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@ weenie. When I read your post I kept thinking " she's jealous !!". I bet she went red in the face and stamped her feet when you didn't react to her tantrum.

You have so much, a family who love you, a son to be proud of, and you must appear, to her, to be able to juggle everything that is being thrown at you ... though I realise that underneath the surface you are paddling like crazy to keep your head above water at the moment.

I pity her, unsuccessfully trying to make you give a public display of your short comings so that she can try to feel justified in the way she has chosen to live her own self centred life.

:tu: for handling her tantrums in such a grown-up way. <hugs>

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Who was that ?

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Tesco.

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Ah, dont use them very often.

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Well its either them or Sainsbury's as Asda are always out of stock of items when they deliver and Morrison's have no online delivery down here currently.

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Weenie, what was your relationship like with your sister before your mums illness?

It could be stress and she is just taking out her frustrations on you.

My dad and his sister had a very rough patch when their mum had a heart attack and she had recovered and insisted on looking after out pooch, she told her daughter how accused my dad of trying to kill her, her returned fire with like the time she came home from work to find her belongings on the doorstep.

Their OK, but my dad still hasn't fully forgotten, and this was 20+ year ago.

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Hom3r it has always been on her terms we are very much like oil and water, I'm very family oriented always have been she is older than me by 6 years. I do not understand her nor her beliefs but I have always made excuses for her to hubby, friends and family. She is very career minded made the decision to not have kids and when the subject came up with her 1st and 2nd husband she divorced them, then she met her 3rd hubby who had a child from his previous marriage and this marriage has worked out for her so far thank goodness as they have been married now for 10 years. Her hubby's daughter just had her 1st baby a couple of months ago and they waited till they could get a cheap flight to see what was her hubby's 1st grandchild may I say that my sister is extremely well off and trust me money is no object to her, now me and hubby would be at the hospital waiting to meet our 1st Grandchild. This year on what is going to be my Mother's last Mothers day she went a girls holiday something that I can't my head around why would you not make your Mother's last Mother's day even more special. When I asked if she could help me with hospital appointments etc she said "I cannot commit nor confirm what I can do" I mean this was our parents that I was asking for help with not a business meeting. So Hom3r there you go that is my sister and I will never forgive her for what and who she is I'm afraid as my eyes have been truly opened (it has only took 48 years LOL)

When I do my parents shopping, housework etc she makes catty comments about here comes Mother earth under her breath she also made this comment just last week when I said to my Dad that I was busy and he would need to wait for his shopping till I dropped the wee one off at his RAF Cadets :confused:

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The do say you can pick your friends but not your family.

Try not to let it get to you.

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Got a new fan for the laptop, installed and.. It's still the same problem that it fails POST even though it runs up. Grrrr...

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got my car insurance quote this morning £ 313.28

went on go compare my company came out on top with a cheaper quote called them saved £43.78 not a fortune but better in my pocket than theirs new quote £269.50 .

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.....and STILL no needle test, this is getting silly. The woman is off next week so not then either. Maybe I should jab myself!

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I'll do it for you, you'll look like a porcupine by then end though

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Cool - save the NHS the time and hassle :) :tu:

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Plus I'll enjoy it, you, not so much

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He'll be like one of those cartoon characters that takes a drink and the water comes spraying out of the holes. :D