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Oh, right, so you think that these sickos who think incest is best spare a thought about contraception?? :rolleyes: |
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Well said, OB :tu: |
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With regard to the latter, if you are concerned about that perhaps you should be advocating eugenics. |
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I never made it an absolute did I?Also I was merely asking for you to stick to my point not acting as a moderator. Not everyone will stick to the rules.They never do.It is realised that incest will happen.Under those conditions the authorities can either say get on with it(thereby risking the wrath of certain voters-probably the majority) or totally ban it.If you say well yes it's alright under certain conditions you just confuse and send conflicting signals to the populace. Our government still stays on the side of a total ban.I don't see them revoking it because they must have a pretty good indication that it is what the majority want.I really can't see any government having a referendum on this issue though so I may be wrong. |
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Of course I'm unintelligent and can't possibly know my own mind.I'm inclined to knee jerk reactions based on being 'brainwashed' by the government and can't possibly read between the lines or make up my own mind. :rolleyes: I believe that incest is wrong on purely scientific grounds.It has been made a moral issue in the past by differing religions because they realised that the offspring of close relatives did display deformities but couldn't explain it beyond the idea that it offended a god or two.Now we have better scientific knowledge perhaps it may be time to discuss the issue further. However having seen the errrr...rabid discussion here I think it's not one that will be discussed rationally anytime soon. Incog signing off to do the house work. :wavey: |
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OK every one take a chill pill break please :erm:
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As for your other two examples, money laundering and car ringing, neither of these are victimless crimes in the same was as consensual incest, so I fail to see what relevance they have to this point? |
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OK we're starting to go :notopic: here :(
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Okay thread reopened - Please keep to the topic and no more flame wars.
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Don't worry I have no intention of contributing to this thread anymore.It's given me far more trouble than it's worth. :mad: Frankly I'm sick of being told my opinions are pointless because I can't think for myself and that I prevent others from having any opinions.
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Is there anymore to be said?
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This thread got very heated, but - for what its worth - I feel that all opinions are valid, and I can see no way in which you are preventing others from having opinions. :angel: Hopefully the thread will resume without the constant sniping that caused the suspension, but if not - remember that this is getting into emotive issues, and people are liable to put down as facts, things that are in fact opinions or beliefs. Maybe its time for a :ghugs: I have already made my position clear, and will be watching the thread with interest :angel: |
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Wonderful, you get a red rep for being "off topic" when the post that earned the rep was a direct reply to one that already had been posted. I`m amazed at how many vigilante mods we have on this board these days.
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I really don't see why this topic needed 6 pages. It's illegal, they will be punished, no one was hurt or killed.
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i dont know what it was like 50 years ago, i wasent even born then, in my experiance the only people who have said that are people who are racist. thats just my experiance. but ofcourse there is blatant ignorance.... |
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I've not explicitly said that incestuous relationships are ok, what I am saying is that your definition of them not being Ok is not based on anything definitive. |
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The argument about in-breeding holds no water as there are areas of the country where a lot of inbreeding is taking place through non-incestuous relationships due to close-knit communities that now have a limited gene-pool. If, to take Orangebird's argument, she needs to be protected from potentially deformed children then surely she should be arguing for breeding controls in these areas of the country. I can`t see that happening, so it does shoot a rather large hole straight through that argument. Take this particular case for instance, how much time and money has been wasted investigating this issue and bringing a prosecution? How much money will be wasted if the mother is given a custodial sentence? These resources could have been put to much better use if directed towards a different goal. I think I`m perfectly entitled to describe some of the reactions in this thread as "knee-jerk" when you see descriptions such as "sickos" thrown around along with a bunch of spurious assumptions as to people's congitive processes in general simply on the grounds that two people committed incest. The argument that they wouldn`t care whether they conceived a child or not simply because they are people who engage in incest is perhaps one of the most tenuous conclusions I've seen expressed on this board. |
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OFF TOPIC: Dr Wadd why don't you just put all your information into 1 reply and not 3? It floods the topic.
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OK time for me to dive in !! :disturbd:
The situation here has nothing whatsoever to do with adults or consent. It has to do with incest - which is illegal (at least in the UK). Morality is not the issue or whether government have the right to legislate. Incest has been outlawed because, I think, of the genetic problems that might arise and also, as mentioned earlier, to prevent 'grooming'. IMO quite rightly. Anyway it is illegal and as such these two committed a crime in the eyes of UK law. I recall a while ago about a man (in Germany ?) who advertised for someone to kill him. There was obvious consent, but IIRC the killer was arrested, tried and sentenced for a crime. I await to be corrected, but I think that was the outcome. :erm: With regard to Incog & OB's comments, I know that if the roles were reversed and the father had had sex with his daughter, the father would most likely be still locked up now ! The law and society in general would have viewed it as a much more serious offence - even with apparent consent. :rolleyes: |
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As I've said, go back 100 years or so and it was very common in Britain.
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Increased possibility of genetic defects and the potential to "groom" a child as it grows up are the only real reasons I can give to back up the illegality of incest. Anyone care to comment on those two reasons? |
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So what makes YOUR opinion so special? Mind you, I think it is sick, but two things: I don't think it warrants psychiatric help, and, it is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. Can you distinguish by people merely granting a right to people to do something and actually voicing an approval? Example. I don't smoke, and I think it is sick and filthy. BUT, I don't go around proclaiming it should be illegal to smoke. I don't use weed, BUT, I don't go around yelling it should stay illegal. I don't condone using it, but it is someone's personal decision. NOT YOURS. Bifta: Thank you so much for the red rep. I especially like the part where you said "but you need to lose again." Does it make you feel powerful? You know, of course, you're not supposed to rep for simple disagreements. :td: |
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And here you go again, making wild comparisons, today it's smoking and incest! What have you got up your sleeve for us tomorrow? I can hardly wait! |
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We don't think it is OUR decision, the government isn't going to listen to us, WE ARE JUST TALKING ABOUT IT!
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OK I recommend this topic is closed, it's getting out of hand, and every one is getting p*ssed off at each other :(
EDIT: Come on you lot, your supposed to be older than me, I'm acting more mature here (no offence) PLEEEEASE sort it, I don't want to feel as if I'm mature WHEN YOUR SUPPOSED TO BE :rolleyes: |
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I'm surprised noone's mentioned Freud yet.
I wouldn't like the thread closed, but I think anyone who is continuing circular arguements should stop. Expecially the 'but it's disgusting' and 'knee-jerk reaction'. |
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Increased possibility of genetic defects and the potential to "groom" a child as it grows up are the only real reasons I can give to back up the illegality of incest.
Anyone care to comment on those two reasons? |
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Grooming is the real reason this is so wrong, parent child and even sibling relationships should have an element of trust in them that means when you are told right and wrong, that is the norm. It seems the scenareo here is easier to discuss as those involved are over 16/18 however to end up in this position, the sons definitions of normal and acceptable must have been severly screwed up by his parents (and the article does indicate a history of abuse). As a parent you are in a position of trust, sleeping with your children in this manner is an abuse of this, as a sibling (i am thinking more of a older sibling relationship here) you are also often put in the same position for periods of time, the same level of trust should apply. I'm suprised that formerly black, formely popular, singer have not appeared in this thread yet. |
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Well, suppose a white child is raised by a black family, and the dad teaches the boy that it is right to date inter-racially...
We should make this illegal immediately because it is disgusting. |
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Good point about the genetic defects, we don't practice eugenics with people who already have genetic defects, so why should we do it against people who only "may" have genetic defects. Remember, you may have a defective recesive gene, but that doesn't mean a close family member of the opposite gender automatically has it too. So, that leaves the protection against grooming as a valid reason for keeping incest illegal, after all, we have similar rules against the risk of teachers/doctors and other influential/authority figures grooming children. Edit - Can we keep away from the "it's disgusting" arguments? they're just personal opinions. |
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In the interests of "seperating the wheat from the chaff" (plus the fact I've had perhaps the worst day at work of my life :D) I think we should have a poll asking: "Do you think it is acceptable for a mother to have sex with her son?".....:angel:
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Straight answer, NO.
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So, you believe that if an 11 year old girl consents to have sex with a man then that's not abuse because she consented :erm: |
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What did he just say? :erm:
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I feel some squirming going on. You clearly stated "There was consent, therefore it was not abuse". Now, when presented with another case of consent, you state it "is abuse". Which view should we believe you hold ? |
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Where is the abuse between them? |
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The two adults in this case can therefore legally give consent, both did, so it is not abuse. In the hypothetical situation you gave as an example, the girl is 11 years old, and therefore even if she says that she consents, she is not considered to be capable of giving consent in the first instance, therefore abuse has occurred. I`m afraid you'll find no squirming going on here, it is perfectly justified to classify the example in the original case as non-abuse, and the hypothetical example as you gave without any contradiction. |
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How come you never seem to prove anything you say then?
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Classic canadian response :) |
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OFF TOPIC: Look at Jerreks reputation :p:
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Do red balls increase as your rep drops? Back on topic, just had a thought about why the mother is being charged and not the son. He's 18 right? But how 18? Think about how many months it takes to get a case to court, it could be that at the time of the offence, he was under 18, or have I missed something in the article? |
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His mother had sex with him WITHOUT his consent (I think) which is why this went to court.
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The government should not advocate morality, yet can prevent gays from screwing up their own adopted children, and encourage abstiance. |
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Put better than I could ever have hoped too :tu: I think the work I'm stumbling around for is "gotcha" |
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If he was 16 (the UK age of consent) would it be different? |
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Ok, let's have a quick summary here:
1) There are some people who think that incest is wrong, full stop, not even when it involves consenting adults and is not for procreation. 2) There are some who think that what consenting adults do in private is nobody's business but their own. On the first point I have not seen *any* reasonable proof or logical argument to back up *why* it is wrong, just circular arguments of "it's wrong because it's incest and incest is wrong" and "it disgusts me and lots of others" which, whilst emotive, is not exactly a reasonable argument. On the second point I have seen reasoned arguments in favour this, yet I haven't seen anyone demonstrate *why* what consenting adults do (especially if not for procreation) should be the business of others. Frankly I have no more interest in contributing to this thread because I enjoy having a reasonable debate but I'm not going to hang around to simply be abused for simply holding a "non-majority" viewpoint. :walk: |
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What ever that was, thank you for removing it Mick :erm:
I'm not posting anything else on this topic, do be truthful it's starting to freak me out :( |
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That guy looks like someone i know lol. There are some wierd ppl out there, God man that is dirty. This is sending shivers down my spine. Anyway think of the husband if the minger has 1. Think of what she said to him:
wife: err malcom (or whatever his name is) im havin an affair Husband: Ho my god just tell me who its with plz Wife: erm its with our son Husband::Yikes: lol |
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I take it the edited post by Mick is the reason that Jerrek has been banned?
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- but, people have been expressing how they feel & what their opinion is about this emotive subject - there can be no "proof or logical argument", for that? - in my view, this is one issue where keeping one's own council (counsel?) is best :shrug: |
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Personally the thought of a mother engaging in a sexual activity with her son at any age be it 18, 16 or 30 or whatever makes me sick to the stomach, how some people can say its got nothing to do with anyone is beyond me, if it wrecks families its got every bloody right to do with other members of the immediate family.
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If those involved had a healthy upbringing and decided that they really were the ones for each other then so be it, some DNA testing and they can procreate for all I care. I guess where this is heading is that I think the current situation has arisen due to issues that social services and welfare should have picked up and managed a decade or so ago. On the other unsnipped part of your post I would like to thank you for your reasoned and well constructed opposing viewpoint. Para 2 above would probably not have existed 290 posts ago, though this has run its course, especially if Jerrek, normally controversial, though not normally banning material has got there. |
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Damnit, I'm away for a day and I miss all the fun. I don't know if it has been said before (lot of pages to check through, but i'll say it again just in case)
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Second point about the morals. Morals are subjective opinions, and noone has the right answer, regardless of what it might be. There is no right answer. And I'm not picking on you here Graham. Just happened to be the first post I came across relevant to what I wanted to say. I'm not attacking you or anything. |
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I would bet that there are several members of this forum who wouldn't have been alive if not for incest.
No I am not talking about your parents so don't get offended! :) Trace your families back to your greatgrandparents or further and you may be suprised! Now there's a scary thought to leave you with! :erm: |
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Exactly how can someone force a man to get an erection? |
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I'm not even going there.
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I think this thread serves as a good example of why I cringe when I glance at the thread listing for the Current Affairs forum, and why I think forums are better off not discussing current affairs. It's a troll playground and about as safe as a circus skills day at the RNIB.
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Sorry If I'm stupid :dunce: |
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I didn't get a word you said basically :p:
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