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Where does time go? My week off, finished. Ugh. Back to the grind tomorrow.

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Glad all is well Den, Did you not get put to sleep? I get one of these every two years but I get knocked out,

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No they would rather not put me to sleep because of my medical conditions nash so l was well awake sadly for everybody around me.

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Bloody patient transport picking me up at 10.30 instead of 6.30...... no reason or apology given. So I'm stuck here in dialysis without food or tea until after four.

I'm quite irritated.

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Sorry to hear about that dilli.:(

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When someone you have admired and looked up too all your life, lets you down time after time it suddenly hits you that they have always been a selfish self centered person and all the years you thought they were fantastic were seen through rose tinted glasses and wee sister eyes, it is only now that you realise everyone was right about them and the only reason they never said anything to you before was out of respect for you. I feel such a fool that I still believed that she would eventually take on some sort of responsibility and would share the hospital visits, shopping tasks etc
The more I see of who this person is the more I realise it is someone I never knew, well as they say there is no fool like a old fool and what a fool I have been in believing right up to last night that she would come good when push comes to shove! How wrong I was.

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My Dad as my Mum has just phoned me up to say Dad has had a severe nose bleed this morning for 40 minutes so l have told her to phone the doctor forthwith as he is feeling nauseous as well.

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Den I hope your Dad will be okay, take care weenie x

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Yes so do l as he has had TIA's and suffer from other health problems as a result of the Falklands war and his ship being hit weenie.

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At least you know now, better late than never, don't beat yourself up it's her fault not yours

Hope your dad's okay

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@weenie, hopefully things improve. Always sad when you realise that you cannot make excuses for people any more.

@den, hope things improve ASAP.

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Don't beat yourself up, your sister is not worth it. I know which of the two of you I admire and who I would choose to have as a daughter or friend, YOU.

It sounds as though you have people who respect you enough to have wanted to protect you in the past and it is those same people who can counsel you in the future. At least you now know where you stand and you can move forward without having to take any mind to your sisters opinions and feelings. You have put your parents well being to the top of your list of priorities and that is all that matters. :)

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So sorry weenie to hear about this as sadly we can pick our friends but we cannot pick our family as sadly as l expect some of us have found out in our own lives so far like you have sadly.

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Hope your Dad is OK by now Den, Weenie you can hold your head up high as you do all you can and more with love and affection,

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I caught a driving instructor on dashcam Driving with one hand out of the car with a cigarette in his hand.

So driving without due care and attention then.