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Nidge41 10-10-2013 10:56

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35630205)
Horrific! RIP to the little lad and condolences to his loved ones.

It'll be interesting to see how much effort is put into getting to the bottom of this and what the motives were. I must say that, if true, the head teacher's remarks seem appallingly insensitive. Does someone like that belong in teaching, let alone at this level?

Correct, I think OFSTED will be paying them a visit again.

Arthurgray50@blu 10-10-2013 11:47

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
This is a very sad case. BUT, no matter what is said by schools or local authorities, Bullying will continue.

I am nearly 62 years old and l got bullied at school for five years at my school. This will NOT stop unless schools stop coming out with all this crap about we will not tolerate bullying on our premises.

If parents report it, they are almost certainly told that 'its the kids imagination' they will not believe it. schools have a responsibility to parents and the kids while they are at school, and the head teacher should be fired if its proven that it was reported, and they did nothing to help.

RIP little lad, but its sad he took his own life due to idot and sick kids who think its fun to bully other kids.

thenry 10-10-2013 12:14

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
:mad: what did the kid do to deserve this...

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‘Next time it will be a real one.’
if nothing then I can only assume it animal, marking territory and all.

RIP little 1

Nidge41 10-10-2013 13:00

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
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Originally Posted by Arthurgray50@blu (Post 35630230)
This is a very sad case. BUT, no matter what is said by schools or local authorities, Bullying will continue.

I am nearly 62 years old and l got bullied at school for five years at my school. This will NOT stop unless schools stop coming out with all this crap about we will not tolerate bullying on our premises.

If parents report it, they are almost certainly told that 'its the kids imagination' they will not believe it. schools have a responsibility to parents and the kids while they are at school, and the head teacher should be fired if its proven that it was reported, and they did nothing to help.

RIP little lad, but its sad he took his own life due to idot and sick kids who think its fun to bully other kids.

Bullies can't stand up for themselves they feel inferior and weak, that's why they bully.

alanbjames 11-10-2013 16:59

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
Bullying really needs to be sorted within schools.

A few weeks ago a 12 year old attempted to hang himself locally to me but thankfully he was found by his mum in time after she wondered why the family dog was barking like hell upstairs.

He was being bullied for being gay at school and having txts and emails.

SMG 11-10-2013 20:11

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
I was Bullied in school. I was Bullied till I joined the Army. Then I became the Bully out of necessity. I took great delight in meeting my old school chums, one who stood at a urinal when I grabbed him & forced his head down the toilet bowl. Then I stood back so he could see me. He said, "Who are you?". I said "I`m every kid at school, who you beat & stole money from". I didn't leave it at that, & thinking back some 40 years, I don't regret it.

I was lucky, this young lad`s life has been torture to the extent he preferred death, & that makes my blood boil.

The only thing a Bully fears, is a bigger Bully, & thankfully most meet one, & suffer the consequences. I`m not proud of what I did, I have done much worse, but I`m afraid where children are concerned, there should be more supervision, & more punishment.

Sort out the children now, & save the Police & Prison Officers a job.

Mr_love_monkey 11-10-2013 23:58

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
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Originally Posted by Nidge41 (Post 35630276)
Bullies can't stand up for themselves they feel inferior and weak, that's why they bully.

I'm not sure that's correct - some of them are just down right nasty little ***** who like to cause misery.

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Originally Posted by SMG (Post 35631011)
I didn't leave it at that

What else did you do?

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Originally Posted by SMG (Post 35631011)
I`m not proud of what I did

Hmm... maybe if a few more bullies saw what could lay in wait for them 10 or so years later - maybe that would prevent them doing it.

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Originally Posted by SMG (Post 35631011)
I`m afraid where children are concerned, there should be more supervision, & more punishment.

I think the issue is that for the kids that bully, most of their parents don't care - how can you punish the kids, when the parents won't back society up?

Damien 12-10-2013 00:19

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35630205)
Horrific! RIP to the little lad and condolences to his loved ones.

It'll be interesting to see how much effort is put into getting to the bottom of this and what the motives were. I must say that, if true, the head teacher's remarks seem appallingly insensitive. Does someone like that belong in teaching, let alone at this level?

Yes we will have to see when it comes to the inquest because it looks pretty shocking on first inspection.

Osem 12-10-2013 09:50

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
I wonder if the head teacher's union has anything to say about what's being reported.

broadbandking 12-10-2013 10:47

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
Sick little *******s should be thrown out of school.

Zee 12-10-2013 11:30

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
this is disgusting those children should be taken in for special help they really need it, but would 9 year old children really say these type of things like "all white people should be dead" and "next time it'll be a real one" or does it sound exaggerated?

broadbandking 12-10-2013 13:23

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 35631168)
this is disgusting those children should be taken in for special help they really need it, but would 9 year old children really say these type of things like "all white people should be dead" and "next time it'll be a real one" or does it sound exaggerated?

When I turned 11 I was slashed by a 9 year old with a knife and he knew what he was doing, so yes they do say things like this plus I have seen kids younger been racist to other kids, the kids that did this prob get it from the parents so I say just throw them all in a pit to rot.

Osem 12-10-2013 13:39

re: [MERGED] Boy 9 found hanged
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Zee (Post 35631168)
this is disgusting those children should be taken in for special help they really need it, but would 9 year old children really say these type of things like "all white people should be dead" and "next time it'll be a real one" or does it sound exaggerated?

They might well say stuff like that if they've heard their parents, elders, peers etc. say similar things. They might also embellish racist messages they've heard elsewhere in their own childish manner. The internet is full of hateful messages posted by kids and children of are largely a product of their parents and the environment in which they're raised.

thenry 25-11-2013 15:38

Teen In Birmingham Goes Missing Following Suicide Of Brother
 
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Adam Dugmore was last seen by his parents at around 8.45am when he left the family home on Tyburn Road, Erdington, to go to school.

http://www.expressandstar.com/news/e...de-of-brother/
Heads up for those of you in Birmingham

Taf 25-11-2013 19:14

Re: Teen In Birmingham Goes Missing Following Suicide Of Brother
 
Safe and well

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...safe-well.html


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