-2011 14:53

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220233)
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Originally Posted by Karrington http://www.cableforum.co.uk/board/im...s/viewpost.gif
Actually calling Gay people un-natural, and saying that they make you want to vomit is indeed unlawful,



I think you'll find that the Public Order Act (Section 5) says it is - if it causes someone harassment, alarm or distress or to feel insulted.

if someone keeps taking the mick out of my red hair and I feel insulted is that then a public order offence?

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 14:54

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Originally Posted by martyh (Post 35220238)
There has to be deliberate intent to cause harassment or distress though .That is a world away from voicing one's opinion


(1)A person is guilty of an offence if he—

(a)uses threatening, abusive or insulting words or behaviour, or disorderly behaviour, or

(b)displays any writing, sign or other visible representation which is threatening, abusive or insulting,

within the hearing or sight of a person likely to be caused harassment, alarm or distress thereby.


Do you see the word "deliberate" or "opinion" in there?

Chris 23-04-2011 14:54

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Edit ... there is also a defence of 'reasonable conduct'. The Courts will decide what 'reasonable' means, however I would be surprised if any of the open, frank but measured discussion taking place in this thread were deemed to be unreasonable.

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 14:57

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Originally Posted by Zing (Post 35220240)
if someone keeps taking the mick out of my red hair and I feel insulted is that then a public order offence?

If you deem it to be insulting or if it causes you distress then yes, it is.

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35220239)
... and I think you'll find that it is not an offence of absolute liability. I.E. intention to cause harassment, alarm or distress must be proved.

It is not enough for someone to stand up and say they are insulted in order to secure a conviction.

The contention here was that expressing disgust about homosexual activity is, in and of itself, illegal. That is not true.


The facts
(and indeed the law) say different.

Zing 23-04-2011 15:00

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220245)
If you deem it to be insulting or if it causes you distress then yes, it is.

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The facts
(and indeed the law) say different.

but there is no way on the face of the earth I would get a conviction out of it is there?

Chris 23-04-2011 15:01

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220245)
If you deem it to be insulting or if it causes you distress then yes, it is.

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The facts
(and indeed the law) say different.

I'm not sure what a statistical analysis of prosecutions is supposed to prove? At the heart of this issue remains definitions of terms such as 'reasonable' (used in the legislation) and 'verbal abuse or insults' (used in the Civitas document).

How high, exactly, do the courts place the bar on this? At what point does 'reasonable' commentary become 'verbal abuse'?

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 15:05

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Originally Posted by Zing (Post 35220253)
but there is no way on the face of the earth I would get a conviction out of it is there?

Why not? It's a prosecutable offence.

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35220254)
...How high, exactly, do the courts place the bar on this? At what point does 'reasonable' commentary become 'verbal abuse'?

When the person on the receiving end of it deems it to be distressful, abusive or insulting to them.

Zing 23-04-2011 15:06

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Thanks for info Mr A

The Law really is an ass but I should not say in case the law gets upset and does me lol

Chris 23-04-2011 15:11

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220256)
Why not? It's a prosecutable offence.

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When the person on the receiving end of it deems it to be distressful, abusive or insulting to them.

Oh come on ... that won't do at all and I'm pretty sure you know it. ;)

You're proposing a situation where this happens:

Complainant: I feel insulted.
Defendant: My comments were a reasonable expression of my personal feelings.
Complainant: But I feel insulted.
Beak: Guilty as charged.

Section 5(1) of the Act creates an offence, but 5(3)(c) creates a defence. If the defence is valid, you can't just go round in a circle and trump it by re-stating the offence.

Now, once again, I ask out of genuine interest for the views of one who is knowledgeable in these things: where do the courts generally set the bar, beyond which a defence of 'reasonable' comment is no longer acceptable? What makes the comment 'unreasonable'?

martyh 23-04-2011 15:14

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220242)
(1)A person is guilty of an offence if he—

(a)uses threatening, abusive or insulting words or behaviour, or disorderly behaviour, or

(b)displays any writing, sign or other visible representation which is threatening, abusive or insulting,

within the hearing or sight of a person likely to be caused harassment, alarm or distress thereby.

Do you see the word "deliberate" or "opinion" in there?


(3)It is a defence for the accused to prove—

(a)that he had no reason to believe that there was any person within hearing or sight who was likely to be caused harassment, alarm or distress, or
(b)that he was inside a dwelling and had no reason to believe that the words or behaviour used, or the writing, sign or other visible representation displayed, would be heard or seen by a person outside that or any other dwelling, or
(c)that his conduct was reasonable.

That seems to show that intent is required

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 15:19

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35220266)
What makes the comment 'unreasonable'?

The perception / interpretation of the court as to what is "reasonable" in the context of society - racism and homophobia most certainly are not.

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Originally Posted by martyh (Post 35220272)
(3)It is a defence for the accused to prove—

(a)that he had no reason to believe that there was any person within hearing or sight who was likely to be caused harassment, alarm or distress, or
(b)that he was inside a dwelling and had no reason to believe that the words or behaviour used, or the writing, sign or other visible representation displayed, would be heard or seen by a person outside that or any other dwelling, or
(c)that his conduct was reasonable.

That seems to show that intent is required

Marty, What you think it "seems" to say and what it actually says are two very different things - that's the beauty of the law.

Chris 23-04-2011 15:22

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220278)
The perception / interpretation of the court as to what is "reasonable" in the context of society - racism and homophobia most certainly are not.

But you're still skirting around the issue rather than tackling it head-on. There is a level at which it cannot be a crime for a person to express a personal view about homosexuality (it happens, for example, in church pulpits).

Were the application as absolute as you are suggesting, it would be an offence to print the Bible or to read certain passages of it aloud in public. Yet clearly Christian ministers are not being rounded up and prosecuted en masse. I mention Christianity as it's an example I'm familiar with. I daresay there are others.

martyh 23-04-2011 15:22

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220278)
The perception / interpretation of the court as to what is "reasonable" in the context of society - racism and homophobia most certainly are not.

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Marty, What you think it "seems" to say and what it actually says are two very different things - that's the beauty of the law.

no i'm pretty sure that it means intent must be shown,i would be curious as to what your interpretation of it is

Derek 23-04-2011 15:28

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Personally I would think there has to be intention to cause offence.

Stating clearly and calmly "I don't like gays" wouldn't earn you many friends but wouldn't get you a night in the cells.
Screaming "You're a *bleeping* *bleep* and I think you should all burn in hell" will almost certainly get you a pair of shiny bracelets linked in the middle and a night in one or her majesties finest B&B establishments for the evening.

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 15:43

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Originally Posted by Chris (Post 35220283)
But you're still skirting around the issue rather than tackling it head-on. There is a level at which it cannot be a crime for a person to express a personal view about homosexuality (it happens, for example, in church pulpits).

Were the application as absolute as you are suggesting, it would be an offence to print the Bible or to read certain passages of it aloud in public. Yet clearly Christian ministers are not being rounded up and prosecuted en masse. I mention Christianity as it's an example I'm familiar with. I daresay there are others.

Context Chris, context.

The christian minister / church analogy is a perfectly defensible (as such - non prosecutable) scenario in that those doing as you posit are quoting the "word" of a third party in the context of their job.

They could, arguably, offer the defence that they are exercising their religious freedom (which is also protected under the Public Order Act).

Marty

Section 5 of the Public Order Act "Harassment, alarm or distress" makes no mention of "intent". The offences stated are prosecutable under that particular section whether intentional or not.

martyh 23-04-2011 16:07

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220295)
Context Chris, context.

The christian minister / church analogy is a perfectly defensible (as such - non prosecutable) scenario in that those doing as you posit are quoting the "word" of a third party in the context of their job.

They could, arguably, offer the defence that they are exercising their religious freedom (ironically also protected under the Public Order Act).

Marty

Section 5 of the Public Order Act "Harassment, alarm or distress" makes no mention of "intent". The offence is prosecutable whether intentional or not.

It is a defence ,as stated in the act ,that a person has no reason to believe that someone is likely to be caused harassment,alarm or distress ,in other words ..did not intend offence to anyone .It also has to be noted that to cause distress or harassment by saying something like "i don't like gays" has to be directed to someone ,simply stating an opinion in general cannot cause either .If a person says "i don't like you because you are gay"you may have a point especially if it is said in a threatening manner

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 16:15

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Originally Posted by martyh (Post 35220306)
It is a defence ,as stated in the act ,that a person has no reason to believe that someone is likely to be caused harassment,alarm or distress ,in other words ..did not intend offence to anyone .It also has to be noted that to cause distress or harassment by saying something like "i don't like gays" has to be directed to someone ,simply stating an opinion in general cannot cause either .If a person says "i don't like you because you are gay"you may have a point especially if it is said in a threatening manner

Again, Section 5 of the Public Order Act "Harassment, alarm or distress" makes no mention of "intent".

Additionally it is not a defence for a defendant to "state" that he or she had "no reason to believe that someone is likely to be caused harassment,alarm or distress" the defence requires the defendant to prove that to be the case.

"(3)It is a defence for the accused to prove"

As such the opinion of the defendant as to whether his / her statements were insulting or causing distress - whether directed at an individual or not - is irrelevant.

Chris 23-04-2011 16:27

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220295)
Context Chris, context.

I agree completely - this is the point I have been trying to make. Karrington asserted earlier that making certain statements was simply 'unlawful', without any qualification at all. My position is that it plainly is not unlawful in any absolute sense. There is a defence, explicitly stated in the Act right alongside the offence itself.

It is for the courts to weigh up the defence in each case, but a defence there most certainly is, and I am quite sure it is not limited to preachers with Bibles (or any other religious text for that matter).

martyh 23-04-2011 16:30

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220312)
Again, Section 5 of the Public Order Act "Harassment, alarm or distress" makes no mention of "intent".

Additionally it is not a defence for a defendant to "state" that he or she had "no reason to believe that someone is likely to be caused harassment,alarm or distress" the defence requires the defendant to prove that to be the case.

"(3)It is a defence for the accused to prove"

As such the opinion of the defendant as to whether his / her statements were insulting or causing distress - whether directed at an individual or not - is irrelevant.

You do realise that your interpretation of that piece of legislation has effectively outlawed all free speech and opinions

thank the lord you're not a judge

Mr Angry 23-04-2011 17:49

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Originally Posted by martyh (Post 35220327)
You do realise that your interpretation of that piece of legislation has effectively outlawed all free speech and opinions

thank the lord you're not a judge


It's not actually an interpretation on my part Marty.

I quoted a particular part of the legislation verbatim - you are the one who was seeking to interpret it.

AdamD 23-04-2011 18:03

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Regarding the subject at hand, personally, I have no problem if people show affection in public, regardless of gender

But, I do think there's a point at which it becomes TO much.

Holding hands, an occasional kiss on the lips/cheek is fine, but when you cross that line by engaging in full on groping and extended kissing, it should be done in a more private area/place.

Not sure why some people find two men or women kissing as disgusting, or obscene, perhaps they were born closed minded or were raised that way.

My dad is one of those people, but fortunatly, I am not.

Welshchris 23-04-2011 18:47

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Originally Posted by AdamD (Post 35220397)
Regarding the subject at hand, personally, I have no problem if people show affection in public, regardless of gender

But, I do think there's a point at which it becomes TO much.

Holding hands, an occasional kiss on the lips/cheek is fine, but when you cross that line by engaging in full on groping and extended kissing, it should be done in a more private area/place.

Not sure why some people find two men or women kissing as disgusting, or obscene, perhaps they were born closed minded or were raised that way.

My dad is one of those people, but fortunatly, I am not.

there were a str8 couple ejected from the train station here a few days ago after complaints to staff. What Started in just a kiss or two led to her putting her hands down the front of his tracksuit bottoms and he was showing a certain state of arousal.

Stuart 23-04-2011 19:43

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220172)
That's makes no sense. Racist talk is racism and homophobic talk is homophobia..

Do you only consider something homophobia when people are violently attacked?

If I were to say black people made me feel sick that would make me a racist..

If someone says gay people make them feel sick they are homophobic.

You've missed my point...

My point was that expressing disgust at something is not homophobia. Homophobia may be the reason for the disgust, but disgust is not homophobia.


There seem to be conflicting reports regarding what the couple were doing. They say it was a peck on the cheek. Others say it was more. If it was more, then the landlord may well have done the same for a heterosexual couple. Would you consider that Heterophobic?

Also, if they were leaving anyway, why are they bothered? Did he bar them? Even if he did, it's not as if Soho is short of pubs, gay or straight.

There are people who have posted on this thread that I would consider homophobic, but that is based more on the fact that they seem to leap on any thread that includes any reference to homosexuality. There is also one I would also consider racist. *If* they (or anyone) do anything which the admin team feels contradicts either the law or the forum's Ts&Cs, we will act.

But, beyond that, we are not here to censor people wish to say. We are not the thought police.

Kymmy 23-04-2011 20:57

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It's all context and personal viewpoint. What some people don't realise is that the law (or even forum rules) might not agree with their person opinion as to what is racist or homophobic and it's the law (rules) that wins every time.

If we go back to the original story then if the landlord ejected them because it was two men kissing then it is homophobic and discrimination, if he ejected them because it was a couple kissing then it was just him being a prude. He might not see that there is a difference but the law does.

Zing 23-04-2011 21:09

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Originally Posted by Kymmy (Post 35220529)
It's all context and personal viewpoint. What some people don't realise is that the law (or even forum rules) might not agree with their person opinion as to what is racist or homophobic and it's the law (rules) that wins every time.

If we go back to the original story then if the landlord ejected them because it was two men kissing then it is homophobic and discrimination, if he ejected them because it was a couple kissing then it was just him being a prude. He might not see that there is a difference but the law does.

There is also sometimes a difference between law and justice

For example if a gay couple were going at it hammer and tongues literally ;) and were asked to leave and then cry discrimination and win the case the law hmay have been followed but justice has not been done

Kymmy 23-04-2011 22:51

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Not really as in that case the reason for asking someone to leave would be possible lewd behaviour

danielf 23-04-2011 23:34

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220256)
Why not? It's a prosecutable offence.

When the person on the receiving end of it deems it to be distressful, abusive or insulting to them.

I was thinking about this earlier actually, and it just strikes me as a stupidly wide-cast law if indeed there is no provision for reasonableness in that law. It means people can be arrested and convicted for saying 'hello' to their neighbours if the neighbours take offence. In the case in question, the police could round up the kissing couple, the landlord, and anyone else that commented either verbally or gesturally.

Welshchris 24-04-2011 02:52

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Originally Posted by danielf (Post 35220608)
I was thinking about this earlier actually, and it just strikes me as a stupidly wide-cast law if indeed there is no provision for reasonableness in that law. It means people can be arrested and convicted for saying 'hello' to their neighbours if the neighbours take offence. In the case in question, the police could round up the kissing couple, the landlord, and anyone else that commented either verbally or gesturally.

heres one for u :-x

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26877682...ws-weird_news/

Pedro1 24-04-2011 04:46

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Originally Posted by Mr_love_monkey (Post 35213273)
That kind of thing makes me sick - I hate it when I'm in the pub enjoying a quiet pint, and in come 2 male buffalos kissing each other.

With you on this.... I too think it is MANKY.....:nono:

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Originally Posted by Welshchris (Post 35220652)


Lol lol....

Russ 24-04-2011 10:21

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Originally Posted by Karrington (Post 35220192)
I can see this discussion is pointless. I was hoping to change your opinion, I obviously failed..

With respect, what gives you the right to decide that someone's opinion needs changing?

Perhaps some feel yours needs changing? Or is that 'different'?

Going back to the original subject, not wishing to intentionally sound flippant but isn't there a straightforward way for the bar manager to make this right?

Just ask some straight couples who are kissing to leave then he won't end up being labelled 'homophobic' or "gayist" or whatever people are calling him.

I remember a case a few years ago where a group of Asian lads beat up and almost killed this white bloke, with witnesses saying the gang were shouting stuff like "Don't mess with Paki business" as they were sticking the boot in to him. But because the same gang went on that night to beat up some other Asians the judge in their assault trial said he couldn't be sure it was a racist attack so they were only prosecuted for ABH.

Ignitionnet 24-04-2011 14:27

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It's quite depressing when one can be put in jail for hurting someone's feelings.

Chris 24-04-2011 14:31

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Originally Posted by Ignitionnet (Post 35220880)
It's quite depressing when one can be put in jail for hurting someone's feelings.

It would be if it were true. I think the reality of what nutters like the EDL, BNP and MAC routinely get away with on our streets reinforces my view that the courts allow the defence of 'reasonable' comment to be interpreted quite broadly.

martyh 24-04-2011 14:34

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Originally Posted by Ignitionnet (Post 35220880)
It's quite depressing when one can be put in jail for hurting someone's feelings.

If prosecuted and found guilty of such an offence then it is only punishable by a level 3 fine of £1000 max

Ignitionnet 24-04-2011 17:02

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Originally Posted by martyh (Post 35220894)
If prosecuted and found guilty of such an offence then it is only punishable by a level 3 fine of £1000 max

My mistake, merely a thousand quid fine for hurting someone's feelings.

No wonder birth rates are going down when the government is encouraging such a lack of testicular fortitude among citizens.

Zing 24-04-2011 17:40

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Originally Posted by Mr Angry (Post 35220390)
It's not actually an interpretation on my part Marty.

I quoted a particular part of the legislation verbatim - you are the one who was seeking to interpret it.




dude your avatar gives me nightmares its really scary and having a negative effect on my life . Just gonna have to call the old bill to get it sorted lmao

Shaun 24-04-2011 22:35

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I've not been around these parts for a while. :dozey:

It's nice to see the same old faces, in the same old threads, on the same old topics......... with the same old views.

In a fast changing world, it's nice to see some things don't change.... almost reassuring if it wasn't so sad.

Many of the posts in this thread have been a regurgitation of past posts by the same people. It would be much more efficient if you all just put your malicious views on your profiles - or posted a FAQ! :rolleyes:

Zing 24-04-2011 22:48

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Originally Posted by Shaun (Post 35221227)
I've not been around these parts for a while. :dozey:

It's nice to see the same old faces, in the same old threads, on the same old topics......... with the same old views.

In a fast changing world, it's nice to see some things don't change.... almost reassuring if it wasn't so sad.

Many of the posts in this thread have been a regurgitation of past posts by the same people. It would be much more efficient if you all just put your malicious views on your profiles - or posted a FAQ! :rolleyes:

with all due respect not everyone who has expressed a negative view in this thread has malicious intent. My views are quite strong but I wish no one injury harm or suffering

Welcome back :)

Hom3r 24-04-2011 22:50

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This goes to prove what an ass the UK law is.

If I sit in my garden nude, I can be arrested for indecent behaviour, If I see mt female neighbour sunbathing nude I get arrested for being a peeping tom.

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What if the gay couple in question where kissing in a mosque?

Hugh 24-04-2011 22:55

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What if the gay couple had a machine gun, three machetes, and seventeen zombie rabbits?

Equally invalid hypothetical straw-man question......

Zing 24-04-2011 23:03

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35221235)
What if the gay couple had a machine gun, three machetes, and seventeen zombie rabbits?

Equally invalid hypothetical straw-man question......

unfortunately your seventeen zombie rabbits make it impossible no longer hypothetical ;)

Hugh 24-04-2011 23:06

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Hypothesis - an idea or explanation of something that is based on a few known facts but that has not yet been proved to be true or correct

Hypothetical - supposed but not necessarily real or true (Oxford Dictionary)

Zing 24-04-2011 23:15

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35221241)
Hypothesis - an idea or explanation of something that is based on a few known facts but that has not yet been proved to be true or correct

Hypothetical - supposed but not necessarily real or true (Oxford Dictionary)

It also says

Quote:

Logicdenoting or containing a proposition of the logical form
see no logic in zombie rabbits lol

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Hypothetical reasoning is often presented as an extension and application of logic. One of the starting points of the study of such reasoning is the observation that the conditional sentences of natural languages do not have a truth-conditional semantics. In traditional logic, the conditional “If A, then B” is true unless A is true and B is false. However, in ordinary discourse, counterfactual conditionals (conditionals whose antecedent is false) are not always considered true.
Encyclopedia Britannica again uses logic in its definition.

The example given for you definition uses a possible 10th planet (out of date obviously)so its again based around something that is possible Zombie rabbits simply do not exist so any hypothesis on the situation is impossible

Now it would actually be possible however unlikely a gay couple got hold of a machette and a machine gun lol

Hugh 25-04-2011 10:08

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Agreed, the zombie rabbits were a bit too far (zombie mice, perhaps?) - my point, though, was about the relevance of straw-man arguments..

Maggy 25-04-2011 21:39

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Sigh!

Wonders when common sense will start to prevail...Move on and find another pub,there are plenty to choose from.;)

mrmistoffelees 26-04-2011 11:47

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Originally Posted by Maggy J (Post 35222022)
Sigh!

Wonders when common sense will start to prevail...Move on and find another pub,there are plenty to choose from.;)

They might have liked the decor ? ;)

Maggy 26-04-2011 11:59

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Actually it might be to the point if some folk had a go at being a publican/landlord..It's a hard graft of a job with no guarantee of more than a modest profit with extremely long hours just to stay in competition and to stay out of trouble and avoid illegalities (drugs users/dealers) just to keep one's licence..

Not something I personally would take on.

Rillington 19-05-2011 20:55

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Just spotted this topic and I don't want to read through all the posts so I thought I'd restrict my participation at this point to providing people with the latest news about this subject.

The below link provides the latest, reporting that a petition with more than 1000 signatures has been delivered to the pub.

http://news.pinkpaper.com/NewsStory/...-snow-pub.aspx

Chris 19-05-2011 20:58

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So, in the absence of any evidence, the Pink Paper and the organisers of the petition still *choose* to believe that the landlord dislikes gay kissing, rather than kissing in general, in his pub.

Can't say I'm surprised. I wish they'd all get over themselves though.

Rillington 19-05-2011 21:00

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The Pink Paper website was merely reporting the latest rather than expressing an opinion.

Chris 19-05-2011 21:18

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Fair enough ...

Escapee 21-05-2011 10:50

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A gay male couple were asked to stop kissing in my local by the landlady, they ignored the request and were asked to leave. Of course they claimed the request was homophobic, but the landlady pointed out that she didn't think the claim would get them far because she employed 2 gay males behind the bar and one was on duty who they knew.

They were asked to leave for their own safety, because she felt that one or more of the heterosexual males who found it distasteful would be waiting around the corner as they left the premises.

Kymmy 21-05-2011 11:09

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Again it's the reason behind the request which is paramount.. I don't think we'll ever truely know why the soho landlord asked them to leave but I do think that with all the protests and publicity that other landlords will think about their reasons before asking the same.

martyh 21-05-2011 11:36

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Originally Posted by Escapee (Post 35241771)
A gay male couple were asked to stop kissing in my local by the landlady, they ignored the request and were asked to leave. Of course they claimed the request was homophobic, but the landlady pointed out that she didn't think the claim would get them far because she employed 2 gay males behind the bar and one was on duty who they knew.

They were asked to leave for their own safety, because she felt that one or more of the heterosexual males who found it distasteful would be waiting around the corner as they left the premises.

I think that is a legitimate reason .The landlady has a duty of care towards all the patrons and if keeping them safe means asking them to leave then fair enough.
There are a couple of pubs near me that do not allow gays in the bar simply because they will get abused either physically and verbally.Although this is clearly wrong and strictly speaking possibly illegal it is the best way to keep the peace in those pubs

Kymmy 21-05-2011 11:40

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It though does show that some landlords do make wrong decisions for reasons that shouldn't be there in the first place..

martyh 21-05-2011 11:56

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Originally Posted by Kymmy (Post 35241797)
It though does show that some landlords do make wrong decisions for reasons that shouldn't be there in the first place..

Indeed it does .The clientel of these bars state quite openly that "gays have their own bars and shouldn't be comming here" they have taken over the bars in Newcastle center according to them .The ironic part is that the "gay bars" in the Village as it is known where ,untill a few years back,full of hairy arsed Geordies who kept fighting ,stabbing and shooting each other so that the owners where forced to close ,they were then re-opened as gay themed bars ,they allow mixed clientel in but you will never see a hairy arsed geordie in one because they have a reputation to consider ,they are now limited to empty run down bars on the point of closure simply because of their narrow minded views

Rillington 22-05-2011 19:22

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Originally Posted by Kymmy (Post 35241782)
I don't think we'll ever truely know why the soho landlord asked them to leave but I do think that with all the protests and publicity that other landlords will think about their reasons before asking the same.

I think that the situation with the Soho pub will continue to develop and I can't see this ending here.

As I understand the equality legislation, and please correct me if I am wrong, if it ends up in court, which it might, the pub will have acted unlawfully unless it could prove that the pub's staff would have reacted in the same way if it had been a mixed sex couple who had been kissing - ie asked them to leave.

If this does end up in court it will be an interesting test case and then the pub will have to give the reasons why they behaved in the way that they did.

Chris 22-05-2011 19:41

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Your understanding of the burden of proof is back to front.

If it ended up in court, it would be for the complainants (i.e. the pair that were kicked out) to show that, on the balance of probabilities, the landlord was being homophobic rather than enforcing a blanket 'no snogging' policy.

The fact that he asked them to leave is not conclusive proof of anything. The fact that the landlord has made absolutely no statement whatsoever about the matter since then, and no juicy details about his background, politics, or other private tidbits have since emerged, would make it impossibly difficult for them to prove anything.

It is very easy for the complainants to go on a tour of radio phone-ins and bleat about how they felt persecuted. You don't need any evidence to do that. To actually demonstrate in a court that you were persecuted is, thankfully, a little more difficult - rightfully so, because I don't think anybody wants to see perfectly ordinary, law-abiding people sacrificed at the altar of someone else's agenda.

spreadsheet 27-11-2013 23:38

Re: Gay couple claim they were ejected from pub for kissing
 
way I see it - landlord has final say

if he doesn't want them in there he can sling out whoever he wants


end of.

Chris 27-11-2013 23:57

Re: Gay couple claim they were ejected from pub for kissing
 
:bump:

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