Cable Forum - Moans and Pet Hates

I know this is bad but the more I'm experiencing my Dad and sister the more I dislike them as human beings as they really are not very nice people in where family means nothing, honestly they do not have a family bone in their body peas in a pod that is what they are.

The two of them deserve each other with their weird idea's. My Dad promised me something only to be told that he and my sister had discussed this matter and guess what he has changed his mind it was nothing of value just yet another broken promise.

I will no longer be taking an active part in his life example hospital appointments, paying his bills etc I will still help out sometimes just not as much he can ask my sister and all I'm saying good luck with that as he will need it trust me.

I need to keep my distance to safe guard myself from further hurt and confusion, Weenie is no longer a doormat for them to wipe their feet on.

I'M DONE!

Enough is enough sometimes. ;) Take care of yourself and your own

MalteseFalcon

14-07-2017 20:39

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I'm scared. My Nan begged me to call 999, she wants to be in hospital because she feels safer there than at home. She thinks she only has days to live, I am trying to remain optimistic but I am struggling like crazy to be optimistic with her attitude. When she had the breast cancer, she was determined to fight it. This time, it's like she has accepted she will die imminently from the brain lesions. I feel so alone, and scared.

weenie

14-07-2017 21:21

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Oh Mark just remember that your Nan is very scared as she is at the moment facing what must seem another battle. It may seem that your Nan has given up but no one really knows how one feels or is dealing with their current situation. Mark all you can do is be strong for your Nan be there for her, be brave for her, be a ear for her, a shoulder to place her head in times of trouble and most important be strong for her by doing this for your Nan believe it or not you will be helping more than you ever know as been there done that and at times after dropping my Mum home after yet another hospital appointment I used drive around the corner pull up and cry my eyes out but never once did I show this stress or upset to my Mum as I wanted to be her rock and I have no regrets in doing this although it was extremely hard at times especially when I was asked how I was coping I simply replied I'm fine while inside I was crumbling.

Do you want to know something I would do it all over again in a heartbeat for my MUM and give my eye teeth for just one more minute with her and hear her voice.

If you need to talk do not hesitate in sending me a pm but I won't lie Mark it is hard but you will be the Grandson I know you are and you do have the strength within you to cope my friend.

denphone

15-07-2017 05:37

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Originally Posted by joglynne (Post 35907826)

@ weenie.

Big pat on the back from me. Hear weenie ROAR, our mouse has turned into a fearsome Tiger. :D

Indeed jo weenie has been faced with a family situation which l am sure many have faced and weenie has definitely done the right thing :tu: as things would just fester if one does nothing sadly.

MalteseFalcon

15-07-2017 08:42

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She didn't go to hospital in the end, I think it was just a panic attack. I came so close to calling my manager last night, I know we've had differences but for some reason I just really wanted to hear her voice last night. I resisted though. Ugh. I know she's scared, I am too. I have cried so many times at work over this.

dilli-theclaw

15-07-2017 19:43

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Just fell asleep for a full 24hrs but I'm still tired :(

weenie

16-07-2017 16:20

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Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35907990)

Just fell asleep for a full 24hrs but I'm still tired :(

You must have needed it dilli, take care.

nashville

16-07-2017 16:42

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Glad it was a panick attack Mark although they can be frightening, Hope you are what well rested now Dill

Hom3r

16-07-2017 16:49

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35907029)

Car park attendant's hovering around and taking license plate photos even before one gets out the car..

I would ask him "What the fuff are you doing, I haven't given you permission to take a photo of my car delete it now and go away"

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Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35906972)

@ nash & Jo, looking through my phone I found these pictures of my lost engagement ring and to think I took these pictures to show my friend via text message the state of my nails. I hope this will help the insurance company should I claim as I am still undecided at what to do. If you look closely you will see the ring is both yellow and white gold. I'm still hopeful that my engagement turns up.

Why is these pictures showing today's date :confused:

Upload time and date?

MalteseFalcon

17-07-2017 02:21

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Thanks nash.

Had a full on nuclear meltdown at work. Stood there and screamed at them all, like proper screaming. They all looked so shocked, they've never seen me lose my cool like that before.

MalteseFalcon

17-07-2017 08:38

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Nan back in hospital. Rather than waking me up to feed the cat, she tried doing it herself and fell over. Stupid woman.

papa smurf

17-07-2017 09:18

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Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35908131)

Nan back in hospital. Rather than waking me up to feed the cat, she tried doing it herself and fell over. Stupid woman.

old folk don't like giving up their independence they like to do things for themselves even if it's obvious they can't .

MalteseFalcon

17-07-2017 11:13

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It was just because she didn't want to wake me up as I hadn't got in until after 2 this morning. I told her, just because I was asleep didn't mean she shouldn't have woken me. I could easily have dozed during the day.

weenie

17-07-2017 11:30

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Mark does your Nan used any mobility aids if not then maybe something like this might be worth trying.

https://www.ebay.co.uk/i/17264369832...5983114&crdt=0

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